Is she lesbian or will she date me?

[Nils19831]

I met a girl and she is exactly the type of person with whom i would go in a relationship. But at the very beginning she told me she is lesbian. She also said that she really likes me and that its a pity that i am no girl. So what do you think should i try to flirt with her or definetly not?

[Lottifan]

If she is a lesbian she won’t be interested in you sexually. All you can do is try to be friends with her if you want to but don’t go any further.

[blubblubblub]

probably not, if she's a lesbian, she just isn't attracted to guys, unless she's bisexual

[Nils19831]

I guess she isn't sure bc she made out with boys sometimes. She told me she just didn't feel much. But when she says its a pity that im a boy, isn't it possible that she would feel something with me?

[blubblubblub]

mhm, if she's definitely told you she's a lesbian there wuldn't be much chance, but if she's unsure or questioning and has made out with guys, maybe you could try. but id try not to get your hopes too high in case she's definitely a lesbian

[Mathilde1211]

Why don't you just ask her?

[Nils19831]

That would be a great idea