Why do guys like slutty girls?

Question

Well my best friend , I have nown her for 4 years now but like she always gets the guys because she always shows her boobs and she has a good body plus she's a ginger so I guess most guys like gingers? anyways do you guys like sluty girls why?

soneoak · Accepted Answer

She's demonstrating value of 'sex'. And she isn't making it conditional.

Many desperate guys don't give a crap and would just use her and toss her away. Eventually she may 'settle' down with a 'nice' guy who doesn't really earn that much, because she's already lost in the competition for commitment by the really great guys.

The desperate guys are not what you good girls want, eventually you'll grow up, and the desperate guys themselves get left in the dust by the other awesome guys who're also picky as heck.

Personal opinion though =

Now a girl can be slutty + doesn't mind me sleeping with other girls, and doesn't mind some polygamy, actually gets new girls for us to be with, and doesn't complain about me being 'not good enough' as long as I fulfil the basics of taking care of her and everyone else in the polygamy (my all female harem). If she's like that, I'll say she's being fair and I won't hold any of her lack of discerning sexual behaviour against her. As long as she understands that there's no cheating in marriage, and of course any girl she brings = I marry them too (so not extra-marital)

Yeh, fat chance right? That's why sluts can go take a hike.

beesod · Accepted Answer

It's exactly the same as mansluts. Most guys don't like them, but they are the ones flaunting themselves at lots of people so they get more attention and more partners.

It's a negative thing and your friend will really regret it when she realise she has been labeled by many as a slut and can't change her own ways. A lot of these people, guys and girls end to struggling to find the right person and settle down.

Panorama · Accepted Answer

A lot of guys like “slutty girls” because they are easy, they don’t hold the guy to a certain standard, they don’t make him earn anything from them, and he doesn’t have to exercise even a little bit of self-discipline or even really deserve anything from her yet he can still get what he wants. So basically, guys like sluts because they don’t actually have to keep their act together in order to get the results (often sexual results) they want. The females make it so easy for them as apposed to them actually having to behave and work hard to earn a certain result.

scrappygirl · Accepted Answer

they like them because there willing to put out but they dont want them for long term they just want them for a quick lay and one thing I've noticed about sluts is that they usually have ugly faces. ugly faced women know men dont want them so they just put out and dress slutty to get men but no man alive wants them for longer than a quick fuck. its basically pump and dump for them. you dont want that kind of life style. you want to find a guy who wants you for long term and not those trashy ugly sluts.

xobrowneyedbeauty · Accepted Answer

because at your age, those are the only kinds of girls boys notice because they're horny and clueless! don't worry, all her little "boyfriends" really don't mean anything lol when she gets older guys will want her for sex and she won't be able to find a relationship and she won't be able to figure out why and then she will realize it's because of her reputation.

Theguyoverthere · Answer

Well she is attracting what she wants, but in the end, these types of girls tend to bounce from guy to guy. They'll always be "dating" someone but it'll constantly be a different person. I'm all for girls being a slut in private but girls who deliberately do as your friend is will constantly struggle to maintain relationships.

What ends up happening is the guy gets fed up with how much male attention she draws to herself and the guy either gets jealous, fears he will be cheated on, or even feels like he may be degrading himself since the girl is showing herself off too much to the point where he goes back to his friends and constantly has to hear about how much of a "nice rack" she has and all that stuff. It may even be a combination of these. So the girl is only "good for the moment" to each guy she meets.

Girls like this end up shooting themselves in the foot basically. I see it on my Facebook news feed. It'll be a girl showing off her boobs and all that stuff with 1000+ "friends" who all want to "date" her claiming to be nice guys yet the girl will always be posting statuses about how she can't find any guy who wants to settle down.

DocT1977 · Answer

Actually, I don't care for the sluttier ones. I like the girls that think enough of themselves to make me earn the right to be with them in an intimate manner. Girls who want to put out when they barely even know me shows lack of self control and self respect. I have to be assured that if I am with someone, That they are going to resist the temptation to throw themselves at the next guy that hits on them while I am out of town or whatever.

Women who are slutty, I do not see as good relationship material. And when they get older, They are going to have that little black book with no names in it and after gravity has set in and their looks have disappeared, The rest of their lives will be about damage control because they will be all used up, and no one will want them. I don't exactly relish the idea of being with everyone else's leftovers either.

Sezra · Answer

because they are easy. Humans will take the easy route 90% of the time.

bear in mind though, most of these encounters dont go anywhere. guys aren't stupid and they realise that if she is that easy, she most likely won't stay faithful too long.

Dont feel bad though, you will actually get a decent guy who likes you for who you are, not because they can get you into bed as fast as possible.

Also, you're 14... you really shouldn't be worrying about getting the guy for at least another 4 years. enjoy your child hood!

G_Stranger · Answer

Every guy is gonna like free titties. But as you get older, you'll realize that it really doesn't matter how much attention your friend got from guys. All that matters is what you do and how you live your life. And you don't have to be on anyone's level but your own.
Make good choices, do great things :)

poppunk · Answer

First off, slutty is not a dress code. You can be a nudist and it doesn't make you any easier than the next girl. Second, you're 14 and guys at that age are indeed drawn to an easier catch. On a side note, calling your friend slutty online really shows how secure you are and how much any girl should love to have you as a friend

Prof_Don · Answer

Because if a guy wants sex, it makes sense to give attention to the girl most willing to have casual sex.

QueenAmidala · Answer

Wait... You just said you think your "bestfriend" is a slut?
Showing her boobs doesn't make her a slut. If she has a great body, as you told us, why should she hide it?
I believe it's the way she acts that makes her - or not - a slut. That's only her appearance.

gonyr · Answer

Some guys do, some guys don't. Some guys are just looking for sex and not commitment, so a girl whose more willing to have sex is only the logical choice.

Some guys are looking for relationships and might want someone a little more conservative or reserved. Other guys might like a girl who is more sexually comfortable with herself and just generally don't care about a girls past

thinkforyourself727 · Answer

I like slutty girls for a short term relationship don't get me wrong they have more experience in pleasureing a man then your average female. But I just don't see a future with them because theyre so used to passing there body around like a slice of cake I wouldn't trust them to have my child.

Redsfan192 · Answer

The reason why most guys like "Slutty" girls is because guys are obsessed with sex.

However, what is your definition of "slutty"? Just because a girl dresses revealing doesn't make her a slut. I know a girl who dresses similar to your friend and she claims to be a virgin (and she's 24 years old, imagine that.)

Watermelonoma · Answer

i don't care about how much sex a girl has had before meeting me. i don't consider her slutty. I consider her a girl who enjoys sex. Sex is fun, and girls like it as much as guys do. They should be free to express their sexuality as much as guys are

UpperEchellon · Answer

Being slutty, or being a player only has short term benefits. Guys want slutty girls to hook up with, for sex. Usually these slutty girls aren't someone they'd want to marry, they just pursue them for a fling. When they think about marriage, thats when they target the "good girls".

Girls do the same thing, where they fall for players but eventually realize theyre not marriage material, and go for the "good guy". This is later on in life though

Alexious · Answer

I don't. I like down-to-earth girls. It's all well and good being attractive, but if you have the brains of a goldfish then I'm not interested. A balance of Intelligence and Beauty is what makes me tick. Half the time I look at girls and think ''Nope, too good for me.''
It's the same for girls, some, not all. They like big hench tanned guys. I'm the opposite to that, I'm slim, pale and small. So, I guess it's the same on both sides.

OptimisticallyBryant · Answer

Be yourself, your beautiful. If they are chasing after her then they definitely don't deserve you! Honestly, I recommend you not even thinking about boys until your older and have pursured your dreams. I know how boys are at that age, all are young, dumb and full of you know what. If you need the feel of affection... honestly, I think you should look into other girls. JMHO. Either way, be safe and SMART. Cheers

RoderLK · Answer

Probably for the same reason some girls go for manwhores; for fun and sex. However, if there is something they both have in common is they aren't usually considered relationship/marriage material.

On a study, it pretty much said the same for women going for cad-like types. They just wanted them for fun while picking the serious, nerdy guy as the provider and future father to her kids.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know your best friend, but I do know that guys like two different kinds of girls for two different reasons. They like "easy" girls for casual sex. And they like girls who don't encourage sex right away (yes, partly the way they dress!) for settling down.

SakuraChii · Answer

They are easier to get and to put out, dont worry though most men (when they are older) that are looking for a serious relationship/marriage go for classy girls plus 14 year old guys probably mostly go after apperance first.

nert73 · Answer

There are some guys who like them purely because of their bodies. But most guys despise of them. I know I do!  By the way, what do the options in the poll mean?

blondfrog · Answer

Just cause your friend shows her body like that doesn't make her a slut and the answer to your question is guys like the because they are easy that's why.

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

they are the most nicest and down to earth people who will accept you lol girls with morals have too much pride and are often snobs and in a fairytale. i m not condoning promiscuity but tis the yin and yang of life

Anonymous · Answer

While I said A, you're missing about two options. A would be the best one out of the three, in my opinion. You chose best answer already though (pretty quickly might I add, since you know you have a week to do it) so, I don't even know why I'm answering this anymore

Sprouty · Answer

They like to fuck them, then throw them away. They don't like them as actual partners.

TheWiseOwl · Answer

I can't stand women like that and actively avoid them as if I was trying to escape a Zombie infestation.

RestlessYouth_ · Answer

Guys probably like her more because she doesn't spend all of her time bitching about her own "friend". Get over it

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

Women have been trying to attract men for thousands of years I think, and they've mastered what they need to do to easily attract men. And the answer is be a giant slut.

d3f3cted · Answer

because they sluts and they easy to get. quality girls are usually stuck up and harder to get. so why go for the harder ones when you can get the easy ones and its the same shit at the end of the day.

DEMON1C_ZACK · Answer

Pretty sure my ex girlfriend was a slut (not just cuz she's my ex) and i liked her cause she was nice pretty and sent me pics but I've since realized she sent those to half my school so needless to say it didn't end well. So honestly I don't like sluts as they are not trustworthy

Csmooth83 · Answer

It's simple if a girl is nice we will love to talk to her but we like female bodies if we can't at least see their body we instantly think she's not worth talking to cuz if ur not comfortable with people seeing and touching ur body you can't you be openly able to let people see and touch your personality. And slutty girls normally give you sex which once I guy finds a girl that gives him mostly all he wants he will try to keep her aslong as possible

Jordahn · Answer

Why do guys like slutty girls? "Mean and slut"? The answers don't make sense.

Strider90 · Answer

And you're only 14 years old, which means your best friend is around the same age if not the exact same. Your friend will be a true whore. I doubt that she will find someone to settle down with.

JohnnySS · Answer

sluts are women who are loose with their sleeping habits not women who show their bodies. personally i dont care but i wouldn't marry one. men like them because theyre easier and favor sex more like men

exoticval · Answer

Are you describing her as slutty based off of the way she dresses or the way she acts?

Lena19 · Answer

I believe the only guys that really love sluts are the ones that are constantly horny and looking for sexual satisfaction very easily and quickly.

Squall17 · Answer

Depends on what guys you like. Why do you like slutty boys? Those pigs go after slutty girls for the obvious reason. Now everybody needs sex but nice guys like someone that's charming as well.

ILoveLadies · Answer

I don't like slutty girls.. If that was all I was after then I'd be out looking for whores every night..

kaneandre95 · Answer

they dont really they like sex hahaha if its a girlfriend no one wants a slut

Thats_me · Answer

Depends on men. I'm not one of those. I like decent, pure ones.

QueenJ · Answer

i have nothing against slutty girls with good attitude. it's how they do, i respect that.

Anonymous · Answer

If she wants to be "slutty" then you should let her, instead if bitching bout it. It's her life anfd her body, let her.  Also, boys your age like "whores" it will change.

loveskittens · Answer

I definitely don't. I was going to date this one girl but she was talking about all the dicks she sucked and i was like... nawwww. Gingers are the cutest though :)

tomgrosse77 · Answer

I like “slutty” girls because they know what they like and are comfortable with their sexuality. Doesn’t matter how many partners she’s had. If she’s with me and we’re having fun then it’s all good.

dthdhdghadh · Answer

They communicate what they want in no uncertain terms.

Anonymous · Answer

Mmmm sounds like my type of girl... Can I get her number?

OHGEE · Answer

It's because they're easy and people tend to want to take the easy way. Simple as that.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys are horny, especially younger ones. They are out of their minds with bodily fluids.  Chin up. Slow and steady wins the race. You'll see how that turns out for them in the future.

victor729 · Answer

All girls are pretty. I don't like to use the word slutty. Some are just more outgoing and attention seekers than others.

genericname85 · Answer

i mean if i want to fuck without attachement, most "normal" girls aren´t up for that xD but for a relationship i wouldn´t want a slut.

Cordial · Answer

I don't think anyone truly likes "slutty girls"... But I on know for a fact, people like what they provide. They provide what guys drool about, and they give it up easy. nobody likes that kind of person, but who doesn't like "easy"?

Turkshboi96 · Answer

I like sluts because i have advantages to have sex with the sluts.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you mean by showing her boobs? Like flashing? Or just wearing revealing clothes? And I went to vote on your poll but I realized it's a trap and theirs no option for good girls

breastman69 · Answer

Ya I like to know what her figure looks like before I get interested. It takes allthe guess work out of it being A true Breast Man I love to see what they have to offer !!!

Victoria_xoxo · Answer

Because they don't have to work for her She is easy Not hard to understand

nimbus24 · Answer

Yep men likes slutty girls because they are easy to get.

PatGalbraith · Answer

We don't. At least I don't. But it's gotten to the point that I barely bother to say hello to any woman. I'm quiet and retired. I'm no stud bunny. End of comment.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys like sluts for cheap sex but they do NOT respect sluts. Sluts are not what guys look for in a girlfriend or wife.

slsmith0 · Answer

Certainly submissive girls that take over sometimes are best.

PineappleBreath · Answer

It's why people ride busses instead of Ferraries, its eaiser

HappyToBeAlive · Answer

I dont know what it is about girls with bad attitudes, but i like it.

blessed_curse · Answer

Because they get the thing they want fast. you know what I mean.

Klaatu51 · Answer

I like them more than classy girls tbh

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