So I've been seeing this guy for like 6 months now. We're not a couple, just friends with benefits.
I never noticed until recently that he rarely changes his sheets. I can see dirt on them and feel so icky when sleeping that I can't get a confortable rest.
How do I tell him to wash them without being rude.
And like I said, we aren't a couple so I know he probably is having sex with others in that bed. So I really need to say something or I can't go over again. I just don't know how. Help!
Most Helpful Guy
*gasp, turns to you, eyes narrow* change your shirts please.
There you go.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's a guy thing honestly haha. When my boyfriend and I moved in together, he had no idea that we were supposed to wash our sheets, like, at all. An older friend of mine said it's common, her sons are the same way.
Anyway, I think you could just tell him directly. "Hey so you know you're supposed to wash your sheets (insert desired frequency you want here) right?" Or even a blunt "ew your sheets look so dirty. I can't have sex on these."1