We had sex the first time we met and now he wants to date?

[Anonymous]

I met this great guy this weekend and we completely hit it off... we had sex at the end of the night and he kept wanting to cuddle at the end of the night and in the morning. Even kept kissing me the next day. Well the next day he said he had a great time and wants to go out on a date... I'm totally in because I feel like we actually did hit it off... except I can't help to feel a little weird since we did everything backwards... My question is, Do guys care about having sex and then dating? And will it come to bite me in the ass aftrwards? I mean WE are grown here... right?

[Anonymous]

It happens. Relationships can out work that way sometimes. It's just that he got to 3rd base first, and realized that you and him are compatible, at least sexually so he'll try and see if he can take it further to the next step and date you and try to establish a relationship with you. At least sex is out the way now for both of you, and neither you or him have any doubts about that. The way I see it, the more you have sex together the better and stronger your relationship will be, the better everything else part of your relationship will become.

If he wants to date you it's a good sign either way. But if he had left you and treated this as a one time no commitment no strings attached, he would have been like wham bam thank you mam and not continue to have any more contact with you.

[TadCurious]

I don't see why it has to be a problem. Maybe the typical order of things is a little reversed but so what? Sometimes people just meet and there's chemistry and passion and that leads to sex and then they have a relationship.

[ShaunaM95]

I had sex with my current boyfriend like that too lol. I thought it was so weird that he wanted to take me out on a date afterwards but I'm delighted I took him up on his offer. There's never been any awkwardness between us and it's the best relationship I've ever been in. I'd take this guy up on his offer if I were you! It could be the best thing you ever do.

[Anonymous]

What kind of question is this? If he asked, then he's interested.

[MadeInAmerica]

Seeing as he didn't fuck you and dash I don't think there are going to be any problems as he wants to date you.

[ISaythereaint]

do what you feel is right...
hell, I've seen more insane things in the eons I've existed in this dimension.

[Anonymous]

I asked my ex girlfriend out as I was fucking her.. we dated for years after that.

[tazman2908]

no just enjoy it and enjoy dating someone that makes u happy

[cupidkisses]

if u like him then there is no problem date him