+1 yMe personally? Same hobbies I have! While most musicians moan that their partners complain about time/money/etc spent on music, I was the one convincing my ex she didn't need another guitar, and trying to get some time in my own studio!!
Beyond that, having hobbies is attractive in itself. Times that by 100 if you're really good at it. I take no interest in horses, professional dancing, or musical theater, yet any girl who is amazing at whatever she loves doing is instantly more attractive. I guess it shows skill, dedication, but most of all, it shows a love for life. That's attractive!00 Reply
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honestly, and this might sound mean but, when she actually HAS hobbies outside of just watching netflix or TV. Like when I ask a girl what are some of her hobbies she enjoys and she can really only give me watching TV or Netflix, I get the sense that she's kinda boring (and I could be totally wrong but just can't help that thought).
sure if we share a hobby here or there that would be great, I don't know if it would be any more attractive, but at least have a hobbie.
Also, I'm personally on the fence on whether I count working out as a hobby, js lol.31 Reply
+1 yDon't worry about your hobbies..
I'm so sure u will find someone with the same hobbies u like as well don't change your hobbiesfor someone else20 Reply
+1 yAll these masculine hobbies make girls more attractive to gag “men” lol
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Honestly, she could probably be into anything, as long as I saw the passionate side of her, even if I wasn't into the same hobby, I would find that very attractive.
I am a very passionate person, so it would be a bonus if she was like that, since I find women with no real interests and ambitions to be kinda dull, honestly. I never really know what to talk about if she hardly has any interests.20 Reply
+1 yIf she likes walking and spending time in the outdoors.
If she likes watching Bible related videos and conspiracy theory videos
If she loves and reads the Bible
If she enjoys going to Church, one that preaches the true gospel
If she likes gaming
If she likes helping people in her spare time10 Reply
+1 yMost sports, playing an instrument (guitar or piano are often cool), playing videogames (without making it an obsession and still being in shape).
Wouldn't recommend modern art, like nonsensical sculptures or paintings that look like she snorted paint and then sneezed (those usually make many guys roll their eyes in annoyance).10 Reply- 870 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yGuns, fishing, camping, hiking, backpacking, hunting, dragon slaying, video games but only ones I like, committing random acts of violence, paintball, air soft, martial arts, blowjobs, archery, horseback ridding, volley ball, horse shoes, cornhole, fencing, fencing stollen goods, studying the Bible, kayaking, white water rafting, canoeing, MMA, boxing, tattoos, and cannibalism.
Girls who do any of these are girls who know how to have a good time.30 Reply Programming. Mainly because I'm a programmer myself, and it's so rare that I actually get to be passionate about my hobby to people, since most people don't really understand what I'm talking about. Or I just end up making jokes that I have tk explain, and explaining a joke just kills it.
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+1 yAny, really. So many girls have zero interests, having any interest at all is a huge bonus.
Things that are not very interesting... movies, books, TV, music. Passive entertainment isn't a hobby, it's the absence of being interesting.
But anything from crafts, to art, to MAKING music, to running a business, to travel, languages, teaching, computers, programming, even video gaming... all big bonuses.00 Reply
+1 yOnes that she's actually interested in and isn't doing to put on a show. By partaking in hobbies that interest her, she develops more attractive qualities, like a sense of fulfillment, dignity, and self respect.
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This is the truest shit I have read all day
+1 yI think this is valid for both genders:
Common hobbies means you can do stuff together. Don't change your passions for someone else as you don't know if you're staying with them for the rest of your life. Be yourself, just do You.00 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Anything nerdy that you actually enjoy doing. It is a pet peeve when girls act like they like something and then stop liking it once they hooked a guy in. Just like what you like for real and we will like it too
00 ReplyI like it if she has something to do that makes it so she's always waiting for me to talk to her. Whether it's reading, sports, even binge watching, I don't really care as long as she's having fun without me needing to be there 24/7
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+1 yI'm a girl, but fuck trying to change yourself so men like you. You're a free bitch.
20 Reply908 opinions shared on Dating topic. Anything that I enjoy.
Biggest one by far is she enjoys lifting, then gaming/sport/anime are all tied for 2nd.
Lifting will forever be my biggest turn on.00 Reply
+1 yThere are no hobbies that make a girl more physically attractive. However, if her hobbies matched mine, that would make her a more desirable partner to me.
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+1 yTo be honest if the girl isn't good looking to the guy then she could have 100s of hobbies and the guy won't like her. Unlike you girls who value traits in us men and the looks are a bonus, we men value looks and then traits are the bonus...
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+1 yPlaying my hobbies: playing an instrument cause that takes skill. Playing tennis so I can hit with her. Doing yoga. If she's open to chess, that shows she is open minded and analytical.
00 ReplyAdventurous hobbies like camping, hiking, traveling, extreme sports as well as creative things like writing and art. It's different for every guy though.
20 ReplyAnything that doesn't have to do with showing off. I thinking it's more genuine and likeable if she likes knitting than fitness
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Sweet!
+1 yMusic, dancing, athletics of some kind. There are also hobbies that are traditionally masculine that some how become feminine and fierce as hell when a woman does them; like hunting, archery, and things like that.
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+1 yI work with my hands a lot so I really like to do things like take a piece of steel and carve it into something cool or useful. I find it extremely sexy if a girl can do the same, take one thing and turn it into another
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+1 yLiterally anything that doesn't involve them being a self centered bitch. Like, watching TV/movies, playing video games, hiking, painting, or hell even golf. I dont care, as long as her makeup or Instagram isn't her hobby, it's all cool.
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+1 yFor me its not so much about what the hobby is, more then passion they carry for it. If they dont have a passion for anything its a bit of a worry
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+1 yI'd blow my load on the spot if I met a girl into driving and maintaining classic cars
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+1 yIf she is creative, I would easily fall for her.
I will like to date a singer or a musician or a writer or a good cook or some different hobby.
And she must be same or more intelligent than me.00 ReplyWhen they have some unusual hobbies, for example my crush... never knew she was playing mobile games, that made me go even more crazy about her because of her uniqueness
00 ReplySomeone who actually has hobbies and doesn't sit at home and watch movies all day. Someone who is "outdoorsy" is definitely attracting to me. Hobbies like sports, traveling, fishing, hunting, etc.
20 ReplyAnything she loves, that we can share, if we are together!!
00 ReplyHobbies that I already have or that I could picture myself getting into.
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+1 yVideo games, excessive Netflix, plays/makes music, anime/cartoons, science.
20 Reply Fishing, surfing, going to concerts and sex toy enthusiastic
00 ReplyNone. in my opinion. Someone's hobbies aren't going to make me interested in them.
10 ReplyI don't know but I hope liking anime is attractive.
10 ReplySinging 😍 or knitting, crafting, anything that make her eyes shine ☺️
00 Reply564 opinions shared on Dating topic. Hobbies she enjoys so much that if you ask her a question about it she could talk for hours and watch her face as it lights up with excitement
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+1 yguitar, hats, fishing, skateboarding, hiking, rafting, kayaking, gaming, art, sports, logos, creativity, lots of knowlege about something cool,
10 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Working out, looking hot, not being a bitch, cooking/baking, doing housework, being a slut for me, being outdoorsy
10 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Being a gamer, being into philosophy, enjoying politics, etc.
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Wearing fedoras.😀
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@IntuitiveMuffin You need to work on your baiting some more.
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Just saw the list and was making a joke. It's all cool man, not trying to bait you dude.😘
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI'm attracted to her having ANY hobbies that aren't destructive to herself or others. :) hobbies make a person more interesting and more fun to get to know, no matter which ones they are.
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+1 yWhen she doesn't say "who are you? How did you get into my house?"
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+1 yI used to drive by a high performance auto garage called "Competition Head Service". I think that would be a great hobby.
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+1 yModeling. Art photography. Keen and eclectic musical tastes. Running or climbing. Beer connoisseurship.
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+1 ySinging... if your voice sounds goods... it seems to be attractive
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+1 yNone. If you can't flirt and show interest then you can generate attraction
00 Reply 1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Girly stuff!!!
running, yoga, dancing, singing
Anything feminine. Women who do mascaline things are a HUGE turn off.00 Reply
+1 yGames, electronics, gardening, Badminghton. So... they can relate... and they learned about the technologies of their century...
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+1 yHobby's are a MUST lol. Im a very active person myself and i find women without hobby's empty and boring!
20 ReplyVisiting her family members and close friends. Not really a hobby per se but it makes me happy when she does this. If she has a good relationship with her mom that is super cute.
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+1 ySomeone who has hobbies, they don't have to match mine, but it is always fun when a couple can enjoy doing different things together. Spending meaningful time together is important
00 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Skiing and other outdoor pursuits that I enjoy. And musical talent, which I do not have.
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+1 yI find very attractive when I see a girl doing something and she's actually enjoying herself.
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+1 yAny hobby which she doesn't do for being attractive
10 ReplyA girl that is kinky and is obsessed with sex. My kinda girl.
10 Reply394 opinions shared on Dating topic. Target shooting
Hunting
Fishing
Computer games
Reading
Camping
Pen and paper rpgs10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yDang reading the comments makes me worry, i ain't got nothing of those lmao
00 ReplySnowmobiling and dirtbiking. If they do either of those they are automatically 2 points higher on the rating scale
10 ReplyThe kind of hobbies that she's can be included in. Shopping, travelling etc
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+1 yWell would be cool if they liked all the stuff I like
00 Reply Adventurous. She must not sit at one place watching a movie regularly. It's boring
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Gaming, singer, musician, cooking, fishing, hunting
20 Reply330 opinions shared on Dating topic. honestly her hobbies mostly seem irrelevant to me. unless its something i like to do myself
00 ReplyMore than your average hobbies. Crafts, technology, and "odd hobbies". I prefer a girl I'm into to be unique and unlike others.
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