We discussed from the beginning we want a serious relationship. We discussed the future while dating and having sex, how much children we want and in how many years time. We always looked at money aswell, he lost his job and has dept, finally got back a job too.
It's just recently we had a discussion saying he is not ready for a relationship yet or feelings yet and I dunno what that means.
I am yet to ask him about the future again.
But everytime I did he said he wants commitment.
I met his friends and parents,
but i am not allowed over by his parents which he lives with because i am unvaccinated.
He is only seeing me aswell.
I didn't know what exclusive meant before, now I know it means plans for the future.
Anyways. His ex girlfriend of 10 years got pregnant by another man and she took 30K from her boyfriend at the time to have the baby delivered. He thought it was his.
I wish I knew this earlier..