I am about to leave the country to find a virgin girl. Suggestions?

[Downanddepressed]

I will give it 2 years tops to find a virgin girl of legal age here in the United States, if not, I am leaving. I am 20 and a virgin and struggling to find that one here. All I see is a bunch of high school kids walking around making out and touching each other. There is like no hope, even most I hear from say so. I am discouraged and about to leave this hell hole. Where is a good place to go?

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Like it was so bad tonight, I had to carry my mace and knife around

[DivaMonae]

I'm kind of curious why do you believe you'll have better luck in another country.

Most people throughout the world are not virgins some countries known for not being one than America, your best luck will be an extremely religious country but then you'll probably have to marry her.

I can understand that you want to give t to so, some special and value it, but it can be just as special with someone that's not a virgin as long as you love the. Being a virgin isn't what makes it special it's giving it to the person you love.

Also whether you're I'm this country or another one people can always lie and there is no 100% way to tell if someone is or not.

[Anonymous]

just because people are making out it doesn't mean they have sex... I have made out with a bunch of people but I'm still a virgin.

And yes, virgins of legal age exist in the US, but you are limiting your options by asking for a virgin. Especially if you have other requirements aside from virginity.
Yes, it is important to be attracted to someone. Yes, it is important to find someone with similar values. Yes, it is important to like the person's personality. But you have to be open. Maybe she had sex once and regrets it, and still has the same values as you. You'll never know until you give her a chance.

[Downanddepressed]

No can do, never settle before, never settled now, never will settle in the future.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying you should settle. Don't settle. But give people a chance. Don't be so close minded.
Also, don't settle for a girl you don't connect with just because she's a virgin.
You have to talk to a lot of people before you find the right one.

[Sex-Kitten]

Ummm why?

You know what? Nevermind why. You can find one by going to any library. You'll recognize her because she will be wearing a very long brown skirt from the 80's, wear glasses, no make-up, her leg hair won't be shaven, she'll have pimples and long unruly hair. And she won't be very engaging with you, save to discuss her field of study. Most likely biology. Have fun!

[LovelySerene]

Horrible stereotype

[Sex-Kitten]

Not really. Many attractive girls are healthy in the mind and will get involved in relationships and sex as they grow older. In our society that is not only acceptable, but is the common sense thing to do. Today it is more strange to find someone attractive without some sort of an experience with a boy. It's more abnormal to be a virgin. So it's not just a stereotype. Girls who are confident and healthy with no social issues will not be virgins. Very, very rarely. And it's not a bad thing.
I have a problem with the way you look at it. What does that even mean- you want to find a virgin girl? What's wrong with one who ISN'T? Is she damaged goods to you?

[Scmitch]

Technically this is a stereotype. But I do agree this question is very odd. But if a girl is a virgin, this does not make her abnormal. Society's view on women is abnormal in my opinion. Just because the majority of society is having sex, that doesn't make it normal. That just makes it common. If you consider it an abnormality to be abstinent from sex and wait for the right man to put a ring on it before you give it away being a negative, that is sad in my opinion. We all have souls, having sex with someone is sharing a part of your soul with someone. And that is why it is good to protect it from the selfishness of human nature. You are not damaged goods if you aren't a virgin either, but you are putting your heart on the line. I don't hear society speaking about love and hope, that is why it is best to follow your mind and your heart, not tabloids or cosmopolitan magazine.

[Sex-Kitten]

To be honest, Schmitch, I think this is the first time in history since Christianity times that we are being honest with human nature. And science would back me up in this- sex is just part of the genetic code. Like our fellow Earthlings- the animal kingdom- it is in our DNA to want to reproduce. Sex feels good because it's an incentive to reproduce. Granted, in our society we can have sex without consequence (THAT is a social and technological construct), but sex itself is the norm. And it has been before Jesus came along. All the previous religions and some today respected sex and thought it was holy and natural. And then Jesus came and a bunch of philosophers created a Moral Code, mostly as a way to control the human population. They said something about sex being wrong and one partner. Honestly? I don't even think the one partner thing is natural. That's part of the modernist discourse too. And that of the religious one that preceeds it.

[DreamHope]

I'm a virgin by choice and saving myself for marriage. I only want a virgin guy. Trust me, there are virgin girls out there. I'm a 20 year old australian, by the way.

[Downanddepressed]

Australia would be nice, but don't they strictly regulate who they let in

[DreamHope]

Yeah it is strictly regulated. That's one of the reasons why Australia is a nice place to live.

[Downanddepressed]

I guess they don't let southern US white boys in

[DreamHope]

If you were going to marry a girl over here, were qualified and able to make a valuable contribution to our economy (i. e. Do an important job here), passed the citizenship test and had no criminal records - then you could get in.

[Downanddepressed]

There is one Australian girl I am taking interest in, but it will take forever for me to get there because I am a poor college student and she might have already moved on to someone else by then.

[DreamHope]

Hmm, I suppose it's unlikely but you never know...

I'm sure there are virgin adult women in the US, you just need to find them.

[Downanddepressed]

Have you done anal

[DreamHope]

What? No!

[Downanddepressed]

Some people claim to be virgins after doing anal, as I hear. Was just asking

[DreamHope]

Oh ok
Still... I wouldn't ask a potential girlfriend that if I were you, she would probably get offended.

[Theguyoverthere]

Only thing I can really think of are churches really. As for overseas girlfriends, I don't know personally but I've had people suggest it to me before. I think they key idea is to find a country you know many women want to leave. They'll be extra obedient and all. Maybe try china since they have a rule on how many kids you can have and maybe they want more?

[Downanddepressed]

I am thinking about China or other southeast Asia country

[chocolatedragon]

What's the obsession with wanting virgin girls? There's more to a girl than how many dicks have been in her. She could have had sex with one guy and have a great personality and good looks and you would still reject her. That's harsh dude. You'll probably have better luck finding more virgins in more conservative countries.

[washize]

Unless you're willing to marry said virgin, it is pointless to search for one.

Most virgin women are waiting until they are married to have sex. In most cases virginity in general is a a religious obligation and requires marriage to lose it.

[Downanddepressed]

That is fine, whatever it takes, as long as I can connect to her

[washize]

Then go any wehre you like!

[harakiri]

Just dig a hole in the ground and jump inside of it.

[Univerise]

shut up

[Downanddepressed]

How will that accomplish anything

[Downanddepressed]

Digging a hole in the ground, really?

[harakiri]

it will teach you the value of engaging in meaningless task

[Downanddepressed]

Easy for you to say you nonvirgin. I just happen to have standards and value who I share myself with

[kheserthorpe]

I thought he was creating his own virgin hole.

Also great loling at 'you nonvirgin'.

Congratulations on the news Harakiri? Who was the lucky guy :D

[harakiri]

i'm a virgin too. but that doesn't make me god's gift to the world. same way you aren't god's gift to the world. just get over it.

[harakiri]

@kheserthorpe it was an older married guy. scandalous :o

[Downanddepressed]

It is not about "gods gift", it is about equality

And I am about tired of seeing all these sluts

[harakiri]

good luck on your moronic quest.

[Downanddepressed]

I will have to go far and search wide

[LaGronio]

Not being a virgin doesn't make you a slut.

[Downanddepressed]

I never said they were sluts, but I have seen sluts.

I am a virgin, have every right to request the same. Even miss Anon down there said the same

[Downanddepressed]

@harakiri
Have you done anal?

[aficionado]

@harakiri
Now this is EPIC! ROFLMAO! You might want to add "Just keep waiting in that hole until your virgin girl arrives you help you out of the hole"! :P

[Victoria14]

Its very rare to come across virgin girls these days but i dont think going to another country will solve your problems. there are still some in the US you just need to wait and find one.

[Downanddepressed]

There is 7 billion people on this earth, most outside the US, I may really have to travel

[Victoria14]

why is it so important to you to find a virgin girl?

[Downanddepressed]

Cause it is

[Victoria14]

thats not a legitimate reason. You just need to realize that you may not be able to find a virgin girl to fulfill your needs.

[Downanddepressed]

I will find her or die

[Victoria14]

so you're saying that if a beautiful woman that you really like approaches you or whatever and is willing to have sex with you, you will turn her down if she isn't a virgin?

[Downanddepressed]

Yes, I have done it before and will most certainly do it again

[Victoria14]

seriously? wow. well there are some virgin girls in the US so hopefully you'll find one you like

[Downanddepressed]

You just said they are "very hard to find". So why are you switching and giving me hope? Are you saying I will find one I can connect with?

[Victoria14]

i said they are very hard to find because the great majority of girls are not virgins but that doesn't mean its impossible to come across one. im still a virgin and know of other girls who are still virgins but a lottt of girls aren't

[Downanddepressed]

Well that is a bad sign. You are under 18. I am 20. I have at least 3 or more years over you in age

[Downanddepressed]

Where the hell do you live? Inner city?

[Victoria14]

yeah im 17 and just because im under 18 doesn't mean everyone i know is. im just saying there are still girls out there who are virgins but there aren't many unless theyre like really young

[Victoria14]

i live in arizona

[Downanddepressed]

You mean young like underage? How is that going to help?

[Victoria14]

i said just because im under 18 doesn't mean everyone i know is. all my friends are 18 or older

[Downanddepressed]

If you know others (morr than one), then why would you use the word "rare"

[Victoria14]

because thats what, maybe 5 girls out of hundreds?

[Phoenix98]

Virgins are hard to find in general going to another country won't help. If anything it's just going to put you in debt especially at such a young age.

[Downanddepressed]

I will find her or die

[Phoenix98]

Your being a bit stubborn aren't you, you do know that even if a girl your dating isn't virgin that doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. And if she cared for you she would wait until marriage or until you were ready. as a Christian and a virgin i would like to find a women that have both of those qualities. But I'm also not going to limit myself either just Because they have had sex doesn't mean I have to and if they do indeed wait then it shows good character and merit.

[Downanddepressed]

Well, I hope she likes a sexless marriage, because she is not getting any from me

[Phoenix98]

So your saying that if you dated a girl who was not a virgin that agreed to wait until marriage. That you would not have sex with her after marrying her that's kind of twisted logic. Good luck your going to need it with hat mind set

[Downanddepressed]

There is Southeast Asia and there is the plot 6 feet under the Earth's surface. I'll take a pick soon.

[Downanddepressed]

... I think my family has a nice cemetery somewhere. I will need to get my living will arranged and a DNR order set

[Phoenix98]

Taking it a bit far aren't ya bud.

[Downanddepressed]

No, I am serious.

[Downanddepressed]

Well, for a DNR, all I have to do is write it on a note and sign it. It is that easy in this state.

[Phoenix98]

Seems like you have unrealistic terms to be honest.

[Downanddepressed]

No I can put myself down painlessly fairly easily

[emzy-89]

You're not in the wrong country, you're just looking in the wrong places. I'm 25 and a virgin by choice, we exist if you're willing to look hard enough.

[Downanddepressed]

You are quite attractive I have to say

[emzy-89]

thanks

[Anonymous]

My friend is 20 years old and she's a virgin. She's never done anything at all besides kiss. She's very conservative and believes in after marriage. I'm sure if there's one like my friend there are others like her. Good luck man.

[Downanddepressed]

Like I said, I might need to get a living will together and a DNR and POST order set in place in the next few years

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what you just said but I'll just add on to what I said. Most of these virgin girls have an innocent vibe to them you can tell real quick. Others... not so well, you'd be surprised who is still a virgin even after 20+ years. Beautiful ones too.
I've met some before and was astonished at the fact they've never even had their first kiss.

[Downanddepressed]

Thank you for the encouragement buddy, really needed it :)

[kangy]

seriously, is virginity so important? even if the girl has a good heart?

[Downanddepressed]

Yes.

I rather have a virgin that has a good heart rather than a nonvirgin that has a good heart

[kangy]

is it a stain or gross thing to u if it is non virgin?

[Downanddepressed]

She immediately becomes undesirable, seriously. I have turned away some very nice looking girls because of that, like instantly

[kangy]

there are many non virins around especially in a very open culture. yes there are non virgins too but u need to look deeper...
i feel sad for those being judged because of their non virigin status. if the girl sleep ard then yes dont go for her coz she doesn't have self respect. but for girl who lost it to their partners, are they so bad?

[kangy]

*yes there are virgins too but u need to look deeper...

[Downanddepressed]

How the hell do I search deep? I am a loner. I only had one friend over the last few years, and I just moved by myself to another state. In fact, it is worse

[kangy]

then how are u able to find a virgin then? duhz

[Downanddepressed]

.,, All I do for a hobby is work out

[kangy]

u gonna wait a long time then when u dont socialise too and u want a virgin a good girl

[Downanddepressed]

I just lift weights and run and go to a class during the week and work some

[Downanddepressed]

I meet some online

[Prettygurl12]

I'm 21 and a virgin and in the U. S., but I am also taken. Good luck to you.

[Downanddepressed]

I am going to have to have some more beers after this

[CommieDearest]

You should totally just leave now. There is no hope.

[Roarke]

if you have a messiah complex, forget the US. where in the whole county would you find three wise men and a virgin?

[kheserthorpe]

There's an awesome new caliphate you could check out.

[kheserthorpe]

Just to be clear, you're looking for a hot older virgin who wants to have sex outside of marriage?

Is that right? If so maybe you can explain how she ended up in that situation.

[Downanddepressed]

No, no, no

She does not have to be hot per say, but attractive enough in both personality and looks. As long as we connect, I will not care waiting until marriage.

[kheserthorpe]

You can't treat it like 'if'.

There are some great religious girls waiting for marriage. But they are -without question- looking for someone who shares their faith and is waiting too.

Otherwise it comes back to again, plenty of guys are virgins due to lack of game, but a reasonably attractive woman has -had offers- by her 20s. If she's interested, why did she turn them down?

[Downanddepressed]

Maybe she has not put herself out there much or has not found the right guy

[kheserthorpe]

Look, it happens, there are some for a variety of reasons, hell my first time was at 20-21, and my partner, her first time, was older then that (though she'd done other sex acts, as had I. And i know some attractive virgins here where tbh i can't figure out why they're single. But its not that common. Girls don't need to put themselves out there, they can be passive and get approached.

You know what's ironic? I get more interest from early 20's virgin women NOW then I did as an early 20's virgin.

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin at 29, so virgins definitely exist. You may be looking in the wrong places. Are you abstinent by chance, is that why virginity is so important to you?

[Downanddepressed]

I am a virgin waiting for the right one (that is another virgin), yes

[Keyspirits]

Yas virginity in a woman is IMPORTANT but not virginity in a man

[Downanddepressed]

Virginity is both important in males and females thank you very much

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with the Asker, if someone wants a virgin, it's only fair they are a virgin themselves.

[Downanddepressed]

Yes, thank you, thank you, thank you for voicing that

[Keyspirits]

Im a virgin myself. Who wouldn't want a fresh car? No one wants a used car ;P

[kheserthorpe]

@Keyspirits actually most non-virgin women do NOT want virgin men. Some will handle it, some won't. And a minority of virgin women don't like it that much either.

[Downanddepressed]

That is true, no one wants a used car

[Keyspirits]

@kheserthorpe yas like i said, i understand virginity in a man isn't as important to da cuties cuz there's nothing special compare to women virginity. Once their hymen is no longer attached, it means hell on earth xD
Cuties who have self-respect will honor a virgin man like themselves.

[Downanddepressed]

@Keyspirits, you and me are a lot alike buddy. I am glad there is another man on here that shares the same views. Except, it is not the hymen or physical characteristics I worry about as much as the mental and emotional parts of it

[Downanddepressed]

Anon, have you done anal

[Keyspirits]

U can take it as her heart. Once a man has taken her heart, it belongs to another man and he will be forever remember.. i wanna be that one and only person. Her first and everything! It makes meh feel HONOR and special :3

[Opinion Owner]

I would value it if a man was a virgin, but he would not have to be in order to date him. Since I'm 29, the reality of finding another virgin my age is slim to none. @asker, no I haven't had any type of sex, it wouldn't make sense to have anal & but refrain from having vaginal.

[Nochielo]

Your profile picture can't be more ironic even if you tried. But in all seriousness, you could try cultures where arranged marriages are still accepted. I'm sure you can find a virgin there for you.

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you turned down those non-virgins solely because they won't have to deal with the shit you're causing.

[Insaan]

Well come to middle east or southasia. Plenty of virgin girls here :)

[Downanddepressed]

South Asia maybe

[Keyspirits]

Hahahahaha u preach it brotha ;3

[Insaan]

@Keyspirits How about east asia tho?

[Insaan]

Well asker... south Asian girls are very hard. And middle east is toughest. Lol

[Insaan]

But i guess you would adjust better in countries like italy, germany or russia. I think those girls there do believe in preserving their virginity for their life partners.
But i guess you will end up finding in US itself bro.

[Anonymous]

Become more sociable and you will find one. America is a big country and has plenty of girls

[Downanddepressed]

I have found some. They just happened to mot be my type after the first date.

[Opinion Owner]

America has 50 states

[Opinion Owner]

Talk to the chick below she's a virgin maybe you guys could get together

[dominiquois]

Well I'm a virgin but Im not going to like or want a guy who only values me for my virginity.

[KBob93]

I'm a virgin but there's no way in hell I'm marrying one.

[Anonymous]

go for Turkish I lived there most of them wait till marriage Beside they hella beautiful Or any religious girl in America.. never lose hope!

[front2back]

Well there it is.
The most retarded question I've read on GaG today...