Why did you do it? What led up to it?
Where was it? How did you first meet the person?
Were you in a relationship?
Who knew about it?
Did they meet your parents or know your friends?
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16 - we met via blind double date. He was 17. After double date 2 he asked me out. We dated for two months, during that time we slowly got to know each other better. Another guy. A friend started calling me and coming onto me. I just enjoyed the attention for a while but knew I would need to decide between the two. It seemed the second guy was more of a sure thing because he came on so strong. So I decided I would end things with the first guy. I called him and started to explain but as I did something about his voice and the hurt in his voice I couldn't go through with it. I knew I would be making a mistake and fell instantly in love. Instead I chose him and ended things with guy 2. Soon after I told guy 1 that I think I love him and he said it back to me 100 times that night. I only fell deeper. I talked about wanting to be close as possible to him. Skin to skin. I came over and we lay nude together in his bed and it happened. Yes I knew his parents and thought they were great. I met his friends and he met mine. He met my grandma. We became very serious after that. I saw him almost every day for the next three months. It was splendour in the grass. U gave him my heart and my trust completely. Then we had our first big fight in the fall and it all slipped away. He disappeared on me. It unfortunately scarred me for life. I will never ever be able to forget him. And that was many years ago.
20, with my boyfriend just before we officially got together (we were very close friends before that who'd almost got together a couple of times, and we'd sexted). It was the first time my boyfriend visited me (we're long distance). We were in my room at the second flat I lived in at university. I met him on GaG lol. We were basically a couple but it wasn't official until a few days later. I knew about it, his flatmate did too (which I was fine with haha). My Mum and my family implicitly knew from the fact he was coming to stay with me and we were sharing a bed. No and no, not because we were avoiding it but just because my family were too far away and I didn't really have uni friends for him to meet. It was very nice, I was on top, he initiated, both of us were losing our virginity together
Is your family generally open about sex?
Yeah they're pretty open. Me and my Mum are close so it's not like I'd be embarrassed about her knowing when I lost my virginity
I guess that is why. You are Caucasian, yes? White girls are more liberal these days.
Yup. Not liberal though, socialist m8 ;)
Bulls eye. :)
I was 17... a boy named Scott. Like most stories, it just happened lol. He said I needed to relax from all the stress of work and graduating and he'd give me a massage. At his apt. We met at a friends house a few weeks prior that I had classes with. We were not in a relationship, but back then who cared... he was hot and a good kisser. No one knew and no he didn't meet the parentals and he knew a girl I went to school with.
I was 19.
It was with my now ex-boyfriend.
I did it because I loved him.
It was in his house.
I met him through my best friend.
Yes, we were in a relationship.
All my friends and his friends and family knew about our relationship.
I met his friends, he met my friends. We never met each other families.
What were the circumstances that led up to it? Is your family open about sex?
im still a virgin, im waiting till marriage
Seriously? You the guy that took a topless photo and posted it on GAG?
Is it by choice?
I was once like you. That changed when I realized I had to make a point to my enemies to show them I was willing to do anything to get at them... the gangster life.
It was with their mothers.
I was 22, my boyfriend was also 22 and a virgin. I did it because I realized I was ready. I let him know ahead of time (we were temporarily long distance, so we saw each other about once a month) that I wanted it on our next visit, and I already knew he was ready. So we watched a movie, got in bed, cuddled, started kissing, and took it from there! The next morning, I told my mom and my two closest friends.
How did you meet him?
What type of person was he?
Did you talk about it before hand?
Did people tell you to do it?
Are you two still together?
We met in high school, but didn't start dating until we were 21 (and then we broke up for 6 months and got back together).
He was sweet, devoted, goofy, and occasionally a big dick.
We didn't talk much about it. He'd told me a few months before that he was ready, and I said I wasn't sure, so he said "then let's just wait." Once I realized I was ready, I sent him a text that next time I came to visit him, we would be doing it.
Nope, nobody told me to.
No, we broke up this summer.
Why did you break up?
What did he do to make you realize that?
17, with a guy I had met and been talking to for two hours prior at a party. Call me a slut, but I don't have any regrets, and it actually turned into a relationship, I'm dating him now.
Some friends who were at the party knew, and my parents haven't met him yet.
I was 24. It was a boyfriend I had been dating for 10 months. We met at a NYE party. It was also at the party where I had my first alcoholic beverage (23 at the time). It was at his uncle's house in a room full of mirrors. My friends at the time knew about it. He never met my parents but I met his.
I lost my virginity at 17 to a friend of my father. He was 30 years older than me.
Wow.. why?
I'd had a crush on him for years and he was recently divorced. He came on to me and I was caught up in my crush on him and didn't say no
Did you go crazy with sex after having it the first time?
No I questioned my role in life. We had it two more times after that then he ended up back with his wife, which made me feel extremely unsexy and insecure. I made some very bad decisions after that and really didn't get my life in order until I met my husband. All in all I wish I had stayed a virgin until I met hubby, and that is honest truth
How did you meet your husband?
We worked together - I wrote a myTake on it... sorta
Can I read it?
We were dating at the time so he's referred to as my boyfriend in the piece - it's about dating at work
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a31074-dating-a-co-worker-the-pros-cons
Interesting. Nice story.
Thank you
19. boyfriend. loved him. cuddling. his house. school. yes. no one
Did you go crazy with sex after having it the first time?
about 6 months later ya
Are you still with him?
nope. i broke up with him
Why did you break up with him? Was it because the sex was bad?
nope sex was great. he became controlling. he also wasn't career driven... got anothet guy with similar traits... ended that again... now im with a guy thats better at sex... and has a future
What do guys do that makes you like them? Physical traits, personality, etc...
Who made the first move? How did it happen?
in the begining i was more so for who they were... naive basically. there has to be common ground and a foundation to start anything. same views on life.. morals... religion.. political views. those first and foremost have to be the same. physically all of them were muscular.. strangely they got taller as i went hah. first guy was 5ft5... second 5ft10. the guy im with now is 6ft 4. the height thing i think matter subconciously... but thats my preferance. i also like guys who eat... the first one was moody af... never ate.. i actually ate more than him...
in all my relationships they made the first move... because i wouldn't.
What did they do to make you trust them and feel comfortable around them?
lol they asked questions, seemed interested in getting to know me. either went to the movies or got food.
What did you guys talk about?
Intimate? With who? 😂😂
Like sex.
I'm still a virgin 😂😂
Like sleep with or oral?
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