What does your gut say about him?
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What does your gut say about him?
umm... first of all, what´s up with the papi / mami thing? Just curious, cause it´s not something I am used to ! :-)
Second... well, to be perfectly honest; I have two thoughts that come into play: 1. He is afraid of confrontations, a little delicate, always the first to back down; to say it in another way, either he is whipped for real -or just really, really cautious and somewhat insecure.
Second: He plays the very humble, very considerate and tender guy, and to some extend to cover/hide a very different way of life.
Often that will be confirmed or shot down if you confront people like that, catching them in a lie, pushing them a little up in the corner - here you may sooner than you think, see a very, very different person than you might be used to! Reveals the beasts true nature ! Hehe :-)
I'm so lost
um... by what I wrote, as a person in general or in terms of this person and the correspondance here? :-)
I'm Mexican and black so I like to call him papi and he calls me mami. Words of endearment... I'm lost by what you wrote I'm confused
He never backs down. And he tells me like it is.
Oh... Im sorry about that ! wasn't my intention to confuse you !
But can I ask you instead; how long have you known each other?
Three months
Mmkay... and what; you are crazy into him, but has doubts, or?
I really adore Matthew and I just wanted to see what others thought lol 😂
well, I hope the best for you guys :)
oh geez... girly you'd drive me nuts lol
excessive use of papi... holy smokes... tone that down will you
mami papi... wtf
so mom and dad... lol
Honestly.. you both just sound horny... and that sexual horniness seems to be making you guys all cuddly and close
I didn't really see much substance there to be completely honest lol
Iv known him for like 3 months know. I don't just want him for sex even though it's fun. We both smoke weed
I always lol 😂
Haha ya i figured. 3 months is new lol
I know you don't want him for just sex and i don't he does either
But its cuffing season. And this sounds like cuffing! Lol
But it might work. But it just sounds more like sex, cuddling, weed n chillin, hanging out, sex and chilling lol
Which is cuffing hahah
But thats ok. It can certaintly be more than that. This is how love starts sometimes mami ;) lol
Lol 😆
Denying what lol 😂
What cuffing season mean
He calls me Mami and I call him papi. We don't do it all the time but it's cute
I honestly think if he didn't have real interest when I told him to not text or call me any more I don't think he would of called
Not exactly lol but I bet if you didn't give him sex for 6 months like some girls do to make sure he's really there for you - ya I think he wouldn't call at that point lol
But cuffing season is all about chilling... like I know dudes that chill with a girl just cause she has her own place and its winter lol... that's them
But I mean why would any guy leave a situation like this - sex, weed, chilling... without any real commitments or having to wait
Sounds just right lol until it burns out most likely
He's never asked for a nude picture
I'm the one initiating sex
I chill at his house
Ya there's no need for a nudie when it's live lol
And if you are the initiating that's EVEN easier and more reason not to leave
This is too easy lol... all he has to do is lay back and chill... he's got sex, weed, and a warm bed with a girl that's totally willing lol
I mean you just put yourself in a vulnerable position cause you won't know if he's really really into you or not now
The way to know that is if he sticks around without all that in the first place 😛
He's already met my family
I don't think it matters who place we go to lol 😂
Infatuation especially if you’ve only known him for 3 months. Y’all sound like some high schoolers and it’s way too soon to be bringing up I love you
I honestly love him
I have deep affection for him
Did everything turn out okay?
My gut says you're perfect for each other.
Not for me, but you seem to have your thing.
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He sounds like he genuinely like you a lot and is a little clingy
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Well, he seems genuine and a bit girlish to me. Although, it seems that, he's caring and, wants to be with you forever.
Well, you both look like pets calling each other papi.😅😅
Pets don't talk lol 😂
You love calling him Papi 😊😂
Actions are different from words. Spend tim with him in person and glance at how he respects you.
I hang out with him everyday
I agree
That definitely seems genuine.. I mean he mostly seems like he loves talkin to you, and really wannabe witchu..
I don't know he talks lame though lol I just say baby what’s with all this darling sweetheart shit
That's how a man should talk to a woman. Only boys use Bitch hoes trick slut bae
I use none I say baby or hun at most lol only time I say bitch is if she calls me nigga I’m white and upperclass hate that more than anything
Baby means a baby 👶
Hun means honey 🍯
Thnx for that lesson I’m aware lol in New York they have a different meaning ✌🏻
Nothing much to glean from this, it all seems so mundane. I just don't see anything wrong, he seems considerate and intelligent.
He sounds like he wants to get close to you he has romantic interest
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In all reality see and take all those text messages and look at it as if it's pending trash on your computer screen. Not to sound mean or how ever is felt pero a man must keep his stand and hope you withstand all of his corny lines as to text. Personally I like texting before a call.
I'm a little late to this, but I think it's the honeymoon phase of a relationship. Its the point where he's thinking about you and excited to see and talk to you. If you are curious to if he's sincere, it's seems like it.
He seems to be lacking emotion, he's not affectionate... then again this is all text. If he's more romantic in person then I wouldn't worry.
It just seems that you're putting in more effort than him
Seems legit. Especially the part about not wanting to be bugging you. We guys have that insecurities that if we message so many times that she will be annoyed
Gut reaction? Whatever was in my gut just came up. It sounds like a bad Olivia Newton-John song from the 80's (I know, it's before you were born). Love is a marathon, sweetie, not a sprint.
He sounds like my guy, keep him!
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Crazy in love or is playing you for free weed
I don't know
But I did tell him I don't want to talk to him and he didn't let me get away. Iv pissed him off really bad a few times I think he would of been like fuck the weed this bitch is drama. And he wants to call in the am after he wakes up to see how I'm doing. Not all morning but most of text. The last day we hung out he brought the weed I got the swishers.
My gut says not genuine
It's almost as if he's using you for sex and drugs
Weeds not a drug and he's not using me for sex
He seems to genuinely care for you.
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Sure thing mami
Childish texts though.
Ok but do you think it's true or fake lol 😂
I think it is genuine.
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I know this one thing you guys are funny
He seems normal to me 🤷
That neon green killed my retinas lmao 😂
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