Girls, Is it ok to grab butt and boobs on first kiss?

Question

Is it ok to grab butt and boobs on first kiss?

Answer 1

Anonymous

Depends on her busy language and how into she is with u. Like if she show sign she is having fun but she is not touchy touchy with u then, just kiss. Lol but if her body language shows she wants a kiss on first date then go ahead. Although u could grab butt first... Like when kissing just have ur hands on her back and slowly go down and see how she reacts

Opinion Owner

+1 y
Body* lol I'm on my phone is low connection area 😅
rich-e

+1 y
what about boobs?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Lol bobs will come if she wasn't bother with u slowly going down her butt. And when u see the kiss is getting heated lol
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rich-e

+1 y
you look eperienced lol
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Lol 😅 not really
rich-e

+1 y
how old are you
Opinion Owner

+1 y
I'm 19 😶

Answer 2

Opinion Owner

Body* lol I'm on my phone is low connection area 😅

Answer 3

rich-e

what about boobs?

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

Lol bobs will come if she wasn't bother with u slowly going down her butt. And when u see the kiss is getting heated lol

Answer 5

rich-e

you look eperienced lol

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

Lol 😅 not really

Answer 7

rich-e

how old are you

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

I'm 19 😶

Answer 9

AriadneSky

Explorer

not for me but if you go slow enough that i can stop you when i figure out where you are headed, and you dont stop me stopping you, then we are ok.

rich-e

+1 y
i dont get it

Answer 10

rich-e

i dont get it

Answer 11

CreativeMumble

Yoda

For me, I would like the first kiss to be romantic.
Hold your hand on her lower back, your hand through her hair, something like that.

Answer 12

confusedgirl239 | 111 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

I would say no. That's more intimate than first kiss material.

Answer 13

hannahbanana11 | 154 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

If the guy I'm talking to and I kissed, I wouldn't stop him from holding or touching my butt, I would have pants on.

Answer 14

Lea25

Xper 4

Butts cool, wait on the boobs maybe

rich-e

+1 y
why wait for boobs?
Lea25

+1 y
I don't know just for me it's a little much for a first kiss. But somehow butt isn't. Lol

Answer 15

rich-e

why wait for boobs?

Answer 16

Lea25

I don't know just for me it's a little much for a first kiss. But somehow butt isn't. Lol

Answer 17

Harley101

Xper 3

Honestly if you do that you don't want to make the girl think you only want her for sex and only for her body.

Answer 18

Tiffylynn207

Xper 5

Yes, I think it shows passion

Answer 19

bellaf666

Xper 6

I don't mind really, It's just grabbing,

Answer 20

lilac_flowers

Xper 6

No...

rich-e

+1 y
why not
lilac_flowers

+1 y
A first kiss happened to me when I didn't see it coming once. The guy surprised me and I went with it since I did not expect to touch at all, I went with it a bit trying not to hurt him and then quickly separated. Still we were nowhere near intimacy faze and had he touched elsewhere, I'd have kneed him you know where because it would freak me out.

A second first kiss was out of genuine desire and a prolonged interest. And even if I liked him, I was not interested in going further with any kind of touching due to my feelings about having sex before marriage. I need time and distance to maintain control of myself. He understood that and didn't touch me anywhere inappropriate.

Both times my body language and opinions communicated such physical intimacy would be unacceptable.

If a girl talks sexual, shows strong attraction and starts grinding you while kissing, by all means go for it. But with me it's a simple: no.

No need to read our minds, just our body language. Relax.

Answer 21

rich-e

why not

Answer 22

lilac_flowers

A first kiss happened to me when I didn't see it coming once. The guy surprised me and I went with it since I did not expect to touch at all, I went with it a bit trying not to hurt him and then quickly separated. Still we were nowhere near intimacy faze and had he touched elsewhere, I'd have kneed him you know where because it would freak me out.

A second first kiss was out of genuine desire and a prolonged interest. And even if I liked him, I was not interested in going further with any kind of touching due to my feelings about having sex before marriage. I need time and distance to maintain control of myself. He understood that and didn't touch me anywhere inappropriate.

Both times my body language and opinions communicated such physical intimacy would be unacceptable.

If a girl talks sexual, shows strong attraction and starts grinding you while kissing, by all means go for it. But with me it's a simple: no.

No need to read our minds, just our body language. Relax.