Groping me on the first date?

[Anonymous]

I went on a date with a guy, and he was really touchy with me (grabbing my ass, touching my thighs, etc...) I've known this guy for so many years now so this took me back a bit, does he really just want me for sex?

[theventrsomeone]

If you have known each other for years and you just went out, he probably feel comfortable with you although he shouldn't some you are going to jump into bed tight away. Did you make a second date

[Asker]

He said we should go out again for a second date, but I haven't replied because of how conflicted I am with the situation.

[theventrsomeone]

Did you tell him how you felt or even ask him why he was so tight so fast?

[Asker]

I did tell him how I felt, but he kind of blew them off

[theventrsomeone]

I think that should tell you everything you need to know. Do you mind private messaging me

[EdwardMoon]

Some guys can be a bit too forward if he's interested in dating and your feeling uncomfortable you can always say to him you'd like to take things slow cause he seems too eager

[Amelia444]

He probably is the testing the waters

[g_gabriel]

I'm pretty sure he fantasized about you a lot in the past. That's why the touchy-touchy thing.

[Wollu]

Yes. And you know that is what you have to offer anyway. Why would you be dating if not for sex?

[chrisbigman]

Probably, yes. However, you need to make it clear to him that you are/were uncomfortable with his actions by telling him.

[avalos99]

It does sound like he just wants to fuck but You have to tell him if your uncomfortable or not. You need to control the date

[taiqkhan]

Girl can control the way she wants to carry on things
if u keep silent, he will keeping on doing all his desires a bit fast,,
so talk to him and let him understand what u actually expect from him

[Kyle529]

Um it’s hard to say but I’d be careful where you go with him so just watch were you go and the things you do so our aware

[rockrewls]

It would seem he's into you...

[Anonymous]

Potential fwb?

[Asker]

I thought so too, but it seems like he wants to go on more dates so I'm just so confused

[Opinion Owner]

Must be his nature