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Well, if your that cocky about your looks, then why should this question be asked?
Personally, I'm open to anything, as your soul mate can come in any shape, size, or kind. I always take a spin once before I know if he's not right for me.216 Reply- +1 y
Most of the time it doesn't necessarily matter what you look like when it comes to love, but a personality that you showed in your question details wouldn't "arouse me in minutes", but rather turn me off more than anything.
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I hope you get rejected by men 100x, then tell me how you feel. You obviously have not gone through it. If you experience this, you will empathize with me. I don't know if you will ever understand. For your information, it does matter how a person looks or they would NEVER be rejected. Why are you sounding so modest?
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It's quite ignorant for you to assume my past dating life, and how I have never been rejected. I've been rejected many times, and I don't take it personally. Yeah, it definitely sucks, but you have to move on from it. You can't just let a stupid rejection control your life for more than 5 minutes. Learn to laugh at yourself. Everyone has their own taste, as you and I do. Your questions was indeed, very cocky sounding.
"I know that I look sexy with or without my clothes and can arouse a girl within minutes." It's great to have that attitude towards yourself, and to have that kind of confidence, but if a man ever said that to me like that I would be more than turned off.
If you think a relationship relies on 100% looks, then you clearly won't have any luck in a successful relationship sir. It's very egotistical of you sir.
I doubt you even look like that in your profile pick. You most likely have created this question for compliments because you lack self confidence IRL - +1 y
Are you a guy or a girl? I am shocked that you have been rejected. Maybe you look different than what I am thinking. I make statements here, but NEVER in person, just not my style. I know initially, looks do play a big part and race does play a role, depending on where you live. I look even better than my profile pic, you have to be open minded, not closed like many girls are. I do lack confidence because I have not succeeded here, whereas in other places I do. The question is Why? I think the male to female ratio is 5 to 1.
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From my profile photo, I am a woman (sorry that statement had unintentional sarcasm. lol).
You do indeed have to be open minded, as I personally am. I'm extremely open minded, and that alone sometimes turns some guys I know off. - +1 y
I was asking cause some guys pretend to be girls here. Anyways, why are guys turned off by open minded woman? I have had girls give me their real phone numbers and when I call them, they hang up. Do you think calling them a "bitch" or cursing them and telling them that just like their lives, their beauty has a time limit, so they come down to earth from cloud nine, justifies my response? I have done that many times and honestly they deserve it cause I don't deserve that type of treatment.
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Your first statement is completely understandable. I've seen many women under the male profiles. I've actually been told my a couple guys I've been on dates with that a woman who is too open minded is a turn off. I find that rather.. uncomprehending.
I don't think that calling a woman a bitch, cursing at them, insulting their beauty, - +1 y
I don't think that calling a woman a bitch, cursing at them, insulting their beauty, justifies any response. It is not a reasonable response. You shouldn't be that hurt over a stupid little rejection. If anything, you should analyze what happened, and change little things to see what works and what doesn't. If you do that, you look like a complete asshole, and you'll never get a call back. Please don't mistake that for me calling you an asshole. I can't make a such statement, since I do not know anything personal about you. It's okay to upset or hurt by it, but for only 10 minutes. Shrug it off, and try again with another beautiful lady. Shit happens, and we can't control it. Sometimes things don't work out the way we want it to, that's life. Learn from the past experiences and change what you think needs to be changed to make it work. You don't deserve that treatment, agreed, but those women don't either. What if they were nervous to talk and just hung up?
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What I am saying is some of them think they will be 21 forever and therefore are arrogant. If you are interested in some dudes and all of them reject you and tell you that you are ugly (indirectly) how would you react to that? Wouldn't it hurt your feelings? What about your self esteem? Would you then not feel like cursing them? Understand? Yes, you do understand.
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I totally understand. I would feel hurt, and a little upset about it for a few. I would feel like cussing them out, but I wouldn't because it would make me look like a sensitive idiot. Yes, some women do think they will be 21 forever, but you can't let that control your feelings in general. It's life, and we just need to learn to ignore and move on from those ignorant people.
How do you know they call you ugly if they do it indirectly? A rejection does not mean you are automatically ugly. Most women nowadays are extremely picky over the type of guys they want, and if that guy doesn't one small thing they want, they have no guilt in throwing them away. It's a shame really. Though, I don't think overly insulting them will solve anything, even if it serves a little self completeness.
Your self esteem may be hurt, but you shouldn't let a few rejections kill ya. Let them come to you! Maybe you're looking in the wrong direction! It'll all be good. - +1 y
Shit happens. It's great to have confidence. I've met some men that don't have a great amount of confidence, and they're scared to just say hello to a woman/man (whatever they're into).
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I can't stand men that fuck a woman, get her pregnant, then just bail on the entire relationship. It's disgusting to me.
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hmm i dont think theyre 'my type' tbh...
by the way there's a very fine line between confidence and being egotistic. ur sort of bordering on it with ur statements so just watch that so u dont push women away if they fall for u:)44 Reply- +1 y
u can say whatever u want bout urself but i prefer a man who can walk his talk.
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well thats good
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Are you that despo dude? I don't get it as to why Indian guys are so curious to know if a white girl likes a Indian guy! Disgusts me! Especially your cocky attitude!
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I would prefer he apologized himself, cause I am an Indian myself, and having a fellow Indian asking this kind of question to white girls and not of a indian girl is like WTF!
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LMAO! 4realz doe... xD
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I just have experienced some women behaving a certain way. e. g small penis and body odor. This is a total stereotype. I have been in Canada my whole life and have a shower daily, put face cream, deodorant and cologne. Also, I do not have a penis, but a manly COCK. I am cocky cause this is the only way white women understand that they are communicating to a man, not a boy.
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No, they smell like curry and body odor.
And they have the smallest penis in the world
https://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/6161691.stm16 Reply- +1 y
Size queen?
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small or not, they are the fastest growing population along with China...
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I don't smell like curry or body odor and can compete with any White, Black or Purple guy. As for my COCK, well it's bigger than a White dudes, so that article on BBC is total crap. I have been with White girls in the past and they told me that my Cock (not penis) was BIG and they were aroused quicker than their past White or Black boyfriends. So does that answer your question. You should first look at one, not listen to some idiot on tv.
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Insaan, you comments about White girls being dumb was inappropriate and rude. I believe their upbringing is different, but honestly I do like them very much. I just don't like the ones that are arrogant. If there was a girl, with whom I had chemistry, I would date her in a snap. Attraction, trust and values are very important to me. I would even have her as a life partner, but we must be loyal to each other.
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White men are mostly preferred regardless of her gender.
The "brown" they like is Mario Lopez or Enrique Iglesias.25 Reply- +1 y
gender?
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Never mind I get what you mean now haha
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No I see where you misunderstood. "Men" was a typo, I originally typed something else lol.
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No I don't, unfortunately.
Well white girls like sexy guys, not as much cocky ugly guys.
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People can find others quite sexy regardless of their races / skins etc. Race or skin is not issue for me.
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Is that all you got going for you? Madonna would love you for that.
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I'm into Latinos but not East Indians because of the way some of them treat women in their culture and religious background.
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I mean not all people of East Indian descent are Hindu/Muslim, some are Christian. Would an East Indian being Christian fix your issue?
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The cultural context is still strong, also the double standards and the unfairness. As long as the guy is really hot and does not smell or has a long ugly beard
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So like when you say east Indian does that mean born in India or someone of east Indian descent born in America?
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You mentioned some of them treat their women abusively. So all East Indians are not the same right? So you don't like them, but there are many Whites, Blacks, Asians and Latino's who are abusive to their women. Are you still into Latino's now? As for religious background, it's Muslims and Sikhs who are abusive, not Hindus. There is nothing in their culture that makes them violent, so I think you should educate yourself further.
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I want you take that back asker! WHo said hindus are not and every religion has abusers! BUT you can't judge a person if he is abusive or not by his religion! Mind what you are saying cause you are looking down on other religions!
by the way I am a hindu, so I know what i am talking about! - New +1 y
Dear Anonymous, I wanted to let you know that Latinos don't treat their woman any better than East Indians. Have you been to Mexico? I want to let you know that Whites rape, physically abuse their woman and children (infants like newborns included) so pathetic, Black same, maybe Asians are less violent cause they lack size and physical strength at times. So Anonymous, what is your opinion now or are you going to admit that you are ignorant? Look in your local newspaper, I guarantee you will not hear anything about an East Indian abusing a woman, but on the contrary a White dude being aggressive.
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what? are you fishing for compliment or something?
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D E S P E R A T I O N. keep ure shit to yourself. u want to win a girl over, be a gentleman, be interesting, be confident without making retarded remarks about ure looks. otherwise u are gonna stay forever with maria aka your hand.
im a white girl an I LOVE MEXICANS :)
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So mean.
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Uh huh.
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Oh I know.
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Because white men don't want them anymore.
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I hope you find a white girl bro.
If that's really you then I wish I was white =(
00 Reply- Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
Whoever that guy in your picture is is my type
01 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
White girls like sexy ANYTHING guys!
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hahaha
- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
Ya maybe try Europeans not Americans
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