so basically my friends set me up with this guy.. weve been talking for only about a week but he wants to take me to dinner on Wednesday.. weve never seen each other in person, and the only photos he's seen is my face. he looks pretty healthy (not like a gym freak, but just plain healthy and slim) and he's handsome. As for me, i think i have a pretty face from what people tell me but my body isn't all that. im 5’7 and about 150 ibs.. what should i do? am i freaking out? i feel like most people just want someone perfect with a perfect flat stomach and thats not me. i dont wanna dissapoint anyone. should i just tell him? and if i do? what do i say? also please dont tell me things like “if he doesn't like you for the way you are, then...” because I've heard it so many times lmao
i look similar to this photo, not the same body shape but about the same amount of fat
1) Go on a date. If you look anything like the girl here, you're good. She's well withing the range or what I would call attractive. Actually, healthy skin is a lit more important to guys than your bodyfat. A bit of fat is a lot better than a chick that looks like a mummy from all the tanning, or like a corpse from dieting. Generally, if you look in the mirror, and you see a healthy looking person, you are doing well.
2) That being said, I urge you to change your diet a bit, and exercise more. Not because you NEED it, but because it creates discipline, and it makes you feel more confident in yourself.
Also, disregars this comment, but I am horny as hell right now, so I have to confess, I'd fuck the shit out of that girl on the picture. Just smash her on a king sized bed, jump on her, make out a bit, and then play with her a bit... Maybe tie her up just for the sake of it. I don't know. She looks fine.
You are way over thinking this. The body in the picture is not even close to fat. I'd have NO problem with a 5'7" girl who weighs 150 lbs. When you over think something, it just becomes a bigger and bigger issue. Stop thinking about this and look forward to the date. I'm going to say it... If the guy doesn't like you just because of your body, he isn't a guy you want anyway. He's very shallow and empty headed. What is the worst thing that can happen. He doesn't ask you out again. That happens all the time, even to the best looking people.
If someone asks you out they must think you are all right so why are you getting excited? At least you are getting asked out and not sitting at home playing solitaire.
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Shut up. You look great. No one has a perfect body. Everyone can find a feature they don’t like.
chubby? where? right I'm gonna say right now if that is chubby i'm Prince friggin Charles... give yourself some credit, even if you were chubby guys don't want a stick figure (well a small amount do) but rest of us prefer a woman we can hold, but dont honestly know where you are getting the chubby bit from cos if you are like the photo, that is very attractive...
it's just you need to appreciate yourself more and you should listen to compliments... as anyone decent who would be honest with you would tell you you look amazing
so dont fear going on dates, don't worry about what you think you look like, just go and find out that someone who will accept a date from you would be a very lucky person, and that they would be really happy to get the chance to meet you
WHO SAYS you're chubby? Except for a little extra in the belly, you look perfectly fine!!! It's probably nothing more than puppy fat!! I used to know a girl in college that had a little puppy fat and it made her just look cuter and sexier and nearly EVERY guy on campus wanted to date her!!! She was our Marilyn Monroe. When she wore her powder blue scooter skirt and especially with pantyhose and flats, YYYYUMMMM!!! Even if we were both the same age, I'd go out with you in a heartbeat!!
bish, da hell, you look just fine, besides im more worried about how much of troublesome girl you are personality wise than how chubby you are. gone show da world your body looks good ta me. ill be da 1st to date cha.
if that picture is of you, then no you are not chubby, But go out on the date, who knows you may have a blast. There is a lot more to people then their size, weight, hair color and ETC, if he doesn't like you because how you look then you don't need him or the BS.
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You are definitely not too chubby to date. You will find lots of guys that love your body.
Bullshit. You are fine, don't worry about it. You are a nice normal girl and only a guy who is a true douchebag would not date you because of your body.
You’re not that bad. Ideal for me actually. I don’t like too thin. Go on your date and have fun. Don’t worry about it. Besides he won’t see you like that for another few dates likely right?
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