I'm a virgin, and have also never been kissed, not to mention I have too, asked this same question. I'm not so much worried about the jerks who would be repulsed by that idea, as I am concerned with being portrayed as a "bad kisser" or revolting. I'm not 14 or something, where it wouldn't matter. I am almost 21, so my first kiss would be important to me, and I would want it to be special, and not mess it up. You should ask these guys, would they be willing to practice with you or help you out? I always wondered about that, in hopes by practicing, that when I do finally have my first real non-practicing kiss haha, that I wouldn't be as nervous, and worried. Just a thought...Good luck, and thanks!
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Haha you won't be, I promise you that. It happens, and you just.,... know... what to do. It comes so natural. needless to say I had my first kiss a week ago, and I don't regret it. I'm just some cheap girl, and I have very high morals. It was very special for me, and I'll never forget it. I woulnd't "Practice" With any guy. I don't want to kiss a guy and have it just be platonic. I want it to mean something, and I'm glad I was kissed. :)
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- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
that she is a human being that as fear, embarrasment and all human kind of feeling without necessarly being ugly or less appealing than others. sometimes very pretty girls haven't kissed yet for a thousand reasons, its a choice and there is nothing wrong with it. in fact, when you start it, thes no stopping, so have fun and take your time.
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I was that girl. Until me and my crush were alone in my house, and he kissed me. Now we've been together for 5 months and we've never looked back. I don't think he gave a damn, although he did appologise that my first kiss was in my dining room and not under fireworks or something fantastic, lol. Which is kinda sweet, in a funny way XD <3
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That she's a girl... and I think that she's never been kissed...
I don't really think of anything when I hear this since there are numerous possible reasons for it.05 Reply- Asker+1 y
What if the reason was she was waiting for the right guy and she wanted to keep that kiss till she found him?
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There are other ways to be intimate other than kissing :)
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I don't agree with that! I think you can get to know a guy just as well without kissing or being physically intimate, as you do making out with them. Example... I can tell that a guy who respects me and holds his physical desires at bay to respect my values, means I respect him even more for having that kind of character. Rather than a guy who thinks the only way to get to know me is by how far he can stick his tongue down my throat. It doesn't touch the heart of a person to "get to know them".
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She's innocently sweet XD
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Thanks, my boyfriend said the same thing :)
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He hasn't kissed me because we're waiting, Not everyone has to be shallow enough to kiss on their first date








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- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
im 21 and never been kissed, I really don't know why...i just haven't dated a lot and the guys I liked turned out to be jerks, but people tell my I am pretty
i know that when I do meet the right guy, my first kiss will be beautiful24 Reply- Asker+1 y
I know I'm saving my first kiss for the right guy :) It would be a shame for it to be wasted
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Agreed! Same here. I've got nothing to loose by waiting. I don't need to kiss each guy I like to know if he's the right one for me. I feel bad for people who believe that they have to get physical to get to know someone.
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I know! It's just stupid... I do have a boyfriend and we sit close and everything but nothing really physical. And it's silly the percentage of people who believe in living with every boyfriend they get. >.<
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Me too :) I agree with you both! It's worth the wait.
lol first id wonder was it her fault or did she just not have the ability (easy answer just by looking up and down)
based on that answer id decide what course of action I should take14 Reply- Asker+1 y
Then first that girl would think you were incredibly shallow
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ive never been kissed because I'm so shy and awkward. I've said no every time I've been asked out and turned down a guys move on me because I get to nervous=///// I wana be kissed I don't know why I'm so afraid
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aww thank u=] so are u!
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It's okay! I'm 22 and have never been kissed... It's been a choice, because it's a special moment, and I haven't found anyone that I really want to share that with. Maybe you just haven't found that special someone who is not only attracted to you physically, but to who you are :)
Thats nice. But I'd never get with her, I'd feel too bad
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Why would you feel bad? Why wouldn't you feel privelaged/awesome to be her first kiss lol?
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Its cool that on our first date, I will be her first.
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What if giving up their first kiss means more than that? What if the girl wouldn't want to have her first kiss be on the first date? What if she isn't sure your the one?
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I will set the mood, it will be amazing.
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that beautiful.
we've all been there at some point in our lives. Personally, I would be excited to teach a new lover how to enjoy passion
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Nice answer! very nice.
hmm would think she's either very young or not cute?
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depends on how old she is. 18? no a big deal
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Haha x)
shes like me except a girl :D
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She better get on it! lol jk
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Then we can have our first kiss together.
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have never been kissed but I don't dwell on it
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unimaginable
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Why unimaginable?
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Never been kissed is unimaginable,never been kissed mean that she is a girl without love.There are many person love us in our life,include our dad,mam and others who had kissed thier honey
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