Why do some guys just not get laid?

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Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I think it’s a combination of things that can be different person to person. Some guys are incredibly socially awkward and lack the empathy required to effectively communicate with a woman.

some guys are sour/jaded and hate woman. You’ll never get laid if you don’t love woman.

Some guys don’t get out enough and when they talk to women, they can sorta tell there’s something wrong with this guy, they’ll default to thinking you’re undesirable. No woman wants a guy who absolutely no one else wants , so if your confidence is super low and it comes across like you don’t even love yourself how much less desirable can you be?

the biggest one I think is not understanding the games women play. To loosely quote Robert Greene: If you decide you’re morally above playing the game and refuse to play, that doesn’t take you out and you’ll loose every time.

LordMadara · Accepted Answer

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Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

The men having issues getting sex tend to have shit personalities/bad attitudes. Women will overlook a lot of stuff to fuck a man like for example men in jail will have pussy lined up for them when they out. Obviously those men have no jobs, a lot of them are ugly/fat/bald, and are literal criminals but they have personality so they get women

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

Usually because they’re not likable as people, or give off the impression that they see women as objects, or maybe they’re just plain old not attractive. You can’t make a woman want to fuck you anymore than you can make a dog want to speak English.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

You'd probably be surprised how many guys there are out there who simply don't do anything to appeal to women. It's tough to succeed with women if you aren't doing anything to make yourself someone anyone would want to be around.

They don't dress well. They don't try talking with women. They don't have particularly nice or uplifting things to say. If you want to succeed with women, you have to like talking with women. You have to enjoy being around them. You have to be fun for women to be around.

A lot of men don't do that.

Anonymous · Answer

Generally 2 reasons. 1 they set thier sites too high. 2. They don't say the right things.

Virtually any guy can get laid. I never said she was going to be a beauty queen. But secondly what separates the guys that get laid from the guys that don't is the guys that do are car salesman. I f you're not blessed with charmed you have to be ruthless in your pursuit. They're always working to close that deal. 99 times you might get shutdown. But that 100th time is the payoff. Lie, lie, lie and then lie some more. Whatever you need to say to get those panties to come off you say that 💩.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Personality flaws usually. Some men don't do or say anything to attract anyone.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Largely thanks to feminists making women have unreasonable preferences which they pass off as 'standards'. Also women tend to copy what they see on TV and in the media, such as crappy reality tv shows.

dragoblack · Answer

Frim my experience it is a matter of physical attaction, and how they view you. Obviously those who see women as objects are not going to get laid. Then, there are the genuinely kind guys that think they don't deserve a guy like that, or could leave the guy with a 1-night-stand. Then there's the guys, women see like brothers or just a friend. Finally, there are guy who are just ace and have no impluse for sex. So, there's various reasons and not all of them are bad

LiamJHayden · Answer

From what I see the biggest problems for guys are a lack of bravery in approaching, a lack of personality/being interesting, and worst of all, a reek of desperation.

es20490446e · Answer

Women like men naturally. Men who don't see this simple truth don't get laid.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

They’re either unattractive (in other words average appearance even) or they have bad social skills

dolemite58 · Answer

could be many things like he’s Ugly as sin, broke, no confidence, micropenis etc

Anonymous · Answer

I told them how, and the question was removed.

Billlewis · Answer

Because women aren't attracted to them.

jahaims · Answer

They are undesirable or don't have confidence

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