I'm from the UK (London), so things are a little different on this side of the pond than the US.
As a black man I personally have always found Indian women attractive, I can't give you a particular reason why but I've had this attraction since my high school days. I've dated a few in the past so I had no problem dating them initially, however I soon found out pretty quickly the problems that can arise. Here in the UK (especially London), black men dating any brown skinned Asian women is a big taboo. Specifically with Indians. Your communities (I appreciate I'm generalising here) see black people as the lowest of the low. The Indian girls I've dated were forced to keep the relationship as some dirty little secret, which is ridiculous.
On the other side, the black community have become well aware of this. Unfortunately the side effect of this is blacks tend to have adopted the attitude "anyone but an Asian". My family were outraged that I was dating Indians. They have no issues with me dating anyone else (I've dated whites, orientals, Jews, Greeks etc), but are livid when it's an Asian.
But the key difference is whilst I appreciate their opinions, I don't let them dictate who I date. I'll date whoever I want, Lord knows it's hard enough to find a nice girl in the UK without limiting yourself over something as silly as race. Indian girls aren't willing to do that - what their family demands is final. They care too much about what other people think, so openly dating blacks is a big no-no.
So in answering your question: given what I'm likely to face when dating an Asian woman, I'd probably avoid it. If I were to find one who isn't like the descriptions above then of course it's not an issue, but I've yet to encounter one. I can't speak for all black guys in London, but the vast majority of the ones I know tend to avoid Asian women for the same reason. Nothing to do with your race or culture or anything, its literally just from a knowledge of the bullsh*t we would encounter from your family, friends and communities.
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Honestly reading your comment really made me sad. I'm mixed race half Indian half Irish, currently living in Ireland. I don't really get much attention from guys but I find black men to be really attractive. My family is very open minded so they couldn't care less who I date as long as I'm happy that is all that matters. I understand that London is different but I'm just saying don't give up on the Indians just yet. Most Indian families are pretty open minded know so you never know 😊
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Honestly reading your comment really made me sad. I'm mixed race half Indian half Irish, currently living in Ireland. I don't really get much attention from guys but I find black men to be really attractive. My family is very open minded so they couldn't care less who I date as long as I'm happy that is all that matters. I understand that London is different but I'm just saying don't give up on the Indians just yet. Most Indian families are pretty open minded know so you never know
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+1 yCarriebean guys love Indians girls lol. Look at how many black and Indian kids there are in Trinidad lol.
I like indian girls, well I don't really have preferences lol.
I remember this one time I went to an Indian festival at Austin and there was this caramel cutie serving mango lassi. She was dressed I'm their traditional outfit and had some black ink design on her hands. Totally rocking that exotic look. She asked me if I wanted some mango Lassi and made some for me. Now as attractive as she was, that mango lassi tasted even better lol. I kept coming back for more of the drink, but I think she thought I was crushing on her causing I was cheesing mad lol.
There are barely any indian girls in my little town in Texas, but once I move to Dallas, I'm hoping to meet more :p02 Reply- +1 y
I never date for fun unless I know there's no chance for the future. I try to go for the long run in all of my relationships. I'd just hope that her parents were cool with ir dating.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yOk, I'm not a dude nor am I black but I what I can say is that Indian among other middle eastern women are among the prettiest. I'm sure guys from any race are all over you guys but probably won't approach you because they assume you guys are not into them or you're not allowed to date them. Not all Black guys are innocent as you might like but there are several with good intentions.
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Opinion Owner+1 yHaha thank you. I'm just sharing my thoughts. Don't listen to those guys that bash black guys and think you only want sex. They're just butthurt that a lot of girls choose to be with Black guys instead of them. I would suggest to open an online dating account and to put your preferences there. I'm sure a ton of Black guys will message you once they see you're into them.
Opinion Owner+1 yYou're very welcome, good luck!
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYeah they really like the long hair and booty if you have it (a lot of Indian girls do) from what I've seen. A lot are afraid of dealing with the families though if he's not planning on being serious with you
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Opinion Owner+1 y@rthomasa43 it's better than white girl booty! lol I'm just saying as far as if a black guy is deciding to date out of his race Indian girls usually have ok booty for what they're going for. I'm not comparing to black girl butt or anything, but I mean it's easier to find Indian whooties than it is to find white ones
Opinion Owner+1 yWhen most black guys date out of their race they aren't exactly expecting to find Kim Kardashian or Iggy they just want enough. This is why celebrities like Jennifer Love Hewitt and Jessica Biel can get away with saying they have a big butt. In the black community they don't that's just average (actually I get made fun of for having a flat butt and I have more than Jessica Biel). As long as the girl has SOMETHING she's considered acceptable if she's not black
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+1 yI am a indian guy who actually lives in india... Here, the majority of people are not good looking at all.. and we all know the rumour about Indian guys not having a big genetelia... which sadly is true. The black people in india are not really considered a good influence on people. However, there are some girls who are in relationship with black men and also some of them even have casual flings... you see only 0.5% of all the males in india are good looking compared 25% of females who are good looking. Black men are considered more manlier than indian males and have a a lot bigger genetelia.. so girls over here are giving black men a thought... very slowly... but surely at some point.. They do give them a thought... I mean it's better to end up with a more manlier black guy with a huge dick rather than small dicked indian guy with potbelly and a face that looks like Donald duck and mickey mouse combined with stinky smell..
00 ReplyI can't speak for all of us, but I've always thought Indian females were amongst the most beautiful women on earth, especially the ones who have some color to them. They rarely seem to be interested in us though, lol.
22 ReplyI'm black and I find them sexy when they were there hijib and all you see is their sexy eyes so hott. Only thing is I've never dated or talk to one because they act afraid around blacks and they families hate blacks. They prefer them to date someone from their cast and religion.
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+1 yNobody can speak for all black guys. The obvious answer is that some black guys do and some black guys don't.
50 ReplyEast Indian or Native American?
Me personally I like native American if they are mixed with something else.
East Indian I've seen some cute ones and some so so looking girls04 ReplyAs a "black" male I would say that it is all about the person and not the race. I find most Indian women very attractive but some what hard to approach due to rumors that they do not like "black" men. I like I stated earlier if she's a good person and is loyal it shouldn't Matter.
00 ReplyI would, believe me, I would, but the cultural barrier is there. Also I assume they aren't into black dudes.
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+1 yblack goes for anything thats pretty.. thats men in general
20 ReplyI am not black and it dosnt matter to me. There is no difference between black and white.
And I dont see a diffirence between indian or African or American or any girl.
If I like a girl. I dont care where sheis from00 ReplyWe do but I have heard a lot of black guys talk shit about Indian girls having bad BO problems which... kind of gets in your mind if you don't actually know many indian girls to disprove the theory.
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+1 yi dont care about race when it comes to dating. Indian girls can be very attractive.
10 Replyi was once talking to this cutie, B. Veerasammy, she was the kind of girl you think about
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYeah why not, somali with indian = islamic "allah aqbar" lol
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Opinion Owner+1 yTrue. So tell me you like it big don't you? LOL
are you asking this because you're indian and would like to get dicked by a black guy? lolll
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This dude.
+1 yAs a black man I find Indian women stunning. I dated an Indian girl in college but she broke up with me due to her parents disapproval.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHere's another question. Do Indian girls like Indian guys? lol Also do Black guys date Black women?
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+1 yDude from South Africa- I like this questions
Can I have an Indian girls number would like to date 100 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMy question, being indian why you want to know about such things with black (african) guy?
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Opinion Owner+1 yIts not wrong at all. I am just asking that can you hold their desires? You know i have few black friends. They always say that you can't satisfy our girls. So this aspect i am talking. rest is fine if you have some feelings for anyone.
Opinion Owner+1 yleave it. Good luck :)
+1 yYeah if they're cute lol
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySome black men like indian women..
10 ReplyNot black, but I'd go for you.
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+1 yYes, Black guys do.
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get it
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I shouldn't have said "Yes, they do." Some do, some don't like anyone else.
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