My girlfriend is mad about my snapchat?

[Anonymous]

She said I was ignoring her and I shouldn't be snapchatting these girls on my bestfriend list so much. Demanding to know who the are. Now she's got some dude on her top list? Should I just delete this app?

[Hannah591]

I've felt like your girlfriend. My boyfriend has girls in his best friends list, I was never in his top three. I don't have snapchat any more (windows phone). I didn't demand that he removed it or get really angry, I just talked to him about it. You should be able to use what you like, but calm her with communication. Tell her you never meant to make her feel ignored and that you're not doing anything she should be worried about. She should trust you and not try to get immature revenge. Remind her that people go on your list if they send a lot of snaps to you so it's out of your control (that is if this is true). You should be able to use Snapchat like she gets to.

[IsabelleBk]

Can I just say something, the guy I liked used to do this too, I ended up blocking him from snapchat and my life. So, be careful, you might be hurting her and she might leave you. She's jealous and she made it pretty clear that she doesn't like it.

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Snapchat is useless as f@ck tho I use it. But it's bc I travel a lot. It drives people crazy I swear! I have a friend that never responds to snaps I hate him lol so yes you can delete it I think or stop chatting with girls your gf doesn't know

[cavmanier]

I don't really understand Snapchat. Are you messaging other girls more than her? Are they just friends? I'm not sure how the top list thing works. She may be starting to talk to other guys.

[Asker]

Yeah sending random pictures and shit.

[cavmanier]

Are you completely platonic with those girls?

[Asker]

Yeah I would never lead them on and if they did try anything I said I would delete em.

[cavmanier]

I would explain that to her.

[misscoffeehead]

I second this.. If your talking to girls, she will talk to guys

Asker- your gf clearly has some doubts, and reassurance is what she needs.. I think she's giving you crap about it because she see's those chicks on your snapchat as a threat.. (People who could harm your relationship) your better off doing what opinion said or just simply delete it

[cavmanier]

@misscoffeehead just reminded me, she probably feels a similar way to what you feel about "Now she's got some dude on her top list"

[misscoffeehead]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

If I talk to girls she wI'll talk to guys.. as in a game? Trying to reverse it?

[cavmanier]

@misscoffeehead He's feeling doubtful and thinking about deleting the app.

[misscoffeehead]

Asker- sounds like she is trying to get back at you. If you want to put out the flames, stop talking to chicks or just delete the app

O. P- I would want my partner to tell me if he has any concerns of me using snapchat that I have no problem in deleting it for him. If he sees it threatening the relationship, it's an easy solution to just remove it. Yes I feel similar in a way to the askers girlfriend.

[cavmanier]

It could be to make you jealous or to find another guy.

@misscoffeehead oh you wouldn't want him talking to girls?

[misscoffeehead]

I have no problem letting him talk to girls, as long as he is plainly sending random pictures of objects/selfies and not sexual content with the girls or any girls in real life.. I'm cool with it.

[TrueblueInfantry]

Dude, just get rid of it. She told you how she felt, you ignored it, and now she's trying to make you jealous in return. Just get rid of that bullshit app.

[pattramai]

She's jealous and she's trying to make you jealous too. Lol, just delete it, and tell her to delete it too. Problems might be solved.

[Horizongirl123]

You can just delete it or tou can hust nkt snapchat other girls soo much

[Anonymous]

Why don't you just dump her. When I ever complain I just get dumped.

[Asker]

We've been going at this for two years. Not going to dump her over some petty shit like this lol

[Opinion Owner]

I must just be lucky then lol

[GlitterGirl456]

Yes you should delete it..