How do you know if you missed out on dating or having sex with a girl? People say that when the opportunity shows up I should take it?

[poneglyphs]

But what if I never had any chances 🤔 most girls would ghost/stood me up, or just get bored of me. Then that's how you get a 27 year old with no experience with women 😕😕😕

[Avicenna]

I’m pretty sure I’ve told you numerous times that you need to make yourself more interesting to women. Get into good shape, learn how to play a musical instrument like the guitar, learn how to dance multiple styles, learn how to relate to people, and maybe learn some new languages.

I once had a colleague who met her husband when he was her salsa instructor. I’ve gotten gfs because I could speak to them in other languages. And no guy with musical talent is single gif very long.

[NathanDavis]

I have no way to know really... but I do think that once you're dating and in a relationship with someone, all the past should not matter... just live and focus in the moment and be happy, when it happens

[exitseven]

I missed an opportunity. I was 16 and too afraid to tell a girl that I loved her. I knew that somehow I had to get over that fear.

[RealMarek]

So the ones that stand you up... do you text them a lot before the date?

[poneglyphs]

No, not really. I don't know know anymore last time I been on a date was last year

[RealMarek]

Well, I think ghosting sucks. That’s rough. Just keep on trying to work on your career and exercise for now. I know it’s frustrating but a few years from now you might have better prospects.

[Twalli]

You miss out on dating if you don't notice that she flirting. Don't ask me how to know if she is flirting, because I don't know

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well, I don't know but I think I can tell obvious hints

[Twalli]

Girls are rarely obvious.

[In_Trance]

You haven't missed out on anything. Everything happens exactly the way it's supposed to. There are no missed opportunities