He’s 35 and I’m 22 is it okay to date?

[Anonymous]

I’m 22 and the guy I like is 35 is it okay to date I mean we both like each other. We get along really good and we have a good friendship he is so sweet and respectful

Since both of you like each other and share a strong friendship, that's already a solid foundation to build on. Friendships often evolve into romantic relationships, and the fact that you get along well is a great sign. It sounds like he is sweet and respectful, which are essential qualities in any healthy relationship. Respect is a crucial factor, especially when there is an age difference, as it helps ensure that both partners feel valued and understood.

It's also important to consider life stages. A 22-year-old might be in a very different place in life compared to a 35-year-old, which could impact your relationship. However, if both of you are emotionally mature and open-minded, these differences can often be navigated successfully.

Have open conversations about your expectations, goals, and even any concerns regarding the age difference. This communication can help both of you understand each other better and align on what you want from this relationship. Make sure that both of you feel comfortable and secure in the relationship as it develops.

Ultimately, what matters most is how you feel about each other and your ability to support and care for one another. So if you both are interested and happy together, there’s no reason you shouldn’t explore the potential of your relationship. Enjoy the journey and take your time getting to know each other on a deeper level!

[ohsheeT]

Well, I'll tell you when it sounds like you have your s*** together and forget about what people say on here. Anyway, they're not living your life. You live your life and you be happy if that's what makes you happy. You have to do it


This is a moment in time this is He learning period it's a moment in time. It doesn't mean anything else except for this moment.
I say go for it. And I hope that experience is very, very good for you. And you learn a lot because I guarantee you will. I think you will also have a blast. Because older just really good in a lot different ways

I guarantee that you're gonna hear good things and bad things on here And that's okay it doesn't mean anything except for it It's something that somebody believes in. You need to experience something in order for you feel the things your going to. I mean your not goingbto the noon lol. Have fun You will also find with just about everything you do. It's going to be ten times funnier than guy's your age

[Stevepro68]

Sure understand that there is a power difference he has a decade more of wealth accumulated. A decade more of stories and maturity. Makes him seem very attractive. But still treat it like a difficult gap to bridge.

[Anonymous]

I'm 35 and I'd NEVER date a 22 year old but now I'm not male. The 22 year old has spend more time as a child than an an adult, and fuck no if I'm going to date a child that is experiencing most things for the first time. Heck even if they ventured out young, as I did, then no thanks, again they're closer to childhood than adulthood still. Why people put such a big empathise on "legal adult" disgust the fuck out of me because I know they'd fuck children if it was legal. (Plenty do regardless)

I'd question why the fuck that 35 year old can't find someone his own age. But again, I'm a woman, I not be creep.

[serious]

There is too much gap. However, if the compatibility is great then it is fine.

[Staximus]

Nobody's opinion matters. The question is if you date him, is it going to negatively or positively impact your life?

[jahaims]

A 35 year old guy is incredibly immature if he has enough in common with a 22 year old to date.

[MrChinaski]

It is fine. I wish you only good things.

[Anonymous]

It is borderline creepy.

[RedInnocent69]

If you’re both over 18, the answer’s always, yes

[shortster]

Yes, you are both adults.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 good luck.

[zombiewoof]

of course