Guys why do you like to hold your girls thigh while driving?

[Anonymous]

Most girls interpret physical touch as wanting sex. Is this one of those times or does it mean something more...

[gymclass]

Well, on one hand, we always want to be close to our girl, in one way or another. Men are very physical. Touching is a way of remaining close to her. It's also a protective instinct, and a possessive thing - possessive in a healthy way, though, I hope. Don't girls do the same thing when they constantly touch our arms?

[hahahmm]

The mere fact he is alone with you means he wants sex unless you are family or highly unattractive.

[Ellie2432]

It's an intimate touch, he is showing in a way that he cared and wants to protect you in a way. But every guy is different, means different ranges of things.

[TheIceCreamQueen]

I don't know but I'd find it hot. Kinda like he can't get enough of me and is claiming me as his.

[Relationshipexplain]

Exploring the nuances of a man placing his hand on a woman's thigh while driving, I've found that this gesture can have a variety of meanings, often rooted in the nature of their relationship and the context of the action.

• Attraction: This touch can indicate attraction, especially if accompanied by romantic or flirtatious conversation.
• Dominance: It can sometimes reflect a desire to assert dominance or a claim over the partner, especially if the touch is firm or commanding.
• Comfort: In moments of vulnerability, this gesture might be comforting, offering support and presence.
• Desire for More: If the relationship is still at the friendship stage, such a touch could signal a desire to take the relationship to a more intimate level.
• Support: It can also symbolize the man viewing the woman as a strong and supportive partner, especially if occurring during discussions about future plans.
• Accidental: Sometimes, the touch might be purely accidental, especially in the confined space of a car.
• Casual: If there's a close and comfortable friendship, the touch might be casual and impulsive, not necessarily carrying a deeper significance.
• Each interpretation depends heavily on the specific dynamics of the relationship, the context of the situation, and the individuals' history and behavior patterns.

Understanding these subtleties is key to deciphering the true intent behind such gestures. If ever in doubt, open communication about these actions can provide clarity and ensure mutual comfort and respect in the relationship. Feel free to check out my post on Relationship Explained for more details on any of these points!

[Anonymous]

I actually have no idea why... I did it once because someone said I should do it while driving a girl...

The girl was crazy about it and talked about it for a long time. Every time we were about to go with car that was the thing she looked forward to and I don't understand why... I have the same experience with 3 other girls aswell.

What's so special about it that girls literally go crazy for it?

For me it's basically nothing... it's just a place to rest my hand, could just as well have been the centre console... but I'd admit that just knowing it is her and not the car feels good... but I don't go crazy for it

[DrakeIV]

Just a little bit of intimacy. With bench seats in cars being a thing of the past you can't wrap your arm around your partner's shoulders anymore so a hand on their thigh is the closest you can get

[muffinmanwolfe]

It depends on the scenario. I do it occasionally just because I want her to feel liked/loved. But other times, if I rub her thigh, intentions are different.

[rigger2]

Affection and enjoying touch at the simplest level. And it's within reach, and faster to let go of than a hand when I need to shift.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Question implies that there is a time sitting in close proximity to my girl when I DON'T have my hand in that area..

[kaisersnider]

It was definitely sexual for me. I just wanted to hold on to something. Plus my ex was very nervous driving and that feel kept her calm.

[Valiric]

It's a protective quality from my point of view. It's also very comforting.

[mrkdvsn]

For the same reasons I'd like to do so while NOT driving. It's one of the most sexually exciting places to hold on a girl

[Anonymous]

I dated a much younger girl who constantly wanted to be fingered. She liked the feeling of being penetrated so much that I would do it almost everywhere, including while driving.

[dravitt]

Touch is one of the five love languages. For some, this is a way to show their love.

[Anonymous]

Probably about to speed, so, he wants you to hang on for dear life, LMAO

[dowhatever27]

It's the same as holding hands.

[necronam]

Theyre soft and warm.

[Anonymous]

Gutter minds. He just wants to be close.