If you are a biological man dating another biological man, then you are in a gay relationship. It is still two men regardless of how badly one of those men wants to be a woman. Your gender is determined by your X/Y chromosome, and you cannot switch from either to the other. Whatever difference you believe there is between sex and gender is irrelevant. People who want to reproduce will only care about whether you're biologically a male or female. Biology, facts, and real life do not care what gender you have ascribed to yourself. You do not have the power to place yourself into a foreign gender's roster. The ONLY deciding factor is your father's sperm.
These are simply the facts. I don't hate anyone for believing they were born the wrong gender. I will get along with you just fine as long as you don't dictate that I refer to you in accordance to a belief to which I am not subscribed. If you are a male, I will refer to you as a male, because that's what you are whether you accept it or not.
No, because if they possess all the feminine traits that straight men find attractive, and no longer have a penis then I can't call someone who is having sex with them gay because they are attracted to someone who looks exactly like a woman. I might be wrong because I am not that familiar with the trans community and I am unsure how successful those transformations are, and does all the hormones they take have any effect on pheromones and what kind of subliminal signal ar they sending. Does the male partner pick up pheromones of a man or a woman. If biologically they can very well recognize it's a man more than it's a woman, than yes, they are gay.
Despite we consider them women or not, I don't think it's gay, because when a man like a transexual women they are attracted because they look like women and because they perceive femenine traits, not because of their masculine traits, which are blocked or hidden under hormonal treatments, surgery and so and if done well is almost impossible to notice. So no gay.
However if the trans still got a penis and the other person is aware of that and ok with it, we could consider this person bisexual, as it would be obvious this person likes both masculine and femenine traits, even at the same time.
If they still have penis, then yes. If they've transitioned fully then I don't think the man they're having sex with will know they're trans. It doesn't hurt anyone if they don't know about it.
And since you're asking if its gay or not, do you think a gay man is going to attracted to a trans woman? A woman who was a man but now no one can tell... Would a gay man be attracted to her? If yes, then its gay.
It could hurt someone if they didn't know about it and were contemplating having children with you. It could also be dicey if someone's former sexual status is important to the person they're dating. Being honest is the best policy in a longterm dating situation.
Many people think of being gay or straight based solely on genitalia. I think in this situation Men are attracted to the female beauty aspect of the person. They could care less about anything else.
If you were talking about just passing people on the street and finding them attractive, I would agree with this statement. But when dating or sex is involved, I believe the other person's genitals is a very relevant subject.
I wouldn't say it's gay. Well, maybe it is if she has a penis. I mean, what heterosexual man wants to have sex with a cock? But if she has done the full medical transition, looks like a woman and acts like a women, then the person dating her obviously likes women as opposed to men. Therefore, he is not gay. That being said, he must not have any experience with or care much about having sex with women because a trans woman's vagina is basically a dry hole. I can't imagine it even approximating the experience of sex with a true, lusty, juicy woman. The sad reality is, in the end, trans women are not real women.
Attraction does not define sexuality. A guy can find himself attracted to anyone or anything, but its who he engages with sexually that defines his sexuality. For instance, just because I find females other than my wife attractive, that does not make me a polygamist so long as I’ve only engaged sexually with my wife. Likewise, all these people that argue that it’s “not gay” to have sex with someone born male as long as he presents himself in an attractively feminine form are missing the point here; or can a monogamist say “I’m not polygamistic, because the woman I cheated with reminded me a lot of my wife!”? It’s all quite silly.
I feel like it depends. I wouldn't call it gay since they are still attracted to female features and transwoman do undergo surgery to have more female features. However, if they do not have a vagina, that could easily make the guy pansexual since the guy knows it isn't a real woman and straight guys love vaginas and not penises lol I didn't say bisexual because since I'm bisexual myself, I personally am not attracted to someone who had multiple surgeries to be another gender.
And the thing is, the majority of trans still have a bit of male features. No matter how many surgeries they've gone through, you can still tell it used to be a man back in the day lol so I don't know. But honestly, people can date whoever they want. I even know this guy who is dating this other guy, even having sex with him and he doesn't even consider himself gay 🤷🏽 so to each their own.
If you were born a male, you're male. That's it. Surgery can't turn me in to a man anymore than it can turn you into a girl. You may share appearance with them, but that's only skin deep. So, accepting that, if you have sex with a "trans" girl, you're actually just having sex with a man. So yes, that's a homosexual act, which makes you gay.
Yes it is. I know this is the unpopular opinion but you either get born a man or a woman, a boy or a girl, and you have to learn to love an accept yourself for who you are.
A man who cuts his penis off and wears a dress isn't a woman - they are a crossdressing man who lopped of their penis. A gay relationship is when two men are involved sexually and romantically. Dating a crossdressing man who chopped his penis off is still a gay relationship. Nothing wrong with being gay - it just is.
It's gay. People who are saying otherwise are clowning themselves.
In some countries, men get castrated for raping women. Why am I bringing this up? Because when you castrate a man, he has no dick. When a man get's a "sex change" they also lose their dick. You are essentially fucking a man who got their dick castrated. How is that not gay?
Getting a sex change doesn't really make you a new gender. That is why women who turn into men can still have kids. All a "sex change" is, is a removal or addition of genitalia.
If you get a DNA test, you will still register as your sex from birth. Men have XY chromosomes and women have XX chromosomes. You will still have your vaginal organs if you are a female and as a male you will still have a prostate.
You can't REALLY change your sex.
So... yes... you are gay if you are knowingly sleeping with someone who got a "sex change".
No, because gay men aren’t just attracted to male anatomy. They want to have relationships with men- they’re attracted to masculine personalities. Trans woman have male anatomy and feminine personalities. A guy dating a trans woman could be straight if she’s post-op or he loves her for her personality and can overlook her masculine appearance. He might also be bisexual or pansexual.
Yeah it’s gay. I also don’t see why that is even remotely controversial especially since we are supposed to be accepting of gay and transsexual individuals.
The controversy really is only around a few guys that think they’re straight (but aren’t) and are hurt think of themselves as guy. Almost like they are trying to preserve their self image of straightness because they think being gay is some kind of insult.
Basically, yes. They're still the same sex, regardless what they "identify" as, or what "transformations" they underwent. Just like when wearing a mask does not make you any different underneath, being transgender does not actually change anything more than a societal fabricated perception.
Tbh, this whole it's gay to do this, that and the other. It's stupid. If you fancy someone whether it's a straight or gay relationship so fucking what? Sexuality isn't a set thing for a lot of people and for some people it changes. Some straight guys love trans women but it doesn't take away the fact that they are attracted sexually to Cis Women. I use to call myself bisexual but fuck labels. :) I'll be with who makes me happy at the time, whether he is a guy, she is a trans woman or she is a Cis woman.
Well it depends if they are post op or pre op, I would say that there at least pansexual if they are sleeping with a pre op trans women. Its a complicated thing but I would say who cares, if your a guy who sleeps with a transwomen and doesn't consider himself gay cool who cares.
If having sex with transsexual people doesn't make you gay. Then having sex with 10 year old girls who identify as 34 year olds doesn't make you a pedophile.
i have nothing wrong with two people having sex consensually but here is why it's gay. just because something has a hole doesn't mean you get to have sex with it. beastiality is illegal but it happens because the people are mentally ill. i can tolerate homos but not animal fuckers. there is nothing wrong with being curious with a cantaloupe because you know exactly what you're doing. and you know exactly what you're doing when you fuck a transexual.
I don't know. It depends. A guy who is open to dating trans and also may be open to certain men is gay/bi.
A guy who just dates girls and is only open to dating really feminine trans girls (even a trans girl that looks more masculine turns him off) is probably straight.
Its not gay even if they have a penis. Gay men don't date or find trans women attractive, they only find other men attractive. You're only gay if you are sexually attracted to men. As trans women aesthetically look like women anyone dating them wouldn't be gay.
You might call them bisexual - but like I said if they don't find other men attractive it might not completely describe them either.
Anybody dating/sexing a tranny is gay/lez in my opinion UNLESS you didn't know they had a sex change. But the moment you find out, if u keep pursuing them, you gay bra
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