Why do most women sleep around?

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Not that it’s a bad thing but god damn girls these days can’t keep their legs closed. I’m a guy that wants a girlfriend. I’m in College. Sleeping with tons of girls doesn’t really appeal to me. It’s sad because treating women bad and sleeping around somehow makes you more attractive to women. So being a good guy, doesn’t get you anywhere with most women. Many people date in my College. Most of the high value girls, attractive, smart, serious about school, aren’t party dogs... are dating assh*les. There’s no place for good guys when it comes to women these days. Now it’s not like I’m some ugly weird guy. Girls do think I’m fairly attractive and I’ve made out with quite a few girls since I got to College but I want more. Girls here just think about sex. A lot of them sleep around with lots of guys. Why?

Rainie_ · Accepted Answer

Treating women bad doesn't get you "women" it gets you immature or emotionally unstable girls who don't know what a healthy relationship is, or just someone who isn't looking for anything serious at all. Treat me like shit and you become real ugly in my eyes no matter how physically attractive you are.

The reason why they sleep around is most likely because they're finally out of their parents house and feel free and wanna have fun I guess, and well same reason guys sleep around - sex feels good.
Some are of course emotionally unstable so they are more likely to do risky things or seek validity by sleeping around- seen this in both genders.

Being a good guy DOES get you women if you go for the ones who actually WANT a good guy (such as myself), that is if you do it the right way by being confident, secure about yourself, responsible and DO NOT be boring - be exciting and fun, can't stress how important that is.

aicarg · Accepted Answer

A lot of those that I've met in university aren't seeking commitment (both males and females) as they're main focus is more so on their studies and establishing themself, however they care for a way to satisfy their needs as well so they resort to casual sex. You also have those that care to experiment with their sexual boundaries and fantasies, and because post secondary students generally live on campus/res where they are away from home, they have that freedom to experiment. However, there are plenty of those that don't sleep around you probably just haven't come across one yet.

whatthehellwasthat · Accepted Answer

Im 22 and have been with one person. You shouldn't judge people on their number though. Shit happens. You can't hold someone's past against them when you weren't there. Just find someone you really like and make clear that you're looking for something more serious than one night stands.

Deydey12345 · Accepted Answer

Not sleeping around doesn't qualify you automatically as a good guy. You're just a jerk who don't look handsome, but still a jerk, that's why you're bragging about "being nice " .. stop blaming it on your personality, it's your physic the problem. Thank you and have a good night

PoliceLivesMatter · Accepted Answer

I don’t think a lot of women compared to the majority sleep around according to surveys and statistics on hookup culture on campus. I think if you were at a party or few and have seen several women sleeping around before your eyes, it has a generalized effect on you and now you think the majority sleep around. There’s no way to calculate this only way is to understand that some sleep around and some don’t. I believe, from MY experience, most do not sleep around but there are plenty that do. Depends what you mean by sleep around I guess.

NightlyCreature · Accepted Answer

Buddy, are you still on this? I told you, girls who have sex are not sluts... and you are not a "good guy" just because you don't have sex... If girls don't want more with you is probably because of the mentality you have about them, not because they can't keep their legs closed...

The-Weeknd-0 · Answer

it's college man just enjoy yourself! Nobody cares if you dont like sleeping around and all of this sorta stuff. You don't look any better or worse for doing it. It's your lifestyle choice of course do what you like! But at our age we gotta get out there and play the field, get sexual experience and then worry about being a gentleman in our late 20s when we are successful and fully developed men.

Enjoy being young my friend.

Good luck in whatever life choice you make!

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

Not all women sleep around. Dude, you need to relax honestly. Getting a girlfriend isn't the most import thing, you're at school to learn, right?

Anonymous · Answer

I think most in college are are just young and naive. They don't understand that they don't need to sleep with a guy to start a real relationship. Social media has made men and women more self conscious and made many feel like in order to feel good about themselves they need validation by others.. whether through likes or sex. However, many young girls do want a real lasting relationship, they just get played, ghosted, or dumped after having sex with someone they thought was "the one".. and in turn is spun to make them appear as a slut.

I wouldn't look for a partner at a party. Typically it's the wrong type of attraction venue..

thisuglychick · Answer

Example of a picky ass man. I don't sleep around I'm just ugly but you won't go for me and only the hot women cause you think since they're sleeping around they're going to sleep with you. You don't care about girls like me who don't sleep around cause I'm ugly... maybe expand your options.

Lilyp005 · Answer

IM looking for a good guy like you
I've been used a few times and I hate sleeping around

Trust me tons of girls don't sleep around

You could also ask why do tons of men sleep around? Why do men sexually abuse?

A lot of the women who sleep around have deep pain and want to feel loved and men take advantage of that. Even sexually abuse them.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

You're in college and that doesn't represent "most women". Maybe most women in college do but, I'm not sure that's accurate either. In any event just practice safe sex, get a good or "great" education, and if you don't find your dating, LTR type woman, don't worry. You have the rest of your life to find her.

BLACKGIRLMELANIN · Answer

Why not sleep with whoever you want while your single. Just like guys don't want to be tied down, girls don't either. It's just fun for now I guess.

ffsxx · Answer

That's no different from guys. Everyone sleeps around a lot. Humans are really just meant to be on earth to reproduce so its in our nature

Carley99 · Answer

If I want to sleep around I'm going to be with someone who obviously wants that why would I be with someone like you that I know I will hurt because we clearly want different things.

pepwave21 · Answer

I think there are about same percentage of girls who get around as guys. Just depends on person I think.

katDawgKaelyn · Answer

There boerd and want attwtion and damn sex feels good and its stress relif and a buntch of other stuff

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are sluts? They are pathetic and knows the only thing they can offer is sex. Years later they will bebugly and no one wants them then.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably they do it because they feel like nobody is judging them there and that’s what everyone does. There are women that want to be with guys that are just like you, I think guys that don’t sleep around are better

springate · Answer

I really don't know and it's quite upsets me I'm 42 and recently trying to get into the dating pool and trust me it seems like there's not a woman that doesn't cheat out there but I have trust issues also so I maybe I'm not the person to ask

Aguamarina · Answer

The same reason why guys and other creatures sleep around.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do most guys sleep around? Can't they keep their dicks in their pants

zagor · Answer

When I was in college there was a lot of screwing but almost no dating at all.

Aphroditelove · Answer

because I like to try out different sized cocks. It's like trying out different cuisines.

LeeKenz · Answer

Why do men sleep around?

Tony_1693 · Answer

Sex is fun dude.

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