I touched a guys thigh and he didn't do anything. Is he not turned on by me then?

[Moonbabe94]

This guy was gripping and rubbing my inner thighs. Kinda massaging them and and it felt really good.
So I touched his inner thigh and he didn't say anything except yeah I don't have a lot of meat there and was silent. I was reading that guys usually get turned on by that. But he didn't, it was weird.

[SomeOtherRandomGuy]

Guys don't get turned on by touching our inner thigh. You've misunderstood what actually happens there. Girls are grabbing a guys penis when they do that, not his thigh. If he was already hard, (and, most importantly, tucked in on that side) you might have touched it. If he was not hard yet, or your hand was too low, or his penis was tucked into his other pant leg, then he was probably letting you know to try again.

Alternatively, he may have been nervously admiting that he has a small penis since it would be obvious to you at that point if he had a large one. Some times it's better to just be upfront about stuff like that and see how the girl responds.

If you want anything to happen with this guy, just try again. He may not be very experienced, so don't be shy. I was the WORST at making moves on girls until my first actual girl friend actually spelled it out and said "we're dating. You can put your hands wherever you want. Just do whatever you want to do, and if I don't like it THEN I'll stop you". Until then i was still sort of nervously touching her outer thighs and around the edge of her boobs, but wasn't sure if I was "allowed" to go any further.

That's sort of the down side of guys being "gentlemen", instead of just charging forward. You're going to have to be up front about what you want.

[nfigure]

He doesn't sound very experienced with physical affection, ahah. He just needs to relax. Are you two anywhere close to the point of having sex? If not, then first impression is that it sounds like he's insecure about his legs, rather than his penis lol. A lot of guys have skinny and/or flabby legs because they neglect them. Dudes need to stop skipping leg-workout day. xD

[Moonbabe94]

He's very experienced though. He always touches my thigh and kisses me everywhere. He holds my hand. I don't know.

[nfigure]

Hmm well an experienced guy can still be insecure about his body. I kinda still suspect he's not happy with his legs haha. Kind of like how a skinny guy might feel self-conscious if a girl squeezes and feels up his biceps or something, if he doesn't have much muscle there. He just needs to work out and exercise more. ^_^

[Anonymous]

I may be reading this situation wrong but it sounds like he wanted you to touch his dick. He said I don't have a lot of meat (dick) there. Sounds like he wanted you to reach around in his crotch area to you found the meat. I'm probably reading this so wrong.

[LibraGal98]

All guys are different! Not everything you read online can be applied to real life. He just isn't turned on by it.

[outmyroom]

Maybe he's not attracted to you and just sees you as a chick to touch and enjoy. Not good of him.

[Moonbabe94]

Well he says I'm cute and likes kissing me everywhere and what not. But yeah, I figured he's not finding me sexually appealing I guess.

[selmo93]

Well he must like you to touch you. Probably caught him by surprise

[Nomad69]

really weird sounds insecure like he got a micro penis or something, Not to brag but for me a kiss leads to more pretty much all the time and something like that would turn me on/ have me grabbing and licking on your nipples or neck in like under a minute lol

[Correctfemale]

His thighs are skinny LMAOOOOO
😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

[Nomad69]

@Correctfemale he's probably a virgin just saying. Tell him you want to suck his cock see how he acts or grab at it

[Correctfemale]

" hueeyy babe... I wanna suck ur meaty cuockk!!!"
|)😨
Would feel bad if thats the actual size^

[Correctfemale]

(-|_/-_-/_-_3
^^^

[Moonbabe94]

Lol. He said he's not. He's been in 2 relationships.
He kissed my neck after but we didn't do anything.
He is really skinny and he has a skin condition as well. But that hasn't stopped him before?

[Nomad69]

I don't know maybe he sucks in bed or is afraid you will dump him like the other two did perhaps

[Correctfemale]

Maybe he is insecure about his body. Or wants to take it slow. Told ya he was skinny

[Moonbabe94]

He said all his gf's cheated on him. @-@
Why? I'm not sure.
I don't know maybe. He doesn't seem insecure. He seems like he can get any girl with his confident personality.

[Correctfemale]

He has a small DICK.
is he white or asian?

[Moonbabe94]

@Correctfemale he's Asian.
But isn't that a stereotype?
He's popular with girls?
So it can't be the size?

[Correctfemale]

No.
The average Asian penis size is below 5 inches.
Are you white?
You got to know this Asian paynis by now if you're Asian yourself.

[Nomad69]

@Correctfemale Actually is true there is some site online I found before and white average is like 5.5 inches black is like 6.5 and Asian is like 4.5 inches so at 7 inches I'm doing quite well in that department however I am unemployed that isn't so attractive lol Sounds like either he sucks in bed or has bad choice in women

[nfigure]

Actually it's false lol. Averages don't vary significantly by race. Rather than just looking at "some site" or hearsay, it's better for us to go with legit science journals, etc. Asians and whites average the same size, Pacific Islanders are bigger than both, while blacks are somewhere in between. But the averages are less than 1 cm different between all 4 of them, so the difference is practically nothing:

www.promescent.com/.../penis_size_by_race.png

The findings from such real journals are cited here:
https://www.promescent.com/penis-size
www.cnn.com/2015/03/05/health/normal-penis-size/

[Correctfemale]

@nfigure but Japanese porn is our backup evidence.

[nfigure]

@Correctfemale Porn is not accurate evidence for average bodies/sex lol. American porn doesn't represent the average 5-inch white guy. Average Asian girls don't make those stupid baby noises during sex. And Japanese porn doesn't represent the typical Asian guy; the two industries just hire differently, based on what sells: U. S. porn likes buff dudes and big dicks because of male wish fulfillment; Japanese porn hires the opposite because THEIR customers are turned on by feeling superior to the male talent. This difference is even explained in real interviews with producers/actors who've worked in both countries: it's all about what sells in different places ($$$), NOT to represent bodies/sex realistically.

Besides, mainstream porn hires the same few dozen guys over and over. By contrast, SEVERAL reviewed and published science studies have each measured THOUSANDS of men and found no significant difference in racial average sizes, so that's the evidence we'll be going with. :)

[Correctfemale]

@nfigure thats bullshit. Females by nature like big dicks and Jap porn is not only for men, ever seen silk labo? Their dicks aren't that big except for one which was like 8 inches which you could find on their site. I've seen the. average penis size national average statistics data and the east Asian countries were in the lower 4's which matches the Japanese porn, look at homemade amature Japanese porn it still is just around 4-5. I personally like Asian men and dont base my value of a guy on penis size unless it's micro. Even one korean guy told me he wasn't so proud of his dick. Are you Asian yourself?

[Correctfemale]

And by the way not all females

[nfigure]

@Correctfemale Men still watch it more, and it's widely known and acknowledged that most movies are still catered to male tastes because that's where most of the money comes from. But there are still lots of Asians in porn pics/videos (amateur and pro) who are clearly over 6 inches if people really want to see that kind of thing lol.

As for the more scientific sources, I've already given the links above that cite at least 3 well-known science journals compiling data on THOUSANDS of men --- including one summed up on CNN --- that found no correlation between size and race. Here's 2 more from urologists at 2 known universities (one from China, one from Korea), finding the averages there to be 5-5.5 inches... basically the same average as the U. S. too:

www.koreamed.org/.../1998.39.11.1061&DT=1
www.scribd.com/.../Chinese-Study-1993

[nfigure]

@Correctfemale And I am American.

[GingerGuy]

Women would like that (as you did) but it doesn't do much for a guy. What he probably meant by "I don't have a lot of meat there" was he wanted you to go higher, touch his penis.

[jcoldstream]

Boys can't resist having their thighs stroked. Try the area just below the crotch. Ask him if he's a big boy.

[Correctfemale]

He isn't sensitive in his inner thigh.
This got me turned on...
Oh why

[akadatank44]

Doesn't take much huh?😂

[Correctfemale]

@akadatank44 yeah yeah.
It does kinda.
Like inner thigh rubbing is so hot.

[akadatank44]

Hahah I agree. Should have your guy do it when your out in public seeing her trying to contain herself haha

[Correctfemale]

@akadatank44 public stuff is pretty sexy too... Dayum 👅👅👅👅👅

[akadatank44]

Yes it is 😏 hahah put that tongue away. Save it for later 😉hahahaha

[akadatank44]

he's not very sesnative there. Or you where not high enough. Or he's self concise.

[Omar5881]

Or he was really really really controlling himself

[scooogy]

So the answer is rather no, since he rather said what he said. He just wanted to touch you, he didn't plan on being touched by you.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

I think you're reading to much into this.

[Moonbabe94]

I always do. But still -_-
Wondering why.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

Most guys don't pick of subtle shit like this. He obviously likes you don't get discouraged.

[GiftShop]

Sounds like he's insecure about something.

[COCOCHANEL]

if you want a reflex tap his knee

[Anonymous]

probably has good control over it

[MissMc3]

He's self conscious

[Correctfemale]

Yeah definitely