Me personally? Same hobbies I have! While most musicians moan that their partners complain about time/money/etc spent on music, I was the one convincing my ex she didn't need another guitar, and trying to get some time in my own studio!!
Beyond that, having hobbies is attractive in itself. Times that by 100 if you're really good at it. I take no interest in horses, professional dancing, or musical theater, yet any girl who is amazing at whatever she loves doing is instantly more attractive. I guess it shows skill, dedication, but most of all, it shows a love for life. That's attractive!
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honestly, and this might sound mean but, when she actually HAS hobbies outside of just watching netflix or TV. Like when I ask a girl what are some of her hobbies she enjoys and she can really only give me watching TV or Netflix, I get the sense that she's kinda boring (and I could be totally wrong but just can't help that thought).
sure if we share a hobby here or there that would be great, I don't know if it would be any more attractive, but at least have a hobbie.
Also, I'm personally on the fence on whether I count working out as a hobby, js lol.
Don't worry about your hobbies..
I'm so sure u will find someone with the same hobbies u like as well don't change your hobbiesfor someone else
All these masculine hobbies make girls more attractive to gag “men” lol
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Honestly, she could probably be into anything, as long as I saw the passionate side of her, even if I wasn't into the same hobby, I would find that very attractive.
I am a very passionate person, so it would be a bonus if she was like that, since I find women with no real interests and ambitions to be kinda dull, honestly. I never really know what to talk about if she hardly has any interests.If she likes walking and spending time in the outdoors.
If she likes watching Bible related videos and conspiracy theory videos
If she loves and reads the Bible
If she enjoys going to Church, one that preaches the true gospel
If she likes gaming
If she likes helping people in her spare timeMost sports, playing an instrument (guitar or piano are often cool), playing videogames (without making it an obsession and still being in shape).
Wouldn't recommend modern art, like nonsensical sculptures or paintings that look like she snorted paint and then sneezed (those usually make many guys roll their eyes in annoyance).Guns, fishing, camping, hiking, backpacking, hunting, dragon slaying, video games but only ones I like, committing random acts of violence, paintball, air soft, martial arts, blowjobs, archery, horseback ridding, volley ball, horse shoes, cornhole, fencing, fencing stollen goods, studying the Bible, kayaking, white water rafting, canoeing, MMA, boxing, tattoos, and cannibalism.
Girls who do any of these are girls who know how to have a good time.Programming. Mainly because I'm a programmer myself, and it's so rare that I actually get to be passionate about my hobby to people, since most people don't really understand what I'm talking about. Or I just end up making jokes that I have tk explain, and explaining a joke just kills it.
Any, really. So many girls have zero interests, having any interest at all is a huge bonus.
Things that are not very interesting... movies, books, TV, music. Passive entertainment isn't a hobby, it's the absence of being interesting.
But anything from crafts, to art, to MAKING music, to running a business, to travel, languages, teaching, computers, programming, even video gaming... all big bonuses.Ones that she's actually interested in and isn't doing to put on a show. By partaking in hobbies that interest her, she develops more attractive qualities, like a sense of fulfillment, dignity, and self respect.
I think this is valid for both genders:
Common hobbies means you can do stuff together. Don't change your passions for someone else as you don't know if you're staying with them for the rest of your life. Be yourself, just do You.Anything nerdy that you actually enjoy doing. It is a pet peeve when girls act like they like something and then stop liking it once they hooked a guy in. Just like what you like for real and we will like it too
I like it if she has something to do that makes it so she's always waiting for me to talk to her. Whether it's reading, sports, even binge watching, I don't really care as long as she's having fun without me needing to be there 24/7
I'm a girl, but fuck trying to change yourself so men like you. You're a free bitch.
Anything that I enjoy.
Biggest one by far is she enjoys lifting, then gaming/sport/anime are all tied for 2nd.
Lifting will forever be my biggest turn on.There are no hobbies that make a girl more physically attractive. However, if her hobbies matched mine, that would make her a more desirable partner to me.
To be honest if the girl isn't good looking to the guy then she could have 100s of hobbies and the guy won't like her. Unlike you girls who value traits in us men and the looks are a bonus, we men value looks and then traits are the bonus...
Playing my hobbies: playing an instrument cause that takes skill. Playing tennis so I can hit with her. Doing yoga. If she's open to chess, that shows she is open minded and analytical.
Adventurous hobbies like camping, hiking, traveling, extreme sports as well as creative things like writing and art. It's different for every guy though.
Anything that doesn't have to do with showing off. I thinking it's more genuine and likeable if she likes knitting than fitness
Music, dancing, athletics of some kind. There are also hobbies that are traditionally masculine that some how become feminine and fierce as hell when a woman does them; like hunting, archery, and things like that.
I work with my hands a lot so I really like to do things like take a piece of steel and carve it into something cool or useful. I find it extremely sexy if a girl can do the same, take one thing and turn it into another
Literally anything that doesn't involve them being a self centered bitch. Like, watching TV/movies, playing video games, hiking, painting, or hell even golf. I dont care, as long as her makeup or Instagram isn't her hobby, it's all cool.
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