I think you should be honest about it, some guys, especially guys who have never kissed anyone, and even guys who have, will find this hot/appealing. If they do not, then they are stupid. Your world is going to change dramatically in the next few years. Think about the person you were when you were 13 and think about the person you are at 17. The difference between 17 and 21 is the same, though after that not a dramatic. Anyway, try not to be embarresed about it. Be honest, and the right person will want to teach you or find out what its like with you. Good Luck!
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ignore all those who tell you to wait. they are guiding you down the path of sadness where you're missing out. you're wasting your youth. go and kiss somebody already and get it over with. enjoy the simple fun of making out while it lasts. do you really want to wait until you're 30 something to kiss someone? people making it out to be something big like unprotected sex or marriage...
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Every person in the world has been in that position. You have to start somewhere. Some start at 10, others at 30.
Being someones first is flattering. Be it first kiss, first relationship, virginity it is all special. If he is nice guy, learning together or teaching you will be special.
Quite often you discover that the guys reality is very different to the image they portray. Most teen guys like their classmates to think they are super experienced. Very few are.
Unfortunately some guys are just inconsiderate dicks, your first will not be special for them. They are focused on building their image. Your lack of experience will not deter them either. Choose wisely.
PS: Please do not build it up too much. Most people get better with practice & emotional connection. I've had some very memorable kisses. But my first experiences of kissing were "oh! was that it" what an anti-climax. Many have told me similar stories.I've never dated anyone, I've never kissed, never held hands, never had sex. I think that's who I want to date as well to be able to experience those things with her. Unfortunately, most girls have dated, kissed, had sex with guys who I don't think matter at all who are just hanging around for a piece of ass and because of these douchebag guys most girls develop the attitude of hating most men. I don't know how many pints of beer I've had thrown on me for just saying "hey, how are you doing? Can I get you a drink?" But since I'm a guy, apparently girls think it's not healthy or right.
Nothing at all. Being inexperienced as a women isn't the same as being a male 21 virgin like
Myself... I am constantly reminded and made fun of about this, and always comes from guys... never girls! Girls don't care about other girls lack of sexual experience and I know most dudes would
Prefer a
Virgin girl based on the heartbreak they've experienced from hoes these days... being inexperienced as a women is a great thing... compete opposite for
Men... but have confidence. Most guys will love you being a virgin and having never dated beforeI think there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, and there's no reason for there to be something wrong with it. If a girl hasn't dated and hasn't kissed at 17, then good for her! It means she knows what she's worth and what she wants, and she'll wait to get it. There's no reason to get in a relationship just for the sake of saying "I've been in a relationship".
i will be damn happy about it to be honest, with girls these days acting so sl*tty and bitchy finding a genuine girl you can talk to, relate to and is smart and attractive who has never had a bf is kinda my dream , I don't know if will ever find someone like that , but to answer your question it is good.
It's nice, my first was the opposite so I totally appreciate that. My first kiss wasn't until 16 so I get it. The only thing is that you've gotta be careful because some guys will take it as a challenge and others will find it sweet and take the extra steps to build trust. However, don't try to make your first kiss the best thing ever. It will not be the best kiss, it'll be awkward, and it certainly will not be with the perfect guy so don't hold out. Otherwise, it's sweet.
Hey, I would say you're precious, and that every guy deep inside his heart dreams of finding a girl as pure as you.
Just remain that way, you will get all the kisses you were missing from your soulmate once you find him. Just ignore all these just-profit-seeking media and friends who are suggesting you that something is wrong with you, stay pure, it will all pay off so much in the end.
But be very careful when choosing to whom are you giving your heart. A guy who truly loves a girl usually falls in love much before the actual relationship. Beware of players and fuqbois, they are so prevalent nowadays. Just look in a their eyes, if your eye contact causes no emotion in them, then most probably they dont have any emotions for you.
I wish you the very best of luck.
Nothings wrong with you, you should be proud of yourself. :)Don't worry about it. You aren't very old and this is an area where quite frankly picky is a good thing. When I was around your age it wouldn't have been a concern for me at all (meaning if I was going to kiss someone and found they hadn't ever kissed anyone it wouldn't have been a concern).
You'll never forget who, when and where you had your first kiss and whatever happens after, but choose who its with, its your choice too not just his, do it when you're both ready...
My sister in law is a very attractive woman and didn't kiss till she was into her twenties and was still a virgin at 30. That was her choice, she's now very happily married with kids and only ever slept with her hubby.. Don't ever be pressured into doing something you're not ready for..To be honest most guys in today's time would consider you to be a tease.(not all guys just most) . While guys born back in my hay day would have thought you were more of a trust worth girl. One that if they could win your heart wouldnever have to worry about you cheating on them , a girl that would only show her affections to only them.
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