Overheard my boyfriend say another girl is hot af?

[Anonymous]

I was hanging out with him and his friends and I overheard him talking with them about another girl and my boyfriend literally said she’s hot af.

does he think she’s hotter than me?

He thinks she's hotter than you

He thinks she’s as hot as you

He thinks she’s not as hot as you

[nathanp97]

He isn't comparing you. He was with his friends and received a girl was hot. Guys don't stop looking at girls when they end up in relationships. They just don't act on it. I've heard girls talk about hot guys they saw when they are in relationships, so it isn't a big deal. I'd just let it go. He is with you not with her and guys feelings are often shown through their actions not words. He is with you which means he loves you not her.

[devilman666]

It's inpossible to know for sure either way. It doesn't matter though, you're being hypocritical unless you think that your boyfriend is the only attractive man you've met.

[Asker]

But I don’t say that

[devilman666]

"He wants to sleep with her"

You wrote that in a reply to someone else on this question (though this question itself shows how you are overthinking and being judgmental, most people don't just ask strangers a very personal question like that). You are judging him for finding other people attractive, so either you are a hypocrite or you find no male other than your boyfriend physically attractive.

Imagine if I said "my girlfriend admitted to me that she thinks Blake Shelton really is the sexiest man alive. She definitely wants to fuck him!" Doesn't that seem judgemental? You are accusing him in your mind, even if you don't say it to him. You even ask for opinions of strangers online, instead of just asking him.

[Asker]

I forgot the question mark lol I was like he wants to sleep with her?

[Pamina]

How would we know from that information alone if he thinks she's hotter than you or not, can you explain that to me? I mean, if not even you know that, how would we know?

Are you worried he'd cheat on you? Do you have any reason to believe so?

[ameliajp]

guys are like that when they're together. it's likely not a comparison. she's just hot af just like you may be hot af as well.

[Asker]

Why didn’t he say I was hot af

[nathanp97]

Probably because he respects you more than her and wouldn't degrade you with that. The other possibility is some women would beat their man if he said she was hot af, but that depends your personality.

[tonicandgin]

Doesn't matter if she's hotter than you. That doesn't mean he wants to be with her, it just means she looks fuckable.

[Asker]

He wants to sleep with her

[tonicandgin]

Well have you ever looked at another guy that was really attractive physically and thought to yourself "damn. That boy is HOT!"?

[Asker]

I meant he wants to sleep with her? Not he wants to sleep with her

[tonicandgin]

Not necessarily. He could just think she's pretty

[Secret6620]

He thinks she is hot and he thinks you are hot too.

[Anonymous]

We don’t know how hot you are or how hot the other girl is

[Asker]

But based on what he said

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he thought you were hot af when he first saw you

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you care anyway? My ex used to always let me know how hot Channing Tatum was, you don’t think you are the hottest girl in the world do you?

[Asker]

That’s a celebrity this is a girl he knows and was talking about it when I could easily hear

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I’m sorry, I read it wrong, if he did it purposely so you could hear it, he’s trying to make you jealous, you’ll have to find out yourself why

[ROCKS128]

You know what he thinks...

[Asker]

I actually don’t cause I’m not a guy

[ROCKS128]

Only you do know. Coz you are his only girl.
Don't u know ur guy?

[IkilledCupid_]

Dump his ass

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

leave the cheat