Do guys really get laid fast from bumble and tinder?

[Cocolondon]

How fast do girls really give it up to guys for sex using bumble and tinder?

[winterfox10]

Umm... not really... most guys don't get very many matches on those apps, and the girls that they do match with usually aren't looking for a casual hookup. The concept of hookup culture is really more of a theory than a practice.

[Cocolondon]

So if he is saying something casual he is looking for sex? Or not trying to get crazy girls?

[winterfox10]

If he says casual, then he just looking for sex. He is also stupid, because you get more women if you say that you are looking for dating.

[Cocolondon]

Well he I think tries to play it but I doesn’t realize a girl like me has seen and heard it all, I am not into games lol just straight up what it is

[winterfox10]

Well what are you looking for?

[Cocolondon]

Just fun and sex but I don’t sleep around I do care about my health

[winterfox10]

you should be able to find that easy enough... But I don't know if tinder is really the place you would want to look for it. Not necessarily the cleanest people, you know?

[Cocolondon]

Ohh I don’t use tinder

[Cocolondon]

But lot of the same guys use all
The apps

[winterfox10]

What do you use?

[Cocolondon]

And I thought I did but then this guy just seemed I don't know he asked the first night we had sex what this was?

[Cocolondon]

Like why did he ask if we already talked about it?

[Cocolondon]

Then he projected like I was the one getting emotions after the 2nd time but we are still talking I had to put him in his place about it

[winterfox10]

Maybe he misread some of your signals? I know that many times women will get ideas in their head in a situation like that. One time, a girl and I expressly talked about exactly what we were doing together on our first date... But then a week later, she broke it off with me, saying she didn't have time for dating, even though we both agreed that dating isn't what we were looking for.

[Cocolondon]

Maybe I thought that so I have backed off we still talk, but I think he wanted to date not sleep around but just the vibe I get

[Cocolondon]

But I am also girl that likes interaction doesn’t mean I expect more or less it’s pary of the foreplay to me and I think he thinks something else with it

[winterfox10]

I like foreplay too, more than the actual sex. I think maybe women get a emotional vibe about it too.

[Cocolondon]

Well not all
Girls do I am actually more of guy when it comes to emotions. I don’t need him and won’t wait. I just want to enjoy but the assuming it what messes stuff up on both parts

[yeeeeeeeet]

I mean realistically most guys dont even get matches on tinder, but the guys that do can do whatever they want. If they get one match they probably got 10. At least one of them will probably fuck him

[Cocolondon]

Ok make sense

[aicarg]

It all depends on the individual person and their intentions in what they seek from using the app. With the people whom I know, Tinder has a larger reputation for being known as a hook up app than Bumble.

[Cocolondon]

I see that just curious how many guys use it just sleep with as many girls as they can

[Pamina]

No, they're chances are the same as outside of online dating.

[Pamina]

*their

[numerouno85]

depends on the guy I guess like if its been a while he may unload quickly but if he's getting constant pussy he will take longer

[Cocolondon]

Ok so if he doesn’t cum fast then he is getting laid a lot?

[numerouno85]

there can be other reasons but that could be one

[Cocolondon]

Lol ok just curious how guys use the app to sleep around or not

[numerouno85]

Nah they are looking for a wife lol

[Cocolondon]

I mean guy that is just sleeping around isn’t going to care about standards really? I mean they don’t care long as it’s pussy right?

[Cocolondon]

Lol wife yeah right

[numerouno85]

of course they do, if he's desperate and not getting any he won't care but if he's getting laid he will only take the best unless he's trying something kinky like a grandma or a tiny Asian

[Cocolondon]

Hahah ok

[Cocolondon]

I think this guy started to project his feelings and I am just dating nothing serious. And I just wanted to see how guys use it compared to girls. For just dating and going out for drinks and fun is how I do

[numerouno85]

Good for you at 38 you should be having fun if you aren't married

[Cocolondon]

Right be I think he wanted to date and wants more and when I gave him compliment he goes I think you are getting feelings to fast. But back in my mind I am
Like you asked me he first night what this was. I said friends with benefits

[numerouno85]

What are the benefits?

[Cocolondon]

Just causally booking up, but I thought it was weird he asked me on the first night we had sex

[Cocolondon]

So I think in my opinion he wanted to date but didn’t like my response but is going with it

[Jonny_]

Some probably do, i'd say it's more of a minority though. I hear a lot of bs about it, I only use them for dating and even that's quite slow.

[bladedshard]

Despite tinder being a hookup app girls like to look for friends and dates on it. They also have strangely high standards. If you are atteactive and do get a match she still probably won't be interested in sex.

[bladedshard]

*despite being known as a hookup app

[Anonymous]

Tinder is a hook up cite i think i heard bumble was more a girl contacts first type thing

[Cocolondon]

I think bumble is the same for guys they just wait

[BigJake]

Depends completely on the guy. Ugly dude with nothing going for him physically may as well not be on them. Really good-looking guys can line up options pretty quickly.

[jessture]

It's getting less and less... tinder used to be fun but now women are looking for their future husbands on there

[JCT666]

Depends mostly on the guy. If he's physically good looking, he can arrange a meet up for a shaggy as soon as he matches.

Me being average looking and using dating apps for 3 years, I've never been successful.

[apple24]

Only if he hot...

[humanearth]

Never heard of them