How many of you girls would date a guy shorter than you?

[Anonymous]

Now I consider myself to be average height 5'10 but am generally the most attracted to tall girls. Personality aside would many of you date someone shorter than you or not?

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[ChocEyes1]

Oh c'mon , you guys are still crying about that? I don't mean the asker, but the bitter male answers. I left this website 1,5 years ago and you were bragging about that, then I come back and you're still bragging about it?

Look, I'm 1,69 m (5'6'' for those that don't know the metric system), and I'm sure I'm a turn off to many, many girls, but so what? How does that change my life exactly? I have preferences too, I prefer girls with curves and a fit body and would hate if people started giving me a hard time about my preferences.

Live and let live is one of my mottos.

[beaves11]

Luckily for me at US average height of 5'9 I can say I'm typically attracted to cute faced skinny petite girls around 5'3 ish so I don't care haha

[Asker]

I'm perfectly happy with girls shorter than me as most are but I find the tall ones get my attention the most.

[beaves11]

Really? That's weird to me most girls taller than me I have no attraction too but I like very petite skinny girls etc. to each their own.

[MissMurphy]

Sure, and I'm pretty short myself at 5'4. As long as he's not painfully self conscious about it it doesn't bother me. It admittedly doesn't come up much at my height, but I've never understood needing your partner to be taller, it's kind of fun to mix it up and be the tall one for once. Just not caring a woman is taller than you reads as confidence to me, which tends to be attractive. Plus it's hard enough findinga partner who really profoundly suits you without excluding people based on something as arbitrary as height.

[ElissaDido]

Im 5'6"
I have been attracted to guys who were around 5'5" before ( they had good values, Nice faces, and were very smart, CONFIDENT) so i might do it if he isn't over an inch or so shorter.
BUT my preference is 5'11 to 6'3".

[Ceanel]

I am myself a "tall girl". To me this means many guys are shorter than me, but this absolutely doesn't stop me from dating them (except they are like 3 heads shorter). Size is'nt the most important thing:)

[MCheetah]

@Ceanel
How tall are you, and how short would you date?

[angelady]

There is absolutely no legit reason for girls to not date guys shorter than them, but it always looks odd to me. Of course, I'm 4'9", so I've NEVER had this issue. I've date guys who are 2' taller than me though and I recognize how odd that looks. Go figure. Love is blind. I say whoever you're attracted to, ask. If she's insecure about it, it's her issue to work out, not yours.

[yotes-of-472]

Peter Dinklage is 4'5" and many women like him. He has a great personality too. What's wrong with him?

[angelady]

@yotes-of-472 absolutely nothing! He's never asked me out. 🙃

[JannaGirl]

My boyfriend is 5'6 or so, am a good head taller than him.

[hottiegalhere]

Gosh... How tall are you?

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere 6'2

[hottiegalhere]

Gosh, a 6'2 woman with a mere 5'6 man.
Funny enough.
Isn't he insecure?

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere He likes it very much that am taller than him.

He doesn't feel insecure at all.

[hottiegalhere]

And what about you?
You like that he is soooo smaller than you?

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere Am okay with him being short, just that sometimes he does make me feel insecure due to his slimmer build.

[Asker]

good for you, I think sometimes women can be too closed minded, there's a difference between having preferences and being shallow.

[hottiegalhere]

He is skinny than you, he is way short tha you.
Still you like him?
Doesn't it look odd to be with such a man ESP during intimacy? You easily dominate him?

[Asker]

Reminder: Don't feed the trolls, thanks

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere Yes I like him very much and in many ways I do like the intimacy with him as it makes me feel dominant over him.

[hottiegalhere]

Yeah it obviously seems like you are really dominant woman over this short skinny man. Do you dominate him sexually and physically as well?

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere Yes I do and I did tell him before that I expected him to submit himself to me.

During sex itself, I do tell him what he has to do and he knows the consequence of not doing what I tell him to.

[hottiegalhere]

Consequences of not doing what you want him to do!!! What consequences does he face if he disobey you? Wow
Hmmm.
Have you ever emotionally and physically hurt him as well?

[hottiegalhere]

Is your favourite position woman on top?

[JannaGirl]

@hottiegalhere My favorite isn't woman on top except when I'm angry at him.

I prefer ordering him to do what I want him to do.

Some of the consequences he will face is his butt getting a spank, placing him in a chasity belt and making him watch porn. Every now and then I will punish him by making him please a woman that he does not like very much.

[hottiegalhere]

Lol, when you are angry at him you ride him sexually! Lol
Is he able to take your heavy tall well built body on his skinny built body? Lol
Why do you prefer ordering him rather than riding him?

[thesongwentonforever]

I'd be okay with it--even if it's noticeable, just as long as it isn't dramatic (I'm 5'5" for example, so as long as he isn't anything like 4'1")

[Asker]

To be honest I can understand why many women would be uncomfortable with it as I may feel awkward as well. Most straight women are attracted to masculinity makes sense. Good that your open minded 😀

[yotes-of-472]

What makes being tall more masculine than being short?

[JohnSmith627]

@yotes-of-472 When viewing height from a biological perspective, it's associated with protection and safety, two factors that align within the attributes of masculinity.

[fauchelevent]

I'm 5'2 so that'd be pretty hard but no, I don't think I would. I like being the smaller one, I wouldn't wanna date a guy or girl shorter than me.

[yotes-of-472]

Why not?

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 Like I said, I like being the smaller one.

[yotes-of-472]

Why so?

[Asker]

@yotes-of-472 Give it a break egg yoke

[yotes-of-472]

Wow, you going to make fun of my name? I'm tired of women and their sexist bullshit mantra that women are more important when men have to be taller than her.

[yotes-of-472]

I'm 5'4" and I'd date a 5'8" woman and would even rather her wear 4" heels to appear 6'.

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 Good for you. Height preference isn't sexist, in my opinion, seeing as both men and women have it. There are plenty of me for whom I would be too short for and that's okay, dating is a discriminatory thing in general.

[yotes-of-472]

Doesn't have to be discriminating. They choose it to be that way.

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 The same way for guys who wouldn't date me because of my height or guys who won't date girls taller than them. Everyone has preferences and things they're more comfortable with, physically and personality-wise and that is natural and not something that can be avoided. Sucks but everyone deals with it.

[yotes-of-472]

Some men have a preference to slap women. Why not deal with that too since it's their preference?

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 Because that is a completely different situation and by even suggesting it's the same thing, you make yourself seem utterly ridiculous?

[yotes-of-472]

No it isn't. You claim you can have your preferences and shouldn't be challenged. Why can't others have their preferences without being challenged?

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 I never said that I shouldn't be challenged. Challenging things and beliefs is incredibly important, you should challenge everything. However, in my opinion, attacking another person is not the same thing as not finding them attractive and it is insane to compare the two.

[yotes-of-472]

But you wouldn't date an unattractive man though. If all men were shorter than you, what would you do?

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 I wouldn't date a man that I considered unattractive, no. However, many would consider my partner unattractive for some of his features, such as how his hair goes down to the small of his back. I find him incredibly attractive, others would find him incredibly unattractive. So to many people, I already am dating an unattractive man, to others I'm dating someone very good looking. All depends on preference. I also don't think that not wanting to date someone you don't find attractive is a bad thing.

And if all men were shorter than me, then I assume that would be something that I would have grown up with and considered normal and thus my preferences would change and I would probably be attracted to shorter men? I'm also bi, so if women were still taller than me, I'd be happy enough having a relationship with a woman.

[yotes-of-472]

See? You ain't confidant. Your preferences are determined by outside factors, not by your own thinking.

[fauchelevent]

@yotes-of-472 Yes because that's the way attraction works, dear.

[yotes-of-472]

No it doesn't. I don't dictate my views upon how things are predicated around me. People have unorthodox views like me in many things too but I don't base things on how they currently are. I view men who wears suits as wusses even though men of today wear them to formal events. I make up my own mind, not base it upon what is currently trending.

[xxNDMxx]

I used to date a guy shorter than me, so fine with me.

[Asker]

Mind if I ask how tall you are?

[xxNDMxx]

5'5.

[Bleh-___-]

I wanna be the good person and say I would but I have to be honest, it would feel really weird for me. My standards are reasonable though. I don't have a strict "he has to be 6ft minimum" rule. I'm cool with 5'9"+.

[Anonymous]

Wow the asker make everyone sexist LOL
i wouldn't date short guys especially shorter than me. I am 5"4'
I don't think men should be taller than women. That's sexist. I don't judge couples who's boyfriend is shorter than her. I don't see any problem.
But simply i prefer super tall guys. Even 6" seems short to me. It's just a preference.
Men in my country are really short (East Asia) and i never thought they are attractive.

[egi22]

I wouldn't but because I am short😂 any guy shorter than 5'3?

[Asker]

Any preferences for height?

[egi22]

Taller than me. Of course tall guys are very attractive, but guys can be attractive even is they are short. And... I don't think a very tall guy ( as I like) would date me. I dated guys 6ft tall though, but I felt self consciuous about my height...

[Vivaldi]

Do you find a guy at the body mass index of 22 skinny?

[egi22]

@Vivaldi Um... no. I have 17.5😂

[Vivaldi]

:) :)

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vivaldi All that bmi takes into account is height and weight. It does not take into account working out, exercising, what you eat etc

[Vivaldi]

@MysteriousDarkness

[Vivaldi]

If you are not using steroids, you cannot gain much muscle.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Vivaldi How much muscle do you think a person on average can gain without steroids?

[Vivaldi]

@MysteriousDarkness Brad Pitt had a normal body mass index. That is normal body.

[SensualScribe]

My preference is taller guys, as I am only 5'6 and most guys are taller than me, this is not usually an issue. I would not count a shorter guy out just for being short, though.

[theceejmachine]

I'm about 5'11" and I would be fine with a guy who is maybe one or two inches shorter than me, but not much more than that. I usually prefer guys who are the same height or taller, though.

[hottiegalhere]

Guys around 5'6?

[MarcusBorino]

What about 5’7-5’8?

[whatlikeitshard]

I am 5ft.6, and I would probably date a guy who was my height or a little shorter. I am a little biased because my mom is a little taller than my dad, so I don't really mind the shorter thing. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was a lot shorter than me, though. I just generally like really masculine guys, and I find shorter guys to not be as masculine.

[yotes-of-472]

Why is tallness considered masculine?

[whatlikeitshard]

@yotes-of-472 I don't know, it just is

[Eternal_Flame]

I prefer a guy to be taller than me cos I'm only 5'1 , as long as I look up at him and not down at him his height is ok for me 😋

[yotes-of-472]

Why can't a man be shorter than you? Why so sexist?

[Eternal_Flame]

You're confusing the word sexist and preference 😏everyone has them. Surely you do too

[NahidSattar]

My ex wasn't intimidated by my heels choices.
He was ok about dating any woman with great personality.
As long as you are not intimidated by my 6 inch heels, we are good to go.
It's better not to drag your personal insecurities during the dates.

[airishere]

Whats your height?

[NahidSattar]

@airishere 5'3"

[LittleSally]

I only know one girl who's 183cm... and she is looking for a dude that's not smaller than her - however, I think she's open to all possibilities.

[TinyCactus]

Well I'm like 4',9. If a guy is shorter than me, then I'd feel kinda weird, but I wouldn't mind a small guy.

[dontaskmebaby]

I am 4'8 , would you date me?

[TinyCactus]

@dontaskmebaby depends if you're cute and if you have a good personality.
I honestly don't mind the height as much as a lot of other girls do because I'm so tiny.

[dontaskmebaby]

I am cute and I am nice

[estoydorado1]

I'm 5 ft 2 inches so if the guy was otherwise a perfect match and my height I may date him, but I couldn't go any shorter.

[musicbrain5]

Well I'm 6'1" so that's only a 3 inch difference. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I have been attracted to shorter guys in the past.

[OrangeBoy]

37% of girls/women would date shorter guys.
More is impossible. You just have to be lucky.

[Asker]

where'd you pull that statistic from?

[OrangeBoy]

And inside those 37%... 32% are teen girl... and 68% are full mature woman.

Just random thinking lol, but im convinced is close to reality :p

[Asker]

so wishful thinking lol

[Dipsy]

My mom is taller than my dad, if that helps you in any way. She is around 170ish cm and my dad around 160ish I think

[anaspie]

I have, as long as he is confident in his height its all good.