I don't see anything wrong with a woman texting a man first. Hats off to the ladies who do have the confidence to text a man first.
I've been out of the dating game for nearly 3 years now and went on my first date a few days ago. I was extremely nervous. Getting yourself back out there is pretty nerve wrecking.
The guy who I went on a date with is the complete opposite. You could tell that he is very confident and experienced in dating.
Long story short, the date was brilliant. After a few minutes my nerves went away. I even made him laugh more then he made me laugh.
After the date I got a text off him straight away. But now it's been 4 days and I still haven't heard anything.
What I want to know is how long do guys wait before they text a girl? If you don't hear from a guy within a week, should I take that as a red flag, that he isn't interested.
Most Helpful Guy
IT is quite nerve wrecking to be back in that game/space after you haven't done it for a while - too true.
On texting - I believe you should just ask, there's no harm - text when you want, he'll reply, or he won't - and kudos to ladies not afraid to text first or speak their mind.1
Most Helpful Girl
I understand your feelings. It's such an unsure situation right? The same with me here. So 2 days after our first date i texted him said how great the date was since he didn't make the move. Then he vanished in the middle of the conversation for almost 3 weeks and all of sudden reappear with this text "you've greatly impacted my life this 2 weeks". Of course I was off a bit... Anyway, it took him 3 weeks to text me again. If that doesn't bother you, then nothing to talk about if yes, then u need to be honest with him about your feelings1