She's demonstrating value of 'sex'. And she isn't making it conditional.
Many desperate guys don't give a crap and would just use her and toss her away. Eventually she may 'settle' down with a 'nice' guy who doesn't really earn that much, because she's already lost in the competition for commitment by the really great guys.
The desperate guys are not what you good girls want, eventually you'll grow up, and the desperate guys themselves get left in the dust by the other awesome guys who're also picky as heck.
Personal opinion though =
Now a girl can be slutty + doesn't mind me sleeping with other girls, and doesn't mind some polygamy, actually gets new girls for us to be with, and doesn't complain about me being 'not good enough' as long as I fulfil the basics of taking care of her and everyone else in the polygamy (my all female harem). If she's like that, I'll say she's being fair and I won't hold any of her lack of discerning sexual behaviour against her. As long as she understands that there's no cheating in marriage, and of course any girl she brings = I marry them too (so not extra-marital)
Yeh, fat chance right? That's why sluts can go take a hike.
It's exactly the same as mansluts. Most guys don't like them, but they are the ones flaunting themselves at lots of people so they get more attention and more partners.
It's a negative thing and your friend will really regret it when she realise she has been labeled by many as a slut and can't change her own ways. A lot of these people, guys and girls end to struggling to find the right person and settle down.
A lot of guys like “slutty girls” because they are easy, they don’t hold the guy to a certain standard, they don’t make him earn anything from them, and he doesn’t have to exercise even a little bit of self-discipline or even really deserve anything from her yet he can still get what he wants. So basically, guys like sluts because they don’t actually have to keep their act together in order to get the results (often sexual results) they want. The females make it so easy for them as apposed to them actually having to behave and work hard to earn a certain result.
they like them because there willing to put out but they dont want them for long term they just want them for a quick lay and one thing I've noticed about sluts is that they usually have ugly faces. ugly faced women know men dont want them so they just put out and dress slutty to get men but no man alive wants them for longer than a quick fuck. its basically pump and dump for them. you dont want that kind of life style. you want to find a guy who wants you for long term and not those trashy ugly sluts.
because at your age, those are the only kinds of girls boys notice because they're horny and clueless! don't worry, all her little "boyfriends" really don't mean anything lol when she gets older guys will want her for sex and she won't be able to find a relationship and she won't be able to figure out why and then she will realize it's because of her reputation.
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Well she is attracting what she wants, but in the end, these types of girls tend to bounce from guy to guy. They'll always be "dating" someone but it'll constantly be a different person. I'm all for girls being a slut in private but girls who deliberately do as your friend is will constantly struggle to maintain relationships.
What ends up happening is the guy gets fed up with how much male attention she draws to herself and the guy either gets jealous, fears he will be cheated on, or even feels like he may be degrading himself since the girl is showing herself off too much to the point where he goes back to his friends and constantly has to hear about how much of a "nice rack" she has and all that stuff. It may even be a combination of these. So the girl is only "good for the moment" to each guy she meets.
Girls like this end up shooting themselves in the foot basically. I see it on my Facebook news feed. It'll be a girl showing off her boobs and all that stuff with 1000+ "friends" who all want to "date" her claiming to be nice guys yet the girl will always be posting statuses about how she can't find any guy who wants to settle down.
Actually, I don't care for the sluttier ones. I like the girls that think enough of themselves to make me earn the right to be with them in an intimate manner. Girls who want to put out when they barely even know me shows lack of self control and self respect. I have to be assured that if I am with someone, That they are going to resist the temptation to throw themselves at the next guy that hits on them while I am out of town or whatever.
Women who are slutty, I do not see as good relationship material. And when they get older, They are going to have that little black book with no names in it and after gravity has set in and their looks have disappeared, The rest of their lives will be about damage control because they will be all used up, and no one will want them. I don't exactly relish the idea of being with everyone else's leftovers either.
because they are easy. Humans will take the easy route 90% of the time.
bear in mind though, most of these encounters dont go anywhere. guys aren't stupid and they realise that if she is that easy, she most likely won't stay faithful too long.
Dont feel bad though, you will actually get a decent guy who likes you for who you are, not because they can get you into bed as fast as possible.
Also, you're 14... you really shouldn't be worrying about getting the guy for at least another 4 years. enjoy your child hood!
Every guy is gonna like free titties. But as you get older, you'll realize that it really doesn't matter how much attention your friend got from guys. All that matters is what you do and how you live your life. And you don't have to be on anyone's level but your own.
Make good choices, do great things :)
Because if a guy wants sex, it makes sense to give attention to the girl most willing to have casual sex.
First off, slutty is not a dress code. You can be a nudist and it doesn't make you any easier than the next girl. Second, you're 14 and guys at that age are indeed drawn to an easier catch. On a side note, calling your friend slutty online really shows how secure you are and how much any girl should love to have you as a friend
Wait... You just said you think your "bestfriend" is a slut?
Showing her boobs doesn't make her a slut. If she has a great body, as you told us, why should she hide it?
I believe it's the way she acts that makes her - or not - a slut. That's only her appearance.
Some guys do, some guys don't. Some guys are just looking for sex and not commitment, so a girl whose more willing to have sex is only the logical choice.
Some guys are looking for relationships and might want someone a little more conservative or reserved. Other guys might like a girl who is more sexually comfortable with herself and just generally don't care about a girls past
I like slutty girls for a short term relationship don't get me wrong they have more experience in pleasureing a man then your average female. But I just don't see a future with them because theyre so used to passing there body around like a slice of cake I wouldn't trust them to have my child.
The reason why most guys like "Slutty" girls is because guys are obsessed with sex.
However, what is your definition of "slutty"? Just because a girl dresses revealing doesn't make her a slut. I know a girl who dresses similar to your friend and she claims to be a virgin (and she's 24 years old, imagine that.)
i don't care about how much sex a girl has had before meeting me. i don't consider her slutty. I consider her a girl who enjoys sex. Sex is fun, and girls like it as much as guys do. They should be free to express their sexuality as much as guys are
Being slutty, or being a player only has short term benefits. Guys want slutty girls to hook up with, for sex. Usually these slutty girls aren't someone they'd want to marry, they just pursue them for a fling. When they think about marriage, thats when they target the "good girls".
Girls do the same thing, where they fall for players but eventually realize theyre not marriage material, and go for the "good guy". This is later on in life though
I don't. I like down-to-earth girls. It's all well and good being attractive, but if you have the brains of a goldfish then I'm not interested. A balance of Intelligence and Beauty is what makes me tick. Half the time I look at girls and think ''Nope, too good for me.''
It's the same for girls, some, not all. They like big hench tanned guys. I'm the opposite to that, I'm slim, pale and small. So, I guess it's the same on both sides.
Be yourself, your beautiful. If they are chasing after her then they definitely don't deserve you! Honestly, I recommend you not even thinking about boys until your older and have pursured your dreams. I know how boys are at that age, all are young, dumb and full of you know what. If you need the feel of affection... honestly, I think you should look into other girls. JMHO. Either way, be safe and SMART. Cheers
Probably for the same reason some girls go for manwhores; for fun and sex. However, if there is something they both have in common is they aren't usually considered relationship/marriage material.
On a study, it pretty much said the same for women going for cad-like types. They just wanted them for fun while picking the serious, nerdy guy as the provider and future father to her kids.
I don't know your best friend, but I do know that guys like two different kinds of girls for two different reasons. They like "easy" girls for casual sex. And they like girls who don't encourage sex right away (yes, partly the way they dress!) for settling down.
They are easier to get and to put out, dont worry though most men (when they are older) that are looking for a serious relationship/marriage go for classy girls plus 14 year old guys probably mostly go after apperance first.
There are some guys who like them purely because of their bodies. But most guys despise of them. I know I do!
By the way, what do the options in the poll mean?
They like to fuck them, then throw them away. They don't like them as actual partners.
Just cause your friend shows her body like that doesn't make her a slut and the answer to your question is guys like the because they are easy that's why.
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