How long do you wait to text her after the first date?

[confusedgirl1391]

I know some men text same night , next day or even a couple of days later. What is your preference?

[Effably]

Completely depends on how it feels. I very well might text before leaving the building if it feels right.

I also could let it sit a few days.

Somewhere I feel we are all playing roles for each other. I am quite attentive towards what role I am expected to play and if it feels like one I would enjoy tend to do so, while adding my own personal self to it. So it really depends on if I think she wants to yearn and pine or if she'd rather go to bed thinking something like mine.

Very personally though I find waiting long enough that she grows insecure a little tedious and there are easier less time consuming ways to provide that sense of insecurity.

[exitseven]

There was no texting when I was dating but I used to call the next day or sometimes I would call her when I got home. I know there is a three day rule but I used to say that I wasn't real big on rules.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[dudeinohio]

I'd text her when I figured she'd make it home and then ask if she made it home ok... and of course say I had a great time and can't wait for the next date.

[Bklynbadboy12]

This whole thing is stupid when did this waiting become a think. It's sad cause at this age the game playing should be over but I guess not

[Sparkie460]

I would text the next day if I enjoyed her company