SHOULD WE BLACK PEOPLE HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER?

[Anonymous]

Here you see that we are the least desired.. as a black girl I've always knew this despite black propaganda from social media from rappers, tv shows, movies etc mostly hyping up black men..

THE MESSAGE IS CLEAR..

But even then our black men have no shame, its embarrassing..
Have you ever seen a latino boy or Asian go after interracial relationships the way black men do?

This is the reality of most of the black man white girl couple unless the black man has money.. Smh

TRUE

Black & black like it should be.. I hope i am not making anyone upset but this is the truth.. We are embarrassing each other with this behavior.. sometimes i wish i was Hispanic latina, they seem to have more respect for each other, they stay together while we scramble around..
SMH... WHAT DO YOU THINK? Give me your opinion on all this..

[Dthefirst]

In my opinion, love is love. Go for who you want. Love knows no color. But what you see is the influence of society and media. If black/black relationships are not popularized then it won't be pursued. If white/white relationships are not popularized then they won't be pursued. What do you see all over Facebook, Instagram and Twitter? You see everyone talking about how they want mixed race lightskin children. So interracial relationships are popularized. I am a black individual and I would rather attempt pursuing a relationship with a white hispanic woman because based on my personal experience, they are easier to confront. If I walk up to a black woman and attempt to make a conversation to get to know them I immediately get attitude.
Me: Hey my name is Eddie what's yours?
Black Woman: What do you want to know my name for? Why are you talking to me? What do you want?
Me:...

While when I confront a woman of causcasian descent, with the same approach, I get a much nicer friendlier response.
Me: hey my name is Eddie whats yours?
Her: Samantha. Its nice to meet you Eddie.

And the conversation continues usually ending in the result of both of us having some type of affection for eachother.

Numerous other black men tell me the same thing and "black girls are so mean for no reason"

Thats what I think at least.

[Anonymous]

If you want to stay within your ethnicity that's fine.

I'm tempted to say White guys and Asian girls seem to have lucked out with their appearance and black people didn't. But it's more complicated. I think black culture is very distinct and doesn't resonate with European and Asian culture very well. I feel that African-British girls who are basically British in every way other than their skin colour get more attention. Whereas I think African-Americans have a distinguished sub-culture that puts them more at odds with the rest of society.

But I notice that in spite of where these arrows point to if you look at the actual numbers, the very lowest of men's numbers is comparable to the very highest of women's numbers. So black women (the least popular women) still got more responses than white men (the most popular men). So black guys are at a disadvantage to an extent yes, but don't really see black girls having that much of a problem.

[Curlybeauty17]

The black community definitely has respect issues when it comes to black men and black women and the fault is on both sides. There are some black men that do nothing but down black women and fetishize women with non black or less black features. There are some black women who do nothing but down black men and fetishize men with non black or less black features. There are some black men who have had bad experiences with black women and exclusively date non black women. There are black women who have had bad experiences with black men and exclusively date non black men. It is a huge issue. There is not other race out there that constantly disrespect each other like that. What we need to do as a people is realize we are all black and we are all facing the same kinds of issues, they may stray a little because of our sex but that doesn't make any of them any less valid. We need to stop generalizing and demonizing one another. We need to find more respect for each other.

[IsraelJordan]

Yaaas gurl you say it! lmao

[Curlybeauty17]

@IsraelJordan lol thanks

[TokyoGhoulLover]

I totally agree with this, I for one will always be down for the brothas. Im from the carribean it is an isolated african-descent run community there, or how the black community should be. We celebrate dark skin, black culture and above all intelligence. Everyone is a brother or sister. That's why as soon as Im able, Im packing up and moving there. Many African Americans are doing it, I strongly encourage it, and there will be no fear but peace. because that is the place that makes sense, and that is the place where we will become strong.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

just another part of #staywoke

[Curlybeauty17]

That sounds very nice, thank you for sharing that.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

no problem, come with me! we need strong voices like your own! and how old are you even? 16? 17? Preach!

[Curlybeauty17]

Nineteen years old. I just might visit there, but as of now I'm focusing on getting a degree.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

darn really? ugh i felt so connected to you though -.- ah well ^-^ and sure please do!

[Curlybeauty17]

Lol sorry for the disappointment. It was nice talking to you.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

girl please I'm still following you! can't wait to see what you post next ;)

[Curlybeauty17]

Same for you!

[Anonymous]

I love how you picked homely women for the black men. And good looking white men for the black women. You must be very insecure. This wasn't about respect at all. This was about your insecurities as a black girl.

[IsraelJordan]

I think people should be with who they want. The idea that black should stay with black is what people have fought against for a long time (Ex> Emmett Till). What does need to happen though, is that black men should stop shaming and putting down black women. I've seen guys call a black girl a "thot" for dancing, and when a white girl did the same dance they said "ohh look at bae". No clue where all the hate for black women came from. I personally can only be in relationships with black women. They know whats up.

[Curlybeauty17]

Yes sir!

[ValkyriesShield]

If Black people don't have and treat not only each other, but everyone with respect, then the rest of the races won't have any respect for them. Say you are in the grocery store and behind you is a lovely White woman. She smiles at you, comments on how adorable your babies are and even offers to help bag your groceries because you've got your hands full. What you would walk away thinking is how polite and considerate the woman was. What you didn't know was that she thought Black people were subhuman. But, she was raised to not only respect herself, but to treat everyone around her -no matter what she privately thought of them-with equal respect and consideration. Again, of Blacks continue to be disrespectful to each other and other races, WHY would ANYONE have or show them any respect, whatsoever? "The world sees who you are and treats you accordingly." -Voltaire.

[EvilPimp]

Here we go again with this. First off those black men with those fat white women are the lowest in looks, money etc. I just saw a dirty white trash dude walking down the street with a fat black woman a few days ago. You act as if black men who are in the top tier when it comes to looks are dating honey boo boo's. Trash usually dates trash because that's all they can get, stop trying to bring race into it. I've seen white dudes with ugly fat women of all races just like I've seen other races of men with them as well. Are the pics that you posted black men who are 10's 9's 8's 7's 6's in looks? NO. Men in the lower tier when it comes to looks and/or money will on average have a bottom low tier woman. Trash dates trash and race has nothing to do with it.

[IsraelJordan]

Agree with about 70 %. Race will always have something to do with everything. The posted examples were bad though.

[Rocket_Queen]

"Dating honey boo boos"😂😂😂 I spit coffee everywhere reading that!

[EvilPimp]

@IsraelJordan Race has nothing to do with it. If you look at these mixed couples its the same as same race couples those black men that are posted with those fat white women would also only be able to get black women that are lacking in looks and overweight also. Men 99.9% of the time are not going to date a fat overweight woman unless he doesn't have the looks and/or money. Look at those black men in those pictures the asker posted. Are those men look like models or even average? No

[IsraelJordan]

@EvilPimp The pictures ignored, the post it self does have some truth too it. Young black males have little to no respect for the black women. I SEENT IT. Thats a problem.

[EvilPimp]

@IsraelJordan I would say both don't. Black men and women have made bad choices in dating and let themselves become jaded and bitter and instead of owning up to them, they generalize each other and throw each other under the bus. However there are black men and women young and older out there that love and respect each other but we always seem to be focused on the negative members of the race. There's plenty of online vids of black men professing their love for black women full of uplifting messages but black women flood these black female bashers on youtube with views making them money instead of looking at the positive black men making vids professing their love for black women. Those vids get the lowest views. It just baffles me why do black women even view these negative vids making these bashers money. Its not like all black men young and old have no respect for black women and its not like every black woman on earth has respect for the black man either.

[IsraelJordan]

@EvilPimp You're right. Had to think about it.

[EvilPimp]

@IsraelJordan Look at these videos. Notice the positive black men making uplifting vids for black women have the lowest views and the negative black men bashing black women have the highest views? You search for negative, you'll get negative. No one makes them watch those negative vids they search for them. I don't understand it because youtube pays people for views and black women are making the black bashers money while the black men uplifting them are hardly getting views. Here's a positive one look at the views. Here's a negative one look at the views then they complain that all black men do is bash them on youtube, no they LOOK for these dudes instead of not paying them any mind and focusing on the positive black men on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTHVWjx0cLY Now look at this second vid and see the views smh. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQCJ0SbUl6g

[Rissyanne]

She makes it seem that those kind of women is all black men can get. I have seen plenty of black men with beautiful white women. I think like a lot of black women... she doesn't want to see a black man with a beautiful white woman.

[IsraelJordan]

That first video is awesome. Had to share it. Dude in the second video also has valid points, but he is generalizing most black women. Now he did say at one point "black women that actually have something with niggas that ain't shit" which is also a generalization. There are plenty of successful black women. The view difference is sick. It looks like people just want drama instead of uplifting each other. You can't blame a good looking young girl trying to use her looks for money if society is showing them that it works :/ Its not even about race at all.

[EvilPimp]

@IsraelJordan Its positive videos like that everywhere on youtube, they just have to search for it which isn't hard to do. That's what black women need to do instead of making the black women bashers all of this youtube money and fame. The tommy dude would've have never been big at all ifit wasn't for black women viewing his vids. Why would they help someone that generalizes them and bashes them live a comfortable life? Because that's what they are doing by viewing these videos

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm going to say this for the 20th time on here. When a large population of a ethnic group or a person goes out of there way to chase and desire another ethnic group of people that don't look jack nothing like them nor their family members or own people, you're shaming and humiliating yourself and your own people at the expense of kissing butt and worshipping folks that in most cases don't even desire you to be part of their ethnic group or family to begin with.

That's why I always say stick to your kind. You won't see me chasing and kissing a white women's butt to be with her nor do I desire them or whomever that is not of my own kind.

My Hispanic sisters are the best in my eyes and I treat them as such. I don't need the love of non Hispanic women when I can get from my own. Period.

[FrankReynolds]

I'm a White guy who is into Black women as well as White women. I am my own person. Maybe people better start respect each. When you tell any group they should stick with this they own kind stuff only creates a us vs them mindsets that only breeds more resentment among everyone.

[BlazeRider_]

There is some truth to this, unfortunately. Either way, it doesn't matter to me as I'm black and I prefer dating black women.

[Maxemeister]

Whites: 1
Blacks: 0

Lmao jk jk y'all downvoter fucks anyways I say fuck race go after who you want, stop making it revolve around race

[pooper89]

I dont think I've ever met a black guy who was shy about letting a woman (most often a white woman) know he was interested. At least they've got that going for them. White guys could take some lessons from black guys in that area.

[Rocket_Queen]

My opinion is that it doesn't matter. Live and let live. Why does anyones color matter?

[iCroissant]

Or you could just let people love who they love.
Your charts don't change anything, they just show evidence of something happening by itself, and it's pointless to argue over.

[Prettyapathetic]

Im half black and half white , and I have to admit that I'm offended. I get your point... But people should love each other regardless of race.

[wolfie12]

"White & white that's how it should be"

Now I'm being just racist, am I not?

[TokyoGhoulLover]

we're not being racist. Our community is not only the most scattered and broken, but one of the poorest in America where even immigrants who are new pick up and become successful quickly. In order for us to become People, we need to band together. Sure love who you love or whatever you're trying to do, troll, argue so be it. But it's not about Hating YOU. It is and has always been about Loving Us. Our Own. Because We are all we have.

[ValkyriesShield]

@TokyoGhoulLover That's because immigrants are hard workers and our community is full of victims and bleating about what happened centuries ago. Immigrants have left a country where they had little to no opportunities to excell and came to a country where a positive work ethic and determination pays off. We LIVE in a country that hands us food, housing, free education (including college scholarships), low interest business loans, equal opportunity, medical care, etc. Mexican immigrants risk life and limb for what we take for granted and don't utilize because we're too busy complaining. Now, look back at your comment then look around at your community. How many people do you know with college educations? Or, even finished high school? How many have multiple children they can't afford? How many have jobs with room for advancement or, have even been at the same job for more than two years? Now, maybe you yourself want better and are working hard for it, but you can't say that about our community. Immigrants want better lives and work hard to get them. Our community doesn't and that is why we are at the bottom of society economically and socially. We MUST do better as a whole or the entire world will turn against us. And, I wouldn't blame them.

[Anonymous]

I agree its better for each community/country to look after eachother. Races shouldn't often mix haphazardly.

[Hidden_P]

Excellent job. Very pointed. Well done.

[Dave31989]

all people should respect all people

[Anonymous]

Black guys will date any color i noticed.