What do girls think of bisexual guys?

[max990]

[Nikeleta555]

I dated a guy who was bisexual. I have quite a few bisexual friends too (both male and female). I liked being with someone who was bi. When we broke up he and I would talk about guys we thought were cute. Even when we were dating we'd talk about stuff like that

[Jim_F]

You say you would talk about guys who were cute.
Did you also talk about girls who are cute?

[Nikeleta555]

Yup we talked about everything and anything, really

[DizzyDesii]

A lot of bisexual guys assume all girl would be cool with it. I was actually mad at this one guy Nate when he didn't tell me til later on that he was bi. He then called me homophobic because i didn't want to date him. But whatever

[max990]

I don't think that he did anything wrong

it's not like he cheated on you
so why would you break up with him

basically it doesn't matter if all what he wanted was you

[hidbd]

That's one of the lash-back mechanisms some people use to insult you when they don't get you. Highly immature.

[DizzyDesii]

I didn't date him. He liked me but wasn't gonna tell me he was bi. I found out in other ways

[hidbd]

@DizzyDesii I think you did the right thing. He was planning to hide such a big detail about him. I mean sexuality? Come on... that's huge.

[DizzyDesii]

@hidbd thanks

[vonasaurus]

i dated one when i was in my teens.

as long as he's loyal to me and std-free (the same standard to which i'd hold any prospective partner, whether male, female, gay, straight, all, or neither of those), it's a non-issue.

[max990]

BEST ANSWER !!!

[vonasaurus]

thank you :)

[lord_chilled]

Well, its a dealbreaker for a lot of girls.
Liking other guys simply isn't a masculine trait, and most women want a masculine man.

[TrollG0D]

They love guys like that. Especially the very feminine ones.

[RJGraveyTrain]

They're fine but wouldn't date em'.

[nevermoregirl7]

I am not against it. I have fooled around with bi men before. I am sure men wouldn't have a problem with it if I was bi.

[Dez22]

I'd date one. It would be an added bonus too if some possibly will be interested in a bisexual mmf threesome

[max990]

😑 it's not how bisexuality works

most bi people want someone to love regardless of the gender

soo most of us won't share our partners with anyone else

[Dez22]

I'm fully aware of that, every sexuality is the same way, hence why I said "SOME" and also because the reality is if I want a bisexual threesome I'd have to be with a guy who is bisexual who likes bisexual threesomes. Gays guys won't do it, straight guys won't do it, but being with a bisexual increases the probability of me encountering someone interested in that. There's no way around it.

And before you think I'm solely searching for bisexual guys for this specific reason i'm not, I actually have a boyfriend he is not interested in that, and it's not a huge deal to me because that's not why im with him, hence why I said interested in a threesome would be an "added bonus".

[IAmRedThunder]

I wouldn't care if he was bi. That wouldn't change the possibility of me wanting to date him or not.

[Alwaysthere85]

I respect all sexual orientations but as with other aspects in terms of my preference, I wouldn't date a bisexual male.

[deraz24]

I couldn't date one, but I do have one as a good friend

[Izumiblu]

Would never knowingly enter a relationship with one.

[Anonymous]

In general I don't think anything of them. But I would never date one.

[max990]

may I know why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because it's unattractive to know that my man is also attracted to men. Huge turn off.

[AdviceTerrier]

Can we have a three way? Or a four way? That's my opinion. It doesn't really matter to me.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't date one but I find bisexual couples cute.. Sorta

[max990]

why I don't get just because we are doesn't mean we will cheat on you. plus other straight guys might cheat on you with another girl Soo doesn't make sense

[hidbd]

@max990 its not that they think they will chest on them or that they are homophobic, its just that they prefer straight guys who only go for girls and not guys. Its a preference. Simple.

[max990]

but why what's the difference since when you're in a relationship you are committed to that person only?

[hidbd]

Yeah, I get that. But its a preference. Everyone had turn ons and turn offs, and most women are turned off by the fact that their boyfriend is also turned on by other men. Or just the mere thought of their guy wanting another dude secually just turns them off.

[hidbd]

And plus, even when in a relationship, people check out other people. Most girls will get turned off when their dude not only checks out other girls, but also other dudes.

[max990]

ya but bi guys are usually picky just because they are attracted to people of the same gender doesn't mean that they are attracted to everyone

[hidbd]

Your argument is all over the place. I'm not talking about cheating, being attracted to everyone, or anything of the sort. Its just a preference. Just as how I would never date a bi girl either.

[Asuna_Yuki_XD]

Well I'm a bi girl so I'm cool with bi guys

[max990]

it's sad how evil straight girls are in comments 😡

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

Nothing really. But I wouldn't want to date one as I'd be concerned for my sexual health.

[Dez22]

omg you need to be concerned with your sexual health with anyone and everyone haha.

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

@Dez22 Oh I am. But a bi guy could sleep with another man behind my back and everyone knows there's more chance of them catching HIV.

[max990]

a straight guy could sleep with a girl behind your back and she could have HIV too
doesn't make sense tbh

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

Yes but there's less of a risk. Also, I don't truly believe in bisexual men. They're usually full blown gay but label themselves as bi.

[max990]

not really some gay guys say that they are bi because they think it's easier to come out

but bisexual does exist

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

Well that makes it all the more difficult to trust a guy who claims to be bi. Plus, the majority of them will have a gender preference and 9 times out of 10 they seem to prefer men.

[max990]

still though it's unfair not giving a nice guy a chance just because he is bi

my point is don't just judge someone with a word

I actually find the world bi Soo inaccurate at describing people

some bi people are sex addicts and like threesomes

while others are romantic and they just want a partner to love regardless of the gender

for example I'm a BIromantic DemiSexual

means I'm only attracted to people I love mentally and romantically
and I idolize love and would never cheat on my partner

while other bi guys can be aromantic and only care about sex

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

It's just not attractive to most women for men to like other men. Bisexual women are more accepted because men think two girls kissing is hot/there's a chance of a threesome. The truth is two guys kissing etc isn't considered hot to the vast majority of girls in the world.

[max990]

well if you're dating he is supposed to only kiss you which is a girl i think !!!

[ABurstOfPizzazz]

Ha well true but what I'm saying is the only reason bi women are accepted by guys is because they think it's hot otherwise they too would probably not want to date one. The thought of a guy being with another guy is kind of gross, whether he is or isn't still being with men while he's with me. It's just a complete turn off.

[bre_sig]

I'm not attracted to guys like that

[Rissyanne]

Wouldn't date them...

[SarahsSummer]

to each their own or the other. Not for me though

[Craig26]

same as bi guys, haha just normal people

[Anonymous]

Don't care much for them but I wold not date one.

[Viranda]

Not an attractive feature.

[Iraqveteran666]

A bad investment for a long term relationship

[Anonymous]

They are fine, why do you think? Are you bisexual?

[max990]

yup I was just curious cuz a bi girl asked the same question earlier

however most straight guys didn't mind

but i just found out that straight girls are evil

[Opinion Owner]

Why are they evil? I'm bi, by the way

[Helpneeded2]

Wouldn't date one

[SunsetLover]

Won't date them.