Are curvy/chubby women more picky about the type of bodies they prefer on men?

Most of the time I see skinny women being called shallow, because they only want to date guys who are in shape. This is completely false in my experience as a skinny guy. Lots of skinny girls are attracted to me. In fact, 99% of all girls who were attracted to me were skinny. This brings me to the conclusion that skinny girls are less shallow than curvier girls. Pretty strange considering that thin women are usually thought as more attractive compared to curvy women.
  • Yes, curvier ladies are more shallow, they want guys who are muscular and they hate skinny guys.
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  • No, they are not.
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  • As a woman with curves, I think the issue isn't the body shape, but rather that I prefer being more petite than whomever I'm dating. So if the person is very tall and skinny, I'd still feel smaller than him. If he's short and skinny, I would feel much bigger than him, and I don't like that. I generally date guys of average height and average build. I have dated muscular guys and bigger guys too, but most men are average, so that's the biggest pool to choose from. I guess it's a bit of a gendered thing, I should probably try to be more conscious of it and work on it.

    tl;dr, It's not necessarily being picky, it's just wanting to feel smaller than my partner.

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    • Skinny women don't have such an issue, so yeah, you are more picky.

    • Skinny women have that issue too. Which is why women tend to like taller guys. As a short skinny guy, you're just not high on the priority list for most women. Being picky and having a preference isn't the same thing.

    • Speak for yourself, I have no problem attracting thin women.

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  • Listen, stop using your experiences as a facts. There are not the only experiences in the world.

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  • lol where do u live where curvy girls aren't as attractive

    and as a yung curvy lady... i don't think im shallow. in fact i don't mind if my boyfriend is a little overweight (ofc not too much tho).

    and curvy and chubby are different
    (i think people say these things now not to offend anyone)

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    she isn't curvy even though when u search up curvy it says this is curvy

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    that is curvy

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  • I don't think the woman's weight has anything to do with what they prefer. It's all about personal preference and what people find attractive in the end.

    The same can be said for some stout men as well.

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  • mmm I don't really think skinny girls are more attractive, but as a curvy girl, I would never date a guy significantly skinnier than me because that would just make me insecure.

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  • Lol I don't know where your at but I've been curvy my whole life and all kinda of guys hit on me lol so I don't know whats up with you lol also your personal experience doesn't count for shit everyone likes different girls soooooooooo

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    • Wait alsoooo my sisters are curvy and all they do (or used to do) is hoe around cause guys find them attractive

    • But everyone has different preferencwe and standards

    • Can you read? My question was not about what guys like in girls, but about what girls like in guys. And when girls hit on me they are all skinny.

  • No, fat bitches can't be picky. They have to take what they can get. Limited options & all that

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  • Everybody has their preference. If a fat chick only likes ripped guys, it's up to her, it might just be harder for her to find a partner.

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  • Strange that you have had such an experience. I can certainly understand why you would think that, based on your experience..
    But naw, Definetly not.

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  • It is about individual.

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  • I dunno - all of my chubby friends are with even chubbier guys. Maybe skinny goes for skinny and chubby fit chubby.

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    • Gotta agree cuz my girlfriend and me are skinny and my ex was also skinny.

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