Is it okay to kiss on the first date?

[sakib0171]

Is it okay to kiss on 1st date?

Is okay to kiss on the 1st date?

Yes

No

[OlderAndWiser]

If you kiss a girl on a first date, it should be at the end of the date, unless you just absolutely get the feeling that she wants a kiss NOW! A small percentage of girls definitely do not want a kiss on a first date and, by the end of he date, you will probably have a strong feeling that you shouldn't try to kiss her. The majority of girls are open to a kiss and some actually expect it.

If in doubt, lean in for a full body hug. Then, pull back your torso but keep your arms around her. Your face will be just inches from hers. Look into her eyes and than at her lips and make a slight motion forward. Her reaction will tell you whether she is okay with a kiss and, if she is not, you can simply kiss her on the cheek.

[ShadezMcgee]

Best way to avoid the friendzone and make your intentions clear if the chemistry is there and the moment is right.

[btbc92]

Ask that person. For the most part, I don't agree with it until you are certain that a person is trustworthy, is clean, etc. It is not if it's okay or not. Don't assume a person is okay with it. I'm one of those people who would not agree to that until I am certain that is somebody I want something permanant with. It is very intimate and you're exchanging sex hormones to each other. If you bond too quickly to the wrong person you can cause problems.

[AmandaYVR]

Absolutely. (And there are many types of kisses. Work you way up to eat. Or be spontaneous and decide at the moment.) And never ask for a kiss. That's my opinion. Some people disagree, esp in this day and age, but I don't think anyone should ask. Not sexy. Just lean in, 80%, pause, and hope she comes in the rest of the way.

[Cynicaldreamer]

If the attraction is there and you had a good time with them, I don't see why not! Just be sure your partner seems okay with it too.
And no, you don't necessarily have to ask to kiss them- just lean in and see how they react. If they pull away, tilt their head away, or don't seem responsive, you know that's a no.

[muliebrity]

As I got older I find kissing on a first date to be meaningless to me.. I like to weigh how i feel and don't easily get swept off my feet.. it doesn't feel secure to me.

Now im not expressing it as an absolute for anyone but me. I prefer to wait at least 3 quality dates and several good phone conversations in before ill kiss a guy.

[MissDawn7961]

not really unless you have known them for years but not dated them yet ! You can kiss them on the hand or on the cheek for the first kiss

[Moonchild714]

Yes of course, it's 2019. Go for it find out if they are a good kisser and that the chemistry is there right away.

[Asirea]

I feel there must be something going wrong if you guys didn't kiss. Like if it was super awkward or purely an horrible date.

[just_a_potato]

If you known them for awhile and you are both comfortable with it I'd say that's a good time to swoop in

[Vonspyder]

Depending on your age and stats in life it's also okay to have sex on the first date. Life is short, don't shorten it with bad choices but don't lengthen it with missed opportunity.

[dragonfruitA]

Personally, only if there's been chemistry since before the date.

[PondyPand]

Depends how it's gone so far and if other person consents to it,

[saeyamazaki]

First kiss for me is to be determined after thirty days

[Neeceeb7]

On the first date I'd say yes unless your under 18. Because we dont want anyone catching a case

[cinderelli]

yeah I think it's alright.. it also tells that the date went well

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Just don't force it- let it come naturally. You'll know she wants it because she'll have that look in her eyes and she'll put her face close to yours.

[Anonymous]

Only if it's on the cheek or forehead, that would only be okay if we knew each other already. if they were a complete stranger then absolutely not.

[ChocolateBrowny]

no. germs and all that. I want her to know im not kissing someone I've just met

[NyxGaia]

🤣🤣 Well don't breathe air then, drink water, eat food, touch your soroundings, go out of the house because germs!

[ChocolateBrowny]

@NyxGaia lol when you meet a guy he had his lips on a girls pussy the night before

[NyxGaia]

And hell have them on mine tonight. Tomorrow - good luck to him 😂

[ChocolateBrowny]

@NyxGaia lmao - this is why im staying a virgin :)

[NyxGaia]

Oh wow... You've got nothing to look forward to then 😂you poor buggar

[ChocolateBrowny]

@NyxGaia huh? 😂😂

[NyxGaia]

I don't understand what you don't understand

[ChocolateBrowny]

@NyxGaia it’s not worth the bother

[VikingWarLord]

If she ain't putting out on the first date, it's a complete BUST of a night!

[Massageman]

If there is definite chemistry, you might as well get the tension behind you and have a smooch.

[mishmishayezie]

Definitely okay.
If you're both feeling mutual about it

[Swat_]

Depends, if her hands and feet are tied to the chair I believe itd illegal, but otherwise sure.

[Leslieblah]

If it comes naturally and I’m attractive to them, fuck it. Most people mind, but I personally don’t. Not if I have a great time. Besides, I wanna know if they’re a good kisser lmao

[Browser101]

I think a kiss is a great way to show how you feel on a first or second date.

[Browser101]

At least give a good hug