So we have only known each other two days. I asked him out to the movies and he said yes. He picked me up and we talked on the way there… not awkward at all. It was a nice ride their. We got there and about 5 minutes in he put his arm around me. I was like “okay okay, this is nice” then he moved towards my boob and started to just squeeze it and I was like “wtf this is weird.” I was kinda uncomfortable but also that was my first real date so I didn’t know if that’s like a normal thing so I let him for a little while. Then he started making out with me and he put his hand down my bra and started squeezing again. I let him again because I thought it was normal but then he kept doing it even after we were done kissing and I started to get annoyed when he took his arm away to stretch and put my arm over my boob and he tried to go under my arm and I took his hand away and put it on my arm. Then he stopped and did do it again. I still have no idea how to feel about it because I don’t know if it’s a normal thing or if he shouldn’t be doing that on the first date. I’m nervous to hang out with him again because I don’t want him to get more physical… I want to take it slow and get to know him. How do I make it clear (in a nice way) that I dont want to get too intimate yet?
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Here is what I said
“Hey, I wanted to clear something up. I like you and I still want to hang out with you but I didn’t really like the way you were touching me at the movies. I know I’m about to be a senior but I’m new to the physical aspect of dating/relationships. I will want to get more physical at some point but I want to get to know you more and hang out more before that happens. The kiss was great just not what you were doing with your hand. I hope you understand. Let’s take it slow”
“Hey, I wanted to clear something up. I like you and I still want to hang out with you but I didn’t really like the way you were touching me at the movies. I know I’m about to be a senior but I’m new to the physical aspect of dating/relationships. I will want to get more physical at some point but I want to get to know you more and hang out more before that happens. The kiss was great just not what you were doing with your hand. I hope you understand. Let’s take it slow”
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After I sent that text he responded with, “ ya i feel you and if u get uncomfortable with any thing i do just push me off i’ll stop.” Is this a good sign? Do you think he actually means it?
