What do you think about this video - borderline deformed guy approaching women?

Question

In my opinion. Person who persuade this guy to approach women should be flogged. It revolting to make fun of a deformed person. Tragic shit. Because the guy is actually a decent guy. You can tell he is a nice guy and has been shit on his entire life. All this PUA scheme has done has given him a false glimmer of hope while will at some point be shattered and quite possibly lead to severe depression (or an even more severe depression than he was suffering before). Not only does this needlessly humiliate him but it also sets him up for total social exclusion and extreme depression. So, so horrible.﻿

AndyWes · Accepted Answer

He hardly looks deformed. He looks a bit ugly, and that hairstyle/glasses are not doing him any favors, but he hardly seems deformed. He's sabotaging himself in two ways.

1. He seems to be approaching very attractive women. He's realistically going to have a better chance of approaching plain/unattractive women. A plain/somewhat ugly guy like him is going to have a hard time landing a babe.

2. Why the fuck is he literally jumping in front of women and such on the sidewalk? That's completely not how you do it... you don't approach women like some desperate salesman. You go into places, see situations where you can actually start a conversation, and go from there. If she feels like chatting, it will show. If she doesn't feel like chatting, you'll notice and you walk away. There's always openings to chat. Hell, I struck up a short conversation with a girl in the deodorant aisle who was weighing two options, remarking how the aluminum in anti-antiperspirant supposedly gives you Alzheimer... you can make remarks about what's around you, easily, to start a conversation. It's very easy. Hell, one time when I was learning, I literally approached a cute girl and asked if she was an actress. She had a laugh, seemed entertained.

Though, all that aside, why are you acting like he's so badly off, and people who teach game are mocking him? Let's face it. His odds of getting a girlfriend, even with his bad approach, is way higher doing what he's doing than not approaching.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

More balls than most of the normal looking guys on this site lol. That's bad when this guy can work with the cards dealt to him, but other dudes can't get beyond their frustration with how life works, shyness, bitterness, or worry about their dick.

This guy was even stanced like he was ready to teabag the first chick.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The man doesn't appear deformed, however the way he approaches women is just plain scary. He stops them in their tracks and blocks them from leaving, even when they show they're in a hurry and uninterested. He kept trying to have a conversation with that woman who clearly stated she had a boyfriend. And he tried to get the number of another woman he didn't know whatsoever. It's disrespectful and intimidating. Not to mention it's one thing if a guy spots a woman in like a coffee shop or something that he thinks is stunning and decides to be bold and compliment her or flirt with her or something, but it's come truly different when you use the same line over and over as this guy did. Obviously he's not sincere in the slightest, he reeks of desperation and it's frightening.

vmw2008 · Accepted Answer

He doesn't look deformed to me. Regardless, I see a lot of things wrong with this.
1) He's only approaching very gorgeous women. Most men would get rejected by the top% of women. Why is there no advice to approach a wide variety of women since he's not exactly a Brad Pitt look alike. He's allowed to be shallow about looks but they are not?

2) He's approaching in a very scary manner. He won't even let them walk away. Girls are taught to be defensive in public as it is, and he made me uncomfortable just watching.

3) He uses the same line on every girl. He's hardly being genuine. He's reading from a script and seeing who falls for it. When you approach with less than genuine intentions, you can't expect genuine results.

mcgillbound · Accepted Answer

Psychologically, we are wired to avoid people with deformities because our minds register it as disease. It's not these girls' fault, it's literally just a defense mechanism. What's wrong is the way he is approaching them. It is evident that this was not made for legit reasons.

GoldCobra · Answer

Fear is a heavy burden to hold

I used to daygame for a short time myself. The more you do it, the better you get at it and the more confidence you gain in yourself. I applaud any guy who has the audacity to do this right here. I used to watch a lot of daygame videos on youtube, it helps get you motivated.

I think it's great what he's doing. Definitely a good way to meet girls, much better than approaching at bars/clubs when girls are ready to reject most guys right away. I know everyone is bashing the idea of jumping in front of girls as he does in this video. I don't think it's really a bad idea as long as you give her the choice of leaving, but I personally wouldn't do it. When he steps in front of her as she was trying to leave i will say i believe that is over-doing it, but guess what, at least he's doing SOMETHING rather than nothing. People on here censure this guy for his aberrant behavior, but he is doing something a lot of us are unwilling to do and he is benefitting from it.

Is he going to come off as creepy? Is he going to get rejected? Yes to both questions. A person should not be afraid to be rejected or to come off as creepy. Fear is a heavy burden and these thoughts will hold you back from approaching women.

DandelionSeed · Answer

he's not deformed. He only has some abnormality with his right eye, I think, but otherwise he's not that bad.
It's his way of approaching that's alarming the women. He jumps in front of them and blocks them... Fuck if a guy does that to me I would get ready to smack him with my bag and run for my life. It's a threatening move. And way too agressive.

PUA is bullshit. You notice the types of guys who believe in PUAs? Douchebags. Just look at the types of guys on GAG who believes in all these PUA bullshit. Scum guys.

BC1001 · Answer

I give him a lot of credit but my gut is telling me those girls are paid actors. in real life they would laugh at him. I've been told I'm average looking and even been called cute but I know its all a bunch of bull shit from the women and girls on here. Non of them would ever give me the time of day in person. I've learned to just give up trying to ask women and girls out. Its just a waste of my time. 95% Of women want the Tall dark handsome rich types the other 5% are not as picky or not as desperate.

naturallywonderful · Answer

It's honestly the way that he approaches them. Yes, judging from this video, he really is a nice guy; however, if this is the first time ever that you see him you don't know that nor do you know what his intentions are. Girls are taught to on guard when meeting guys in public, and for a guy to randomly come up to a girl, block her oath, then give her his cellphone and ask for her number and persist even when she already feels uncomfortable, is a huge "no". This applies for any guy no matter how attractive or unattractive they are. If he had gone up to them genuinely started a conversation before making a move, and wasn't as aggressive (not that he meant to be) with his actions then he (and any other guy in his situation) would have had a lot more success.

rUinSAYAN · Answer

well. this guy is one that does what other people say is real. he didn't get smart from the PUA scene. actually pua videos are made for people to get an example, not to be the example. Its made to give people a grid to order their approach but not to make them follow it all and be stuck if it doesn't work. and last is that PUA sites try with marketing telling you'll get gorgueous women no matter what (he took it to serious) you can approach girls, but you can only 'win' if they find you attractive too. I didn't see the video but I see how others reacted and want to clear the pua thingy

yesmylove · Answer

It's not his appearance what's not getting him any friends or gf it's how he is approaching these women. He jumps in front of them scaring them and just appears out of no where. It's just creepy. Like others said he doesn't look deformed he looks normal to me.

Azara · Answer

If what he us doing us PUA then PUA is his problem. It's creepy and disrespectful and ducking annoying. I like him something about him is genuine and he had a certain charm but if any guy approached me like that eventually us kick him that's just fucked up.

He doesn't look deformed just a bit unusual but he could make it work for him with many people... But not through PUA. Remingds me if vomittng in someone PUA must stand for puke.

kambo_trick3y · Answer

Pft. That's nothing. Meet Lizzie Velasquez, who's unofficial title is called "World's Ugliest Woman."

udolipixie · Answer

What do you think about this video - borderline deformed guy approaching women?
I find it amusing. Likely the gals are going to be berated for not giving him a chance and being shallow all while overlooking that he is suggesting shallowness himself by not approaching borderline deformed gals.

'You can tell he is a nice guy. '
Egh I couldn't tell that considering how in the first few seconds of the video he iscontinuously blocking a gal's attempt to leave by moving in her way so she can't escape him seemingly without aggression or calling attention to the scenario. This is something he does repeats in the second approach.

still_waiting · Answer

Kinda mean to call someone deformed because they're unattractive? Do you know what deformation is?
Anyway, I don't know who in their right mind thinks it would be a good idea to jump in front of women in the street and give an awkward spiel and block them from leaving. Its awkward as fuck. Regardless of his looks, he's creepy

Venatrix · Answer

He was being way aggressive no matter what if he was any other guy the girls would treat him the same way like come on he's a stranger and he just jumped into your path and you can't side step him but yeah he just needs to tone it down and approach girls in a different way that way they won't be so guarded

lordAlex818 · Answer

Well, he isn't deformed. He's just ugly. And that's not the only thing hurting his chances here. He's approaching attractive girls who either have boyfriends or could get a boyfriend hotter than him. Also, the manner in which he's approaching women is not a great way to get a gf. Believe me, I've tried lol.

So when you consider his lack of compassion for girls, his social awkwardness, going for girls out of his league, and ugliness... it's no surprise he's not getting a girl. The thing is, 3 of the 4 problems are his fault.

alltheabove1212 · Answer

This is not PUA's fault. While I think PUA is a scam, he's the one actively trying to use it. Also, he's literally JUMPING at girls. That would freak me out. And he doesn't seem genuine at all. All of the video is pretty cringe-worthy.

Anonymous · Answer

All PUA systems are full of shit. That doesn't mean this guy is going to be alone for life. Just that he needs to understand what is a good approach and what isn't. This isn't.

He is going to need time to win a girl over his looks. That's a given. No point in sugar coating it. Will it be difficult? Absolutely. He will have to try harder than the average guy. But is it impossible? Definitely not.

lumos · Answer

What I think about it? This is practically a video on how to NOT approach women.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

I'm not sure if I agree with you 100%. Up to that point, maybe he was terribly shy and wouldn't talk to women at all. As he goes on his own, and learns what works and doesn't - maybe he can step up his game into success.

Rail2k · Answer

He's just being way too fake, it seems like the girls can tell the crap he's trying to pull on them. Plus a random guy walking up to you and basically trapping you is a pretty uncomfortable situation.

shacodraco · Answer

He is failing because he is trying WAY TOO HARD. And why is he jumping in front of women like that? Fucking creepy even if it is in public.

DirtySouthCornbread · Answer

Woah, that's terrible. He jumps in front of them and is all up in their personal space. No girl is ever going to like that. And then it's really creepy when he won't let the girl leave, he's likely to get pepper sprayed one day :D

kewkewsie · Answer

maybe he will find an above average looking girl who will give him a freebie. people shouldn't be shallow but he is being just that. unjustified. I agree with izzy

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

He needs to leave people alone he's pretty ugly but he doesn't look deformed he is jumping in front of these women and when they try to leave he blocks them. dudes like him is what mace is made for

SaVes · Answer

I don't see any defomration. Either way, the way he approaches women is nothing but scary and creepy.

nooriginality · Answer

well if he wasn't so social fucked maybe some one would give him a chance. but seriously, the guy was blocking the girls path way

Bluemax · Answer

I think that invading someone's personal space and blocking their path is ill advised whether you look like George Clooney or this guy.

Izzy2102 · Answer

I don't think he's deformed that badly. I wouldn't really have noticed it as that, just that he's not really handsome
It's sad that he feels everyone around him rejected him including family, friends and teachers. Although I think for dating most people aim for someone of similar attractiveness. He seemed to approach only above average looking girls, so I don't know what you expect to do?

Chris011 · Answer

He's not approaching them in the right way. Definitely coming on too strong. I'd be a bit freaked out also if he came up to me like that.

Anonymous · Answer

He doesn't seem deformed? But he needs to stop jumping out like he's about to mug someone. PUA does seem like a scam to manipulate guys, though.

Vegvisir · Answer

"I discovered the world of seduction and daygame" Yeah... I think it's good that it has given him confidence and stuff but he really needs to stahp. His "daygame" makes me cringe

MysteryBoy95 · Answer

I think it's great what this guy is doing and no I don't think he should stop this. He has good confidence and girls will pick up on this and he will have success.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure someone persuaded him I think he took a pua class, saw some decent looking instructors have success and is completely delusional in thinking he can pull that off too.

ThreeIn · Answer

its not his looks that's scaring them away, its his approach, he's being too aggressive, its creepy.  The way he steps in their way when they try to get away, that's pretty rapy.

Anonymous · Answer

False glimmer of hope? So becoming more confident and social is bad? And by the way, his does go out with girls, not every girl rejects him.

He's approaching them wrong, but at least he's learning and making an effort to meet women.

bubbletrouble · Answer

The guy is a socially awkward ugly person. Obviously he keeps getting rejected. He just keeps jumping their way.

LeQuack · Answer

Confidence is the ONLY thing that matters for guys so what's the problem? Looks has no factor for attracting women.

pearspearspears · Answer

I think he's acting like an as*hole and the fact he is deformed doesn't make a difference either way.

LittleSally · Answer

He's not deformed... He's just socially awkward.

kaitlovesyou · Answer

I think that, you sir are rude

moviedude714 · Answer

it is what it is

Anonymous · Answer

That's not how I would approach a woman.

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