I know SOOOME guys kiss and tell. Like, I met this girl online and we started talking, and she told me how she kissed this guy, and he went on and told this other guy who happened to be friends with her as well. It's kinda annoying, if you ask me. Just because you kissed someone doesn't mean you have to let the whole world know. Geez. ~__~
Anyways, I think they do it because they like to gloat about it, especially if the guy they tell also happens to know who you are. I know it sounds silly and childish, but hey - that's how guys are usuallly. Let's say we're talking about two guys here - S and D. Let's say S kissed this girl that D knows about. It would probably go something along these lines:
S: "Hey bro you know that girl in accounting?"
D: "You mean that hot girl who's always flirting with you?"
S: "Yeah, her. Yeah, I totally kissed her the other day."
D: "No way, man! That's awesome."
If I kissed a girl though I probably would go and tell my best friend about it as soon as possible, because I still haven't kissed yet and it would be like one of those things that I'd feel like making a big deal about. =p She'd be the only one I'd tell though. I mean, I can imagine these days nobody cares if you made out with a girl or not.
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depends on the girl and the circumstances. if it was a drunken 1 night stand.. HeLll NOOoo if I was on top of the world and wanted people to know how happy I am then yeah id be like "D0000d you would not beleive this! I'm so happy with life right now!" Also if it's one of those 'no one can know about this moments' then no I wouldn't.
I am not sure why but... Me and this guy agreed to keep our little "tryst" a secret. He said he didn't like people knowing his business. He said if he heard it come back to him he would know I was telling people.. Well I didn't tell anybody and the a** told his "best friend". Of coarse he told somebody who I am close to and it totally came back to me... Why did he kiss and tell like that? I totally can't trust him so that's totally over.. And this coming out could really be bad.. Guys: WHY!
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It depends, if the girl is an amazing kisser and the subject was brought up. Yeah sure why not, girl shouldnt be mad if I am boasting about her. If the girl was a bad kisser, I won't even mention her as a person I have been with, unless we were actually boyfriend and girlfriend out in public. If it was just a get together make out session and she was bad, yeah never happened, not telling anyone.
i would only tell my best and closest of friends if they bring it up and what came out of my mouth would only be good things like wow she was amazing or I love the taste of her lip gloss. other than that its between me and her
i don't like making my personal life headlines.(i'm unlike most people thought) I see no reason to make it known to everyone what you and your girl are doing
only my closest m8s would get info but generally speaking no because I dnt want everybody knowing my sh*te
I tell my bros because they tell me their stories. It's about trust. I will avoid mentioning her name out of respect.
Not a good idea you get a rep and then some girls will avoid you because you tell...
No, never, this would be a betrayal of our conifidence in each other.
Besides, could be dangerous, often relationships are secret or illicit!
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