What to do if I find out my sister is a slut?

[Anonymous]

So my little sister has always told my mom and i that she is a virgin has never kissed a guy etc. But tonight i found out that she made out with one of my friends little brothers and that everyone knows she's the town slut! it's kind of embarrassing because all my friends have been hiding it from me and they knew. every time someone sees me they think "wow she doesn't even know that her sister sleeps with a lot of guys". she's 16 and i do believe women should be able to have as much sex as they want without being judged but still it's embarrassing! I don't know what to do? i want her to leave my friends siblings alone but i can't just flat out tell her that, can i?

[cuttl]

1. Make sure she's using birth control. Oral contraceptive plus condom is my suggestion.

1. b. If she hasn't been using condoms, she should get tested for STIs. Offer to drive her. Depending on the cost, she might need help paying for it.

2. Talk to her about age of consent laws in your area. If she doesn't want to get caught up in legal trouble, she should be aware of them. (If she's sleeping with much older guys, she could be outted to your mother if he gets brought up on statutory rape charges. If she's under the age of consent, the government can press charges even if she doesn't want to.)

3. Tell her to be honest about it. If your parents would kick her out of the house if they knew the truth, that's an acceptable reason to lie to then until she's 18 and graduated from high school. But, you know, it would be nice if she'd at least be honest with you if that's the case.

[nxcmxx]

1. Stop saying she's a slut, you're acting like a little bitch.
2. Talk to her. Safe sex is important.
3. If talking doesn't work make comments when she lies about it to your mom. Be sarcastic or just act dumb like:"Really? You won't tell mom about your first kiss last week?" act like you're happy for her lol. It'll be funny... okay maybe she'll hate you...
Just try talking to her.

[Asker]

1. don't call me a bitch. i hate using the word slut but that's what people are calling her...
2. she hates me and i hate her and i don't ever want to talk to her about this.

[nxcmxx]

1. I didn't, I said you're acting like one.
2. Then it's not your problem. You can still tell your parents about it if you think it's the right thing to do. Maybe she'll thank you one day.

[KazariaVulpix]

Well if its from a friend’s little brother, I wouldn’t be too convinced. Teen boys usually take rejection hard and will call a girl a slut for not breathing in their general direction. Not all of them of course, but a lot of boys do that.

[dionnexxx]

Yeh u can't do that, cus its her body and her mind. It might be embarrassing but if ur friends say anything just tell her how its affrcting you as well and that u understand that u can't change her mind

[Anonymous]

You should tell your mother of her reputation as the town wh*re.

She is 16 years old. I am not surprised you are embarrassed. As for all the men who have slept with her. They are pedophiles in the eyes of the law.

[giandy13b]

Sure you can, you can tell her anything you think can help curb her behavior. Maybe even letting your parents know would be good.

[Guxci_28_03]

'Tbh' You're Not A Good Mentor 4 Your Sister. The Fact That You Didn't Know She Was Hoeing Around Witcho Friends Siblings Is A Big Miss. Especially Since It Was Your Friends It Should've Been Easier 4 You 2 See What She Been Doing. And If You Can't Even Set Her Str8, What're You Gonna Do If She Get's Pregnant. Your Parents aren't Gonna Look At Her, They're Gonna Look At The Older One. Yup You. You Need 2 Put Her In Her Place & School Her Bout What's Finna Happen If She Don't Stop Ashap. You're Only Embarrassed Because She's you're little Sister, If It Were Another Minor, Say One Of Your Friends little Sister You Wouldn't See It Wrong Because Of The Mentality You Be Walkin Round With.

[Asker]

dude don't blame me. it's not my fault. i don't talk to her ever we aren't close. my friends hid it from me. how was i supposed to know if NOBODY told me, and i don't ever talk to my sister?

[Guxci_28_03]

I ain't Blamin You, I'm Saying Whatever You Doing Is Wrong. And Just Cause Youz aren't Close Don't Make It An Excuse Man.

Why You Saying It As An Question😂

[1truekhaleesi]

You stick up for your sister and tell them to fuck off. That's what you do. And then go help her find birth control.

[jimyee]

You believe women should be free to pursue their sexual desires but your embarrassed by your sister? Hate to break it to you but you are part of the problem

[Rick912]

You may bring up sexual stuff in general conversation and see how she reacts or what she will tell you about herself. As long as she is having safe sex, let her enjoy all of the sex she wants. That does not make her a slut.

[PeaceAndLoveAndTrust]

Be careful and sure before confront her, but you should warn her about it. So or so..

[Danael31]

Having sex as much as you want and having sex with way different persons, moreover only being 16, of course people think that. But what, if she's good with it no problem I guess. Just tell her to take care

[Anonymous]

You give me her number and tell her to come to Canada. She is legal here so I can take her off your hands.

[Seppelson]

Why don't you let her? And why are you embarrassed? I would be proud

[Ismash9116]

Beat the shit ou of her ass x)

[fredrick_27]

Maybe she has no idea what she's doin

[Anonymous]

Friends siblings are far game

[cloudni9e]

Tell your mom, ASAP

[cupidkisses]

tell your mom

[Anonymous]

Just have a gangbang.