I feel like you’re overthinking it so hard because you are afraid of messing up or making a mistake. What I would suggest is to be 100% authentically yourself. Don’t say things that are out of character for you to say simply because you think he will like it more, and don’t do things that aren’t you for the same reason. I get the impression that the age gap may be a bit of a concern for you, but if this guy aligns with what you seek in a man, then you shouldn’t worry about that. If you two don’t work out, he loses interest, etc etc then that was going to happen no matter what version of yourself you present. So be authentic, and if it’s meant to be then it just will.
I read your comment down below.
How about "Well, not sure. My plans fell through, so I'm wondering now.
You feel like getting together Saturday night?"
You are wasting your time going through the motions and creating unnecessary soul ties. On some level this guy senses the same. You need to figure out who you are, and your worth beyond physical pleasure and sex. if you don't do this you will continue with the same pattern and a void will grow.
I realize this is not what you asked, but I don't always answer in the expected way. Take it as you will.
God bless you, and may he make you a thousand times more numerous than you are.
By telling him your plans LOL. If you want to ask him something or want something, say something. Don't hint or analyze. Anything he says take at face value. Guys are direct. We don't have "hidden meanings" or "hint" like women do. Sounds like his Sat is booked, so suggest getting together Sunday then if you want to. "Wanna come over Sunday?" (or whatever, go out somewhere, etc)
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Probably should have said I was hoping to be riding on top of that cock of yours this weekend. But I guess I will have to ride someone else's.
If that does not peak his interest in meeting up with you asap, then move on because he's not certain what he wants.
I think you may be overthinking this a bit. You might consider saying that you were hoping you could get together Saturday evening or something along those lines.
Honestly seems pretty normal. If he continuously says he’s busy then maybe that’s a place of concern but if it’s just this then I say make plans for a free day! So maybe say you aren’t busy but were thinking of hanging out again sometime and would love to know if you’re free
Common we are 36 and can’t communicate? Lol literally just say what you are doing, if it’s nothing ask him to see each other. It’s very simple.
You’re a cougar yo know how to respond. You tell him you planned on him fucking you
Directly ask him for a generous piece of ass, girly
Tell him you want him to smash you out again.
Just respond. If you have no plans than say so.
Be honest with him. Tell him exactly what you are or aren't doing.
You want to hang out after he works on the car like last time but this time you hang out with him
respond, "well, if you're free give me a call, I might be around"
Either be direct and ask for what you want, or lose out.
Tell him what your plans are?
sounds like your getting shafted
Are you a friend of his mom, too?
9 years? really? REALLLLYYYY?
Are plan takeover a movie 🎬 and dinner
u No more sex tell him
Tell him your plans
the truth
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