Unattractive. I want a caring girl, but I really don't want to be coddled or told what to do. I mean right now especially because I have the feeling of wanting to leave the nest and getting out there into the big bad world.
I really value my freedom and independence. Yeah, I'd really love a girl who looks after me and shows affection and does things for me occasionally, but I absolutely do not want a girl who gets in the way of my life, tells me what to do all the time, or clings to me like a wrap that I can't fucking breathe or be in peace. Besides, a little space is necessary in relationships because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
I hate to be one of "those people" but the word 'overprotective' indicates that it's too much. Therefore it would unattractive.
I like a protective woman to some type of degree, but not if she thinks women who I am friends with (and only friends by far) are going to try to flirt with me.
I'm split on this: If she's trying to make sure that I eat healthy, stay in shape, and the likes thereof then it is attractive. If she's being overprotective because she has a jealous streak then please get away from me as fast and as swift as possible.
It can be overdone where it turns unattractive. By overprotective, it means that it is beyond the regular protective nature of a women.
If she has to be overprotective then the overtones of this can be unattractive.
As a man in a relationship I trust my woman to be loving person and loving mom. It does not have to be said... or dwelled upon, it is just implied through our love for one another. We have each others backs not matter what... it is just there in the shadows.
Well, my girlfriend is very protective, and I find it attractive because it shows me that she actually cares. Sometimes it annoys me for a minute, like when she gets irritated at the fact that I have female friends (I'm very faithful btw), but I get over it bc it's one of her ways of showing her love. But I guess that's just me, every guy has their own opinion on this topic.
I like people who are caring, including being willing to protect me and help me be my best. But being overprotective can be a disservice to someone. It can make them less curious about exploring the world and expressing themselves.
Let me be honest with you:
If she is hot then I would just find that personality trait annoying.
If she's okay, depends on her other qualities.
Love it, as long as it doesn't overlap into trying boss you around or act jealous.
got to be attractive, as if she is someone you could see spending your life with you'd want her to have a strong maternal instinct if you had children
I love overprotective women. They won't eat my gummy bears because they give a shit about my feelings.
Protective is great. Overprotective is suffocating and controlling.
I grew up under the thumb of an overprotective mother. Not the best experience.
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