This girl and I met twice. The second one was more official and we met and talked more. We instantly warmed up to each other and she started to tease me a lot jokingly. We got closer and over time I started to feel romance that I tried to fight at first. We’re both girls but only 2 years apart in our 20s with her being older. Every time I talk with a colleague I catch her looking at me and once she asked what we were talking about.
She would check up on me a lot especially when I was not interacting with her on a certain day. and I could genuinely see she cared about me. I’m dating a guy (I’m bisexual ) and she has not expressed any interest in knowing about him. Another girl also has a boyfriend and she’s asked about their relationship. She visibly gets upset when I talk to him around her. She has definitely done stuff to get me in trouble for talking to him. That’s where our only problem comes from but this is a workplace so we have to act like nothing happens.
It’s been months since our second meeting. There was a period where we weren’t talking and there was some awkwardness due to the whole her getting me in trouble thing. However, recently she’s begun to joke with me again and touch me more. She still never fails to ask how I’m doing.
When we talk once before she has stuttered but she’s a very confident and outspoken person. She makes a lot of eye contact with me without expression. Yesterday we stayed late to close with two other people. Her and I talked along with them and our conversation felt very comfortable and natural and just flowed out. It didn’t feel romantic then. I went home happy we talked but when I woke up I started to feel romantic attraction. Today a customer complained about me to her and said I rushed them when I was so nice! She confronted me and tried to get the full story and told me she didn’t want me to feel uncomfortable and implied that she cared about me. Later she asked me how I felt about our conversation. What is this?
She would check up on me a lot especially when I was not interacting with her on a certain day. and I could genuinely see she cared about me. I’m dating a guy (I’m bisexual ) and she has not expressed any interest in knowing about him. Another girl also has a boyfriend and she’s asked about their relationship. She visibly gets upset when I talk to him around her. She has definitely done stuff to get me in trouble for talking to him. That’s where our only problem comes from but this is a workplace so we have to act like nothing happens.
It’s been months since our second meeting. There was a period where we weren’t talking and there was some awkwardness due to the whole her getting me in trouble thing. However, recently she’s begun to joke with me again and touch me more. She still never fails to ask how I’m doing.
When we talk once before she has stuttered but she’s a very confident and outspoken person. She makes a lot of eye contact with me without expression. Yesterday we stayed late to close with two other people. Her and I talked along with them and our conversation felt very comfortable and natural and just flowed out. It didn’t feel romantic then. I went home happy we talked but when I woke up I started to feel romantic attraction. Today a customer complained about me to her and said I rushed them when I was so nice! She confronted me and tried to get the full story and told me she didn’t want me to feel uncomfortable and implied that she cared about me. Later she asked me how I felt about our conversation. What is this?
