Am I too heavy to be picked up?

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I'm 5'8 about ~143 pounds. Not light obviously, but I don't think I'm fat... anyway, the dude I'm talking to tried to lift me. He is 5'11. & he literally dropped me. I caught myself so I didn't fall completely, but I was a little surprised cause my ex was the same height and skinner than him, but was able to pick me up and hold me for sometime. & my ex was able to pick me up and carry me to bed if I fell asleep on the couch or something.. and I weighed more when he did all that. Also, When he dropped me he mentioned that I was "tall". anyway, I don't know if it was the position that made it harder cause I was straddling him

MrReason · Accepted Answer

Ask him if he thinks your fat. If he says yes, you probably don't want to hang out with him. If he starts to distance himself and said 'no' when you asked him, he's a lying dick head and does in fact think your fat.

However, I'm sure if he is truly interested in you, meaning all of you inside and out, he will continue to make himself available for you. I was with a voluptuous woman before and she was beautiful to me, and that's all that mattered!

MrJhonnyBravo · Accepted Answer

Haha you're super light? Anyone under 80kg is easy to pick up, he's just weaker than your ex don't judge him for it. But if he judges you and says you're heavy he's lying to put the blame of his weakness on you

karahiri · Accepted Answer

i could lift you easily and i weight less than you. that dude sounds weak. i lifted up a 175 lb dude in my class LOL. and i weigh 110ish. I don't know. might have gained some this week.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most people cannot comfortably dead lift 143 pounds. You're not too heavy. You're at a very normal weight for your height.

TripleAce · Answer

143 can be a little heavy consider he may only be anywhere between 150-180 himself...

The ideal weight where most bros can throw her around easily is between 105-120... Here you can just swing her around lol

Shadow44 · Answer

143 isn't a bad weight. A lot of guys could lift that and some guys aren't strong enough to lift that. Some guys are just not that strong. It doesn't mean that you're fat.

slatyb · Answer

Plenty of guys can pick you up. The dude may just have picked you up in an awkward way, or else he just has no core strength.

faafduplessis · Answer

you have a perfect weight babes, usually this weight category has perfect ass and boobs which are triggering points for every dick to go inside. so just chill, give him queen and doggy positions in sex

Nephilim000 · Answer

you don't weight that much I lift way more than that on a regular basis in various positions

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

You're dead weight when your asleep. Does the new boyfriend have shorter arms than the old boyfriend?

Chrisinator13 · Answer

you're not fat or anything he either lost his grip or just isn't strong...

Anonymous · Answer

I personally could throw you over my shoulder and go for a 5 mile run but to a normal person your asking him to pick up a addition 75% or more of his body weight

Juarez · Answer

It's obvious that your boyfriend is weak, comparing to what your ex able to do.

Afrotherealest · Answer

Tell him to hit the gym lol

hellacray · Answer

the guy us nothing but skin and bones.

LastNightmare · Answer

I'm picking you up right now baby

alppleorange123z · Answer

come to me I have fetish for Big Girls

Anonymous · Answer

not too heavy for a strong guy

Anonymous · Answer

WOW  you are SO tall views on short men?

the-mad-german · Answer

he's just a wimp...

JayLiche · Answer

Woman...

LORESKI · Answer

he's just weak

Am I too heavy to be picked up?

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