Why do most women sleep around?

[Anonymous]

Not that it’s a bad thing but god damn girls these days can’t keep their legs closed. I’m a guy that wants a girlfriend. I’m in College. Sleeping with tons of girls doesn’t really appeal to me. It’s sad because treating women bad and sleeping around somehow makes you more attractive to women. So being a good guy, doesn’t get you anywhere with most women. Many people date in my College. Most of the high value girls, attractive, smart, serious about school, aren’t party dogs... are dating assh*les. There’s no place for good guys when it comes to women these days. Now it’s not like I’m some ugly weird guy. Girls do think I’m fairly attractive and I’ve made out with quite a few girls since I got to College but I want more. Girls here just think about sex. A lot of them sleep around with lots of guys. Why?

[Rainie_]

Treating women bad doesn't get you "women" it gets you immature or emotionally unstable girls who don't know what a healthy relationship is, or just someone who isn't looking for anything serious at all. Treat me like shit and you become real ugly in my eyes no matter how physically attractive you are.

The reason why they sleep around is most likely because they're finally out of their parents house and feel free and wanna have fun I guess, and well same reason guys sleep around - sex feels good.
Some are of course emotionally unstable so they are more likely to do risky things or seek validity by sleeping around- seen this in both genders.

Being a good guy DOES get you women if you go for the ones who actually WANT a good guy (such as myself), that is if you do it the right way by being confident, secure about yourself, responsible and DO NOT be boring - be exciting and fun, can't stress how important that is.

[joshb]

This girl is right^^^ I'm not a dick and I've had good girls develop huge crushes on me. These good girls are not as common though

[aicarg]

A lot of those that I've met in university aren't seeking commitment (both males and females) as they're main focus is more so on their studies and establishing themself, however they care for a way to satisfy their needs as well so they resort to casual sex. You also have those that care to experiment with their sexual boundaries and fantasies, and because post secondary students generally live on campus/res where they are away from home, they have that freedom to experiment. However, there are plenty of those that don't sleep around you probably just haven't come across one yet.

[springate]

true

[whatthehellwasthat]

Im 22 and have been with one person. You shouldn't judge people on their number though. Shit happens. You can't hold someone's past against them when you weren't there. Just find someone you really like and make clear that you're looking for something more serious than one night stands.

[springate]

i agree. it should be about feelings not numbers

[Deydey12345]

Not sleeping around doesn't qualify you automatically as a good guy. You're just a jerk who don't look handsome, but still a jerk, that's why you're bragging about "being nice " .. stop blaming it on your personality, it's your physic the problem. Thank you and have a good night

[Asker]

Oh so you prove my point. Women are only interested in good looking guys that treat them bad. I’m not ugly at all actually I just value sex more but in this society you get shamed for being yourself. People should be able to sleep around and not sleep around without being shamed. Men are expected to sleep around and women aren’t. But women give out when they’re slut shamed but men can’t defend themselves? It’s people like you that ruin our society. I’d rather have slept with 3 people than be a piece of meat to 50 guys like you probably have.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I don’t think a lot of women compared to the majority sleep around according to surveys and statistics on hookup culture on campus. I think if you were at a party or few and have seen several women sleeping around before your eyes, it has a generalized effect on you and now you think the majority sleep around. There’s no way to calculate this only way is to understand that some sleep around and some don’t. I believe, from MY experience, most do not sleep around but there are plenty that do. Depends what you mean by sleep around I guess.

[NightlyCreature]

Buddy, are you still on this? I told you, girls who have sex are not sluts... and you are not a "good guy" just because you don't have sex... If girls don't want more with you is probably because of the mentality you have about them, not because they can't keep their legs closed...

[The-Weeknd-0]

it's college man just enjoy yourself! Nobody cares if you dont like sleeping around and all of this sorta stuff. You don't look any better or worse for doing it. It's your lifestyle choice of course do what you like! But at our age we gotta get out there and play the field, get sexual experience and then worry about being a gentleman in our late 20s when we are successful and fully developed men.

Enjoy being young my friend.

Good luck in whatever life choice you make!

[RuthAnn1781]

Not all women sleep around. Dude, you need to relax honestly. Getting a girlfriend isn't the most import thing, you're at school to learn, right?

[Anonymous]

I think most in college are are just young and naive. They don't understand that they don't need to sleep with a guy to start a real relationship. Social media has made men and women more self conscious and made many feel like in order to feel good about themselves they need validation by others.. whether through likes or sex. However, many young girls do want a real lasting relationship, they just get played, ghosted, or dumped after having sex with someone they thought was "the one".. and in turn is spun to make them appear as a slut.

I wouldn't look for a partner at a party. Typically it's the wrong type of attraction venue..

[thisuglychick]

Example of a picky ass man. I don't sleep around I'm just ugly but you won't go for me and only the hot women cause you think since they're sleeping around they're going to sleep with you. You don't care about girls like me who don't sleep around cause I'm ugly... maybe expand your options.

[Lilyp005]

IM looking for a good guy like you
I've been used a few times and I hate sleeping around

Trust me tons of girls don't sleep around

You could also ask why do tons of men sleep around? Why do men sexually abuse?

A lot of the women who sleep around have deep pain and want to feel loved and men take advantage of that. Even sexually abuse them.

[springate]

a man would be lucky 2 find a woman looking 4 the same thing. instead of being cheated on

[Robsinsf53]

You're in college and that doesn't represent "most women". Maybe most women in college do but, I'm not sure that's accurate either. In any event just practice safe sex, get a good or "great" education, and if you don't find your dating, LTR type woman, don't worry. You have the rest of your life to find her.

[BLACKGIRLMELANIN]

Why not sleep with whoever you want while your single. Just like guys don't want to be tied down, girls don't either. It's just fun for now I guess.

[ffsxx]

That's no different from guys. Everyone sleeps around a lot. Humans are really just meant to be on earth to reproduce so its in our nature

[Mattbowles]

How many lads you been with

[ffsxx]

None

[LunaJ]

rofl you say everyone sleeps around a lot then you say none. something is wrong in your head really lol 😂
i tell you something. i never had ons and never will have xD i had only meaningful relationships. and not many

[ffsxx]

Oops didn't realize I said everyone. *lots of people. Lol. Thank You!

[Carley99]

If I want to sleep around I'm going to be with someone who obviously wants that why would I be with someone like you that I know I will hurt because we clearly want different things.

[pepwave21]

I think there are about same percentage of girls who get around as guys. Just depends on person I think.

[Mattbowles]

How many you been with

[springate]

ur probably 💯 correct

[katDawgKaelyn]

There boerd and want attwtion and damn sex feels good and its stress relif and a buntch of other stuff

[Paige90]

Spell Check can be your friend if you let it.

[SoapyG]

This is a case beyond the help of spell check

[springate]

it wasn't what it felt like. it was why

[Anonymous]

Because they are sluts? They are pathetic and knows the only thing they can offer is sex. Years later they will bebugly and no one wants them then.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Probably they do it because they feel like nobody is judging them there and that’s what everyone does. There are women that want to be with guys that are just like you, I think guys that don’t sleep around are better

[Mattbowles]

How many lads you been with

[Opinion Owner]

2 and I’m 23

[Mattbowles]

Still with one of them

[springate]

I really don't know and it's quite upsets me I'm 42 and recently trying to get into the dating pool and trust me it seems like there's not a woman that doesn't cheat out there but I have trust issues also so I maybe I'm not the person to ask

[Aguamarina]

The same reason why guys and other creatures sleep around.

[Asker]

Why do women give out about men doing it so? “Men only want sex” is what women say. So if women can why can’t men?

[Anonymous]

Why do most guys sleep around?
Can't they keep their dicks in their pants

[zagor]

When I was in college there was a lot of screwing but almost no dating at all.

[Aphroditelove]

because I like to try out different sized cocks. It's like trying out different cuisines.

[LeeKenz]

Why do men sleep around?

[Mattbowles]

How many you been with

[LeeKenz]

I've had 8 boyfriends. Two raped me the other six I had no sexual relations with. I've been with one guy willingly.

[Lilyp005]

I'm sorry you were raped I was too
So many women are raped
That's why he shouldn't ask but women but men too

[LeeKenz]

Yeah. And like it's hard to explain it too because I like to say I've only had sex once with a guy. Then they ask why so specific and I'm like well... I've also slept with two girls... and then like saying I've been raped four times is like... some people are like there's no way that happened. And then some are like so you've had sex with 5 guys... and I'm like no... not really. It's complicated

[springate]

never have never will I've been cheated on and know how it feels but if you're not married it's really not cheating I suppose or sleeping around

[LeeKenz]

Yes it is. If you're in a relationship if you fuck someone else it's cheating

[springate]

yes if its serious yes. i am just at a loss. lol. i dated a wpman from this site recently and thought we were serious. 2 weeks ago she said she was pregnant by thisvother guy. thats the excuse she gave me. we werent married. lol. i drove 2 ohoip every week 2 see her for months. she told me i wasn't in a relationship. lol. my point being i guess. make sure ur in a relationship i guess i wasn't lol

[Tony_1693]

Sex is fun dude.

[Anonymous]

Same can be said for men

[Tony_1693]

Ugh.. Men don't sleep around. Df you talking about?

[Opinion Owner]

Go away banana boy.

[Tony_1693]

Lmao well hey there sexy.. Why are you talking about my banana? Are you some kind of pervert? I don't sleep around.

[Probably_Friendzoned]

Dude, most men sleep around way more than girls. Or, more accurately, they want to. The only difference is that it is a hell of a lot easier to sleep around as a girl.

[Anonymous]

Their body, their choice. Don't slut shame.

[Anonymous]

You are right. They are just thirsty

[HamAndCheese]

Hedonism.

[disgustingweebtrash]

They just do