Guys: Have you ever cried over a girl? Who was she? What happened?

[Anonymous]

Guys: Have you ever cried over a girl? Who was she? What happened

[Anonymous]

I don't know how true it is. The person who told me this might have wanted me to feel bad. However, there is this guy I was really interested in but I didn't think he would ever go for me because I am ugly. So I didn't bother and I decided to look elsewhere. One of my co-workers is a friend of mine, and we made a dumb mistake one night. We got drunk and ended up together. I didn't know it would bother my crush since I didn't think he'd go for me, and I didn't know they were that good of friends. I just thought my co-worker and me had a mutual friend, but that was it. Anyway, it turned out my crush liked me for years, but he didn't want me to know because he didn't think I'd go for him. I guess when he found out I went for his friend he got teary eyed. He didn't have a full on cry I guess, but it was some watery eyes.

However, I don't know if it's true. My co-worker might have just tried to lay a guilt trip on me. I've never heard of a guy crying over a crush. I could understand a girlfriend and definitely a wife but not for a crush.

[Anonymous]

The first girl I ever asked out was a close friend. I was totally in love with her. I was clueless about girls, as I was 18 and had never had a girlfriend, had never approached a girl, and so had never been rejected. She said no and that she'd just started a relationship. I was heart-broken. I managed to hold back the tears while she gave me a comforting hug. But then I rushed home and wept my heart out.

But the first cut is the deepest. And despite all the sexual and romantic experience I've gained over the years, I've never cried over a girl since.

[Anonymous]

it was my second crush and i cried after i was missing her like hell and she was gonna shift to another country...

[Ifooogoiii]

I cried for a my ex, she was my 1st, i loved her truly. One day she said it wouldn't workout between us and she then later broke up with me, i cried for her almost more than half a year, i literally never spoke to any girl, i was way to much deeply in love with her, but after she broke up she never texted me back and i found out that she was happy and never thought about me. Damm since then i never trusted a girl, whenever i tried to text her she doesn't respond properly, glad through my cousins and my friends help i got out.

[Dwade9696]

Once with my first love of 3 years who enjoyed every ounce of pain she caused, and never again will I cry or appear vulnerable to a female. Women will tell us we need to be more in touch with our emotions, but even if you do have to shed a tear or two, never breakdown Infront of a woman.

[bleedingquadrophenic]

Fuck no.

I've had a girl cry when I broke up with her though. Fucking creepy too, we barely dated 3 months

[sherlocked]

So mean! You are talking as if it was 3 hours, not 3 months -_-

[Asker]

3 months is not a long time
Calm down sherlocked

[Asker]

He's right. It is creepy

[bleedingquadrophenic]

It was fucking creepy though! And she told me she didn't do the whole "serious" thing. And she was just creepy in general. She still is. Very creepy.

[Asker]

hahaja I agree
Some people are creepy. This guy I was talking to for a week wanted me to move with him to Alaska or Maine. I'm like no wtf. I barely know you.

[sherlocked]

Anon- I am all calm :)
Bleeding- Ish. Poor girl.

[bleedingquadrophenic]

Asker - At least you don't have to see the guy every day!
Sherlocked - Well I wasn't an asshole about it. I even gave her the "it's not you, it's me" treatment. 'Sides, she was dating some other dude like 2 months after that so big fuckin deal. I still maintain that she's a creep.

[sherlocked]

Ah. Fair enough.
And I was only kidding :)

[DerrickRicketts93]

I've never cried over a girl but I did get sad over one because I found out she was cheating.

[rUinSAYAN]

I did. girls are cruel lol

[ConfusedJoeyyy]

I did, Caught her cheating, Devastated