Why do some guys only want sex?

[Anonymous]

[ArchivalMars2]

The short answer, they're only focused on sex because they like the physical feeling of it. Ultimately, they want more of that feeling, and they want to try and bang the hottest girls they can for an ego boost, to brag about it to their friends, and feel like they're the best. You got to remember that sex is hard for a guy to get in general, he has to look attractive to the girl then he has to say the right things to make her feel safe, comfortable, excited, and aroused in the end. This can take a long time depending on the guy and the girl he is with. To a lot of guys getting the girl in bed is considered the ultimate win and something to be proud of. Also, it doesn't help that nowadays a guy having sex with a girl is practically treated like some rite of passage to being a man. Sounds stupid but it's a thing believe it or not.

[coconut94]

This is very much accurate

[coconut94]

People think it’s because guys just want to have fun but I think it’s mentally rooted deeper in some insecurity/need to feel adequate in themselves and being able to land a girl in bed makes them feel good about themselves. But, the feeling is temporary and so they keep chasing it and going after more women and fail to realize it’s never fill their insecurities.

[Asker]

@coconut94 this one is the best response it actually answers the question besides be bitchy like other people give out.

[coconut94]

So agree

[ArchivalMars2]

@coconut94 More or less yes, and again it doesn't help that a lot of guys act like having sex is a right of passage to being a man. As if "you can't be a man until" you do this kind of thing. In this case, it's believed that you can't be a man until you've been with a woman even though there are more important things than that to being a man.

[coconut94]

So much more important things.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Because of the times we are living in. Everything is hypersexualized, everything is about flesh and material goods, everything is about me, me and more me. Just look at Hollywood movies, listen to music and their video clips, look at a so called ""innocent cartoons"" everything is about sex and money. You have a ridiculously easy way to find any type of pornography that your heart desires for FREE, while it is almost impossible to find a good, working, LIVE experience advices on how to be a good father and mother or how to keep a marriage last for decades etc...

[RearEntryGuy]

I think the word "only" is not correct. We guys like a lot more than just sex. We desire good food (with our girlfriend), great companionship (where we can talk for hours), etc.

Also, I'm very sure girls like sex too. You can testify that you enjoy orgasms too right? And yes, only girls are given the title "nymphomaniac".

Hence in general, both genders are similar sexually, just that girls are better at concealing.

And perhaps a few guys who spoil the name of men (just like some girls to women), are not tactful and make appear that all they want is sex. It's just a misunderstanding of gender traits.

[Arias]

Sex is unfortunately apart of connection. It is a physical and immediate reaction and connection. Some can't or don't want or can't manage how to work passed mending the rest of a connection for the both of them, but while the other percentage of men that want more than just sex, women place an immediate category on all men and think the absolute worst of all, thus giving some no chance.

The real question is "Women..."?

[Robertfootball]

Why do some girls only want friendship when the guy wants more? Same reason. The guy just wants sex and doesn’t see you as relationship material the same as the girl only sees a guy as a friend and not good enough to be more.

[kyleelyn199723]

Because that’s what they want. Focus your time on pens that don’t want just that, if you also want more than sex

[kyleelyn199723]

Men**

[Kisama]

But how does that logic work if they're manipulative? If selectively picking men based on that, I still have a great chance of ending up with one.

[kyleelyn199723]

By not giving yourself up too quickly. Men that will screw you on the first date aren’t serious to begin with. My one ex that cheated on me was willing to screw on the first date

[Kisama]

You're not understanding my perspective, somewhere in the line this solution of yours will simply not work. There are men who are willing to take extreme extents just to fuck a particular woman, irrespective of whether it costs weeks, months or years.

[kyleelyn199723]

I disagree on that from my experiences , but to each their own.

[Kisama]

Basically using this logic could reduce the chances but that depends on many variables so that security is not that. Thus you can't be guaranteed you'll never end up with one.

[Kisama]

There*

[kyleelyn199723]

Yes but 95% of men won’t waste tons of time on a girl that respects herself

[Kisama]

When you present a figure, give me the citation. If not, I take it as bs.

[Asker]

Well that 95 percent of the time you have no other choice but to cut them off because in those times they only want sex.

[kyleelyn199723]

Citation to what? It’s completely obvious. If you overall respect yourself, the chances of a man just wanting sex with you will not waste time if you don’t give it up after so long. It’s not that hard. Nice to make excuses for women that don’t understand that respectable men don’t have sex with you on the first date as respectable women won’t open their legs on the first date

[Kisama]

Just because things may seem observingly obvious does not necessarily mean that it's what's happening. We're talking about case-case basis, you simply can't rule out that one solution fits all?

[kyleelyn199723]

Except my point does fit all. A man that sticks around for only sex is because you gave him sex from the very beginning. Not that obvious to figure out.

[Asker]

Lust is confusing I think guys like that are assholes because If they really liked a girl they wouldn't want a girl screwing them over. It is something about the girl they slept with they don't like they must not meet their standards.

[Kisama]

And that is based on an what, anecdotes? I'm sorry but anecdotes are probably the least most reliable data out there. The fact there are those who literally stick around for months, if not years, just for intercourse demonstrates the lengths these men will take. So your solution cannot be a safety net for all women, stop pretending like you've solved the puzzle here.

[Kisama]

I've previously stated your logic could possibly reduce the chances but only to some extent. You're claiming it is the solution as an entirety- which is is clearly not.

[kyleelyn199723]

Sorry but the most logical thing for yourself to do is to protect yourself and respect yourself. If you can’t figure out that, that is best case scenario and you make excuses, then you get what you get. I changed my life to be overall more respectable and I have a man by my side that walks the ground I walk on to this day 🤷🏻‍♀️ your loss

[Asker]

That isn't an excuse it is the truth when a man only wants sex he sees something he doesn't like about you. I mean they will find someone else to sleep with if they haven't already been sleeping with someone else

[kyleelyn199723]

Yea and you can avoid a man using you by not giving it up too quickly. A man that wants sex only will not stick around to hear about your life non sense. When a man only wants sex it’s because he only wants sex.

[Asker]

Who needs to grow up are the men because if I do some shady stuff to somebody it is just wrong it isn't an excuse to be disrespecting anybody some people like that the other person might change their mind and want a relationship later. Only trashy people disrespect people just because they think the other person is easy it isn't that hard for commitment.

[kyleelyn199723]

Sorry but if someone wants sex, that is their adult decision. You can avoid it, by not giving up your pussy because you like a guy

[Kisama]

And sex comes with preference, if there's a certain girl they're desperate to try with- then they will do what is required to get that.

Ofc that's the rational thing to do but not necessarily logical? What's certainly not logical is to pretend these cases do not exist just to make your solution sound fitting to all scenarios. For this case we could pretend the figure mentioned above (' 95%') is true, what about the other 5%? Are you actually suggesting that your own solution will not work? Why is that?

The obvious answer is that the solution cannot be the safety net in every case.

[Kisama]

In other words, even if I try to "close my legs" that wouldn't guarantee anything.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama there’s a more cases where the girl gives it up way too quickly and the guy will stick around because you are an easy and effortless person to please. You give up your pussy too quickly. Men that only want sex will stick for around for a girl that is effortless. It’s not that hard. There’s probably slim to none chance a guy can possibly use you, if you avoid having sex with him until a couple months later. Not hard to concept. Why continue to blame men, when you are the easy effortless woman?

[Asker]

@Kisama it is a part of life something you have to put up with even though you don't like it.

[Kisama]

There's more cases? Do you have the statistics? No, you do not. So let's not jump to non-existent figures and be ignorant of people in different scenarios where they've exhausted the solution you mentioned above.

[Asker]

Because it is easy for men to get sex anywhere you do have to admit that people do have preferences and they have the right to choose who they really want. Just because you save your cookies doesn't mean that you are compitable with them.

[kyleelyn199723]

It’s common sense, you don’t need stats for common sense. Continue to make excuses for women that complain about men like this, but then don’t respect themselves. That’s on you. I was pretty successful with waiting to have sex with my boyfriend. It worked out perfectly vs when I used to give it up too quickly to men in the past

[Kisama]

@Asker You're literally saying the opposite of what @kyleelyn199723 is stating. It's essentially my argument, that these things are unavoidable yet she argues that it is.

How can I simplify this any further that these things are extremely hard to control or predict, there are manipulative people out there that will take extra lengths to achieve something.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker if you aren’t compatible and save your cookie, he will become less interested to chase and move on.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama if it’s not avoidable, then why has my life been successful with a boyfriend ever since I dropped being a hoe and giving up my body for stupid reasons?

[Asker]

@Kisama I think it is un compatibility especially when people play games so they can break you so you can give in only shallow people stick up their noses when they do wrong themselves.

[Kisama]

I'm not making up excuses for women who have sex on the first day, I'm supporting women who have exhausted your solution, waited months and still get fucked over by a man who just wanted sex with that particular female.

How can you be so ignorant of these women?

[Kisama]

Sounds like you have some low bias, judging by the way you used your language. "Closing your legs" lmao

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama because men will not wait that long for a woman if they are in desperate need to just have sex. Not sure why girls think they are that special lol. Men don’t view women like that. It’s so funny me and my friend used to get copy and pasted messages from the same men, letting us know the same thing. They take what they can get

[Asker]

You don't know if they are secretly sleeping with someone else behind your back men who sleep too soon don't have with themselves either just like the woman. I get tired of double standards it sounds like excuses that men make up just to be an asshole. I rather be single than be with someone who is judgmental nobody is perfect and I don't want someone else who thinks that they can sleep around but you can't.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama yep. I closed my legs for my boyfriend for months, explored what he was looking for, and look at us now in a strong relationship.

[Asker]

I guess I just still single really don't need a boyfriend.

[kyleelyn199723]

So then why go after men if you are fine being single and then complain that they only want sex?

[Kisama]

Good for you! I certainly hope you don't waste months with a man only to find out he used you. Yikes.

[Asker]

Because it is stupid that they can do wrong but you can't what I keep on saying. They think that the world resolves over them.

[kyleelyn199723]

Wanting to have sex and only sex is not wrong.

[Asker]

Maybe to you but to me it looks selfish to only want sex I'm not saying that only fans is right either that just makes matters worse especially when people watch porn is wrong.

[kyleelyn199723]

What another person chooses to do with their life is not up for you to decide, which goes back to my original comment of, if you are interested in being with a man, focus on the ones that don’t openly chase for sex. It’s obvious. The first night me and my man met, I ended up drunk. We slept in the same bed, but do you know what we literally did? We fell asleep. No sex involved.

[Asker]

That is the problem with society today that too many people are selfish and it makes it even worse when people don't believe in God or care about God but he gives us free will to do what we want. You can waste years with some one and they still won't marry you.

[kyleelyn199723]

Not everyone has to care about god, and not everyone is meant to care about god. I openly read the Bible and follow the Bible and it sure isn’t for everyone. Marriage isn’t for everyone either. What you think is proper, might not be other peoples definition of proper

[Asker]

Why should I try to please men when they don't give me what I want?

[kyleelyn199723]

No one told you to please men, but no one needs to give you what you want either. That’s not how life works. So again, if you don’t give yourself up so easily, a man will not use you.

[kyleelyn199723]

I found a quality man, and I changed a significant amount to become a quality woman. This is the problem with this generation. They aren’t willing to change some horrible qualities of themselves to make themselves an overall better partner and then bitch that they are single

[Asker]

Probably best not to give them the time of day just ignore them I guess. It sounds like the only solution.

[Asker]

The men aren't really to change either so why should I no need to settle for less than I deserve over shallow stuck up people like you.

[kyleelyn199723]

There’s men out there that are decent. If you make all men out to be gross hoes, then that is on you. You will forever be single , since you choose to ignore the genuine ones

[Asker]

And I don't like everything either so I guess it is better for me to stay single than put up with disrespectful people who think that the world resolves around them too.

[kyleelyn199723]

That’s on you to think every man is like that.

[Asker]

That is because a majority of people are stuck up not just men people sit there talking crap about the mistakes that somebody else does but turns around and does the same thing. Who are they to judge me when they aren't perfect.

[kyleelyn199723]

Well for one, no one is perfect. But for two, you can simply focus your time on men that are true to themselves and aren’t disrespectful. There’s a difference between not being perfect and being disrespectful

[Kisama]

That's the most vaguest advice that's ever been suggested.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama that is on you to think. I’m quite successful in my relationship because I changed my perspectives in life

[Kisama]

That is just retarded. That's insinuating I should rely on my own instincts after all, that's basically pointless advice LOL

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama if you choose to ignore red flags, that’s on you, once again. Probably a reason why you are unsuccessful with understanding why you think only bad guys are around.

[Asker]

A lot of people have red flags maybe it was your time to be in a relationship not everyone's life the same as yours.

[kyleelyn199723]

My time? Nah I got cheated on with my recent ex before my current. I was a very different person with my ex and I ignored my exes red flags

[Kisama]

Yeah, uhh... I do not recall stating that the male population as a whole are "bad" (next time, do use a quotation).

Smh.

[Asker]

Doesn't necessarily mean that if a guy is genuine that I like him I guess my solution is to be happy with being single.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama except you are literally making excuses for women still 🤷🏻‍♀️ step one if you do not like what a guy is providing you, move on 2. Don’t settle to give up your pussy so early. Boom chefs kiss

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker your situation is damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You complain about player men, but you also complain about genuine men.

[Kisama]

"boom chefs kiss"? That's the first time I've heard a 24 year old speak as though they're in their early teens. Cute.

If only those pathetic steps actually worked for majority of the women, that would've been groundbreaking. Instead, I'd give it the credit to work in 1/10⁵

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama you sound like a pick me that acts like 24 is a relatively mature age. I am pretty mature for my age, this is my only form of social media, I work full time, go to college, work out, and focus on my relationship only. Also, majority of women are willing to give themselves up for a guy on the first date as long as he’s hot. Let’s be real here.

[Asker]

I'm just speaking the truth I guess it is something about me that I need to work on if I don't like the guys who like me.

[Kisama]

Kyleelyn199723's logic:

Random Female - "he used me for sex"
Kyleelyn199723 - "should've closed your legs!"

Random Female - "We literally dated for months, he was like a boyfriend"

Kyleelyn199723's - "WHORE!"

The load of garbage one can spew.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama a person that ends up in a relationship with a person that used them for sex, ignored the red flags. So no I wouldn’t think they are a whore, but yes they should’ve listened to the red flags. Been there, done that. My recent ex used to talk to girl on lines behind my back, and I. Ignored it. Wasted my time for a year and a half because I ignored that one simple red flag that should’ve made me leave asap.

[kyleelyn199723]

Girls online*

[Kisama]

"MaJoRiTy oF WoMEn aRe wILling tO gIvE tHemsElvEs uP"

Based on what? Anecdotes? Lmao. Don't be stupid.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama sorry men don’t come out of no where and act like fuck boys, it’s completely obvious

[Asker]

Well guys do the same stupid shit so it doesn't really matter I just don't like hypercrites.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker not all guys do the same shit. You can literally pick up on a fuck boy based on red flags he chooses to throw at you. It’s the women that choose to ignore red flags because “maybe he might change”

[Asker]

Men ignore red flags too not just women.

[kyleelyn199723]

Did I say only women choose to ignore red flags? Nope I didn’t.

[kyleelyn199723]

But I also don’t see a lot of men asking “why do women only want sex”

[Asker]

Women use men for their money. I'm pretty sure that men get annoyed by women and their bad behavior if they ask I would tell them the truth.

[kyleelyn199723]

Um I have never used a man for money. That’s on you if you think every woman does that as well

[Kisama]

Completely obvious to whom? You've presented nothing statistical only pure anecdotes that are not even tiniest bit reliable and yet you think you've solved an issue with your lame solution and vague steps.

You can barely argue let alone think critically, then you'd have seen how ridiculous your assertion is.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama common sense doesn’t need facts behind it. Book smart and common sense smart are two completely different things. I don’t see much modest women complaining about men.

[kyleelyn199723]

@kisma just because you have no common sense, doesn’t mean what I am saying is wrong.

[Asker]

Never said that all women do that but in most cases they do it all is a heart issue on how the way people treat you.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker you aren’t even making any sense anymore.

[Asker]

That is because you don't have that problem or really know how some people struggle in relationships harder than other people.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker uhhh My current relationship is not my first relationship.

[Kisama]

Common sense can be differentiated. 2+2=4, that is common sense. To distinguish a guy from "bad" or "good" is nevertheless as vague as physicists translating math to the average Joe.
That common sense does not reside with every individual, particularly to those who are new to dating.

But of course, your logic is somehow never flawed and it can be applied to - apparently - all scenarios. Don't make me laugh.

[Asker]

Yeah but I'm talking about other people it takes some people longer than others to get into the right relationship. Two people have to be on the same page it can't be one sided.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama 2+2=4 is not a form of common sense, it’s an academic fact.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker yes but how you behavior, and what you choose to deal with in relationships play a fact on your overall success and happiness in a relationship

[kyleelyn199723]

How you behave*

[Kisama]

We have a lovely dating therapist on GaG who seems to have found the solution the widespread issue women seem to face.

Woah, Nobel prize anyone? :o

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama hey she asked for advice, and I gave it to her? Don’t like it? You can fuck off my comment.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama my advice is horrible, but you have managed to argue with me for 3 hours on Christmas. Isn’t that amazing?

[Kisama]

"CHOOSE TO DEAL WITH"?

You're telling me if I dated a man for months/years only to find out he used me all this time - was something I CHOSE?

LOL. Ridiculous advice.

[Kisama]

Like Christmas is going to make it any special, I'm an atheist and I'm bored out of my mind. :)

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama if a man uses you for that long, you CHOSE to ignore red flags. There’s a difference between using and a relationship simply not working out

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama hey I can admit I ignored the red flags with my ex. If you can’t self evaluate yourself in relationships , what good are you to bettering yourself?

[Kisama]

What RED FLAGS? The whole argument is that it's bloody vague and an unavoidable circumstance. You can reduce the chances but only to a certain extent.

You act as though it is entirely avoidable. Please enlighten me with more of this lame solution you have.

[Asker]

Like I said I put up with enough foolishness in previous relationships I'm not perfect so that isn't a good excuse that you are telling me if people are going to show off anyway like you said we ignore red flags it seems like Everytime I turn my back someone is showing their ass. It is not my job to be somebody else's therapist for bad behavior. I keep telling you that it takes time for some people to find the right person. Some people need to focus on their goals in life instead of dating. Now I wish I never said anything because all it is is the same thing with people it never ends just might as well don't complain about how screw up the world is a lot of people I know lack common sense. That is what I fuss about is a bunch of idiots but complaining about it doesn't solve anything but cause more problems.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama a person coming to you for sex, and only sex is completely and utterly obvious. They most likely won’t take you out on dates, won’t bring you around family/ friends, will hit it and ditch, will only talk about sex with you, will ask for nudes, will ask about your sexual past, will liked other girls pics on social media, will be in touch with Instagram porn stars and models. It’s really not hard to figure out. It’s really not anything new that girls ignore those things because they really want the guy to be a good guy

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker you have a right focus on yourself, and you will most likely attract someone that is a great person when you are focusing on yourself

[Kisama]

@Kyleelyn199723

Finally something I can analyze.

1. What of the instances they do take you on a date? How does that change the equation?
2. Won't bring you around family/friends - again, what in the instance they do?
3. They only talk about sex with you - how often? Every single day? What about men are generally more sexual, how does that differ?
4. Ask for nudes - healthy relationships generally share nudes, so when is it bad?
5. Will ask of your sexual past - a sign of concerns? Perhaps a sign of interest in fetishes etc?
6. Will like other girls pics in SM - it's widely accepted normal to like them, it'd be considered rude if the likes are not reciprocal. How does one know whether this is normal if one does not have SM previously?
7. In touch with pornstars/models - now realistically, without invading privacy, how does one obtain this info?

It's almost as though dating is much more complex than some basic advice given above.

[Asker]

@Kisama yeah people make dating hard when it is not.

[kyleelyn199723]

@Kisama my advice must be wise if you are asking me all these questions.
1. Guys will typically bring girls on dates if they show interest. A guy will simply take you to his house if he is interested in sex. That is advice given in multiple websites of if a guy likes you
2. What if they bring you around family? Maybe they see you as a potential, but then you as a girl show flags yourself, or they still aren’t Interested in you after you meeting their parents. Another advice given on multiple sites to figure out if a man likes you
3. they’re literally men out there that will hit you up and the first thing they talk about is sex or they pillow talk you into sex conversations
4. Sending nudes in a relationship is different than sending a random male guy nudes
5. It’s unacceptable to like other girls pics on social media while being interested in one. That shows you are interested in keeping up with multiple women. I’m sorry if you accept that, but I’m sorry a man keeping up with women on social media is a huge sign he is a player
6. Its not that hard to figure out if your man follows pornstars on Instagram.

This is my last and final paragraph, if you keep insinuating on arguing with me, I am blocking you

[Kisama]

The point I made just flew right above your head and, as expected, you decided to answer the actual questions rather than reading between the lines to save yourself some time and energy.

Dating is easy but when you do come across "red flags" that's when things get extremely complicated and when the 'one solution fits all' simply cannot be applied in every scenario.

But thanks for the anecdotes, it may help someone with a mere brain cell or two.

[Asker]

@Kisama it is best to think with your heart instead of your heart I think the majority of people you meet in life isn't the one you are supposed to marry.

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker I blocked her, not going back and fourth anymore.

[dvc0006]

possibly but not necessarily, there is really no way to screening out for that. you just have to take chances

[kyleelyn199723]

@dvc0006 agreed, but also it’s completely obvious by screening a guy out if he just wants sex.

[dvc0006]

but there is still a chance that you date and become a couple after hooking up.

[kyleelyn199723]

@dv0006 after the first date? It’s happened to me before, and that partner cheated. If a male has sex with you on the first date, then sex is a priority to him that leads to unseriousness , quite possible cheating in the near future. It’s a red flag

[Tee_12]

Because those guys don't know what is it like to give and receive love, people can only give you what they have within themselves most people don't even love themselves, just ask the right man for the right things and you will receive it

[Anonymous]

Possibly because some girls' interests are not inline with the guy's interest (or spending time with the girl is less desirable than spending time doing something else, e. g. hanging out with friends), but regardless of that, a woman can be sexually attractive, hence he will still attempt to have sex.

[Kisama]

Because they're looking to explore that area more and that is fine. Some just have the bad habit of not disclosing it earlier.

[MelonSoda]

They're horny, depressed, or are just that boring and have no personality.

[Drege01]

Men are wired for procreation with testosterone, the hunting, fighting and dominance hormone.
Women are wired for partner selection with desirable traits for genetic diversity, security and efficient provider.
Simple as that; were all just trying to make babies.
Anything that does not serve this purpose is unnatural and will unravel with the test of time.

[Anonymous]

Because we are not females and therefore the only thing we need you for is sex.
No straight male see’s a girl and honestly says “I bet she is a really cool person, I want to be her friend”

If one tells you he does, he’s a damn liar.

We look at you and either say “gross” or we say “I would love to fuck that”

[Idontwantausername1]

This man speaks for all man, yeah right...👎

[Opinion Owner]

@Idontwantausername1 Look folks, a damn liar

[hsshannah96]

Because they’re guys. And they were raised to be that way

[hsshannah96]

And guys are trash

[VikingWarLord]

Because we have tons of options.
But face it, us players and bad boys are hotter, better in bed and typically have bigger c0cks. That turns you on, I already know it just from your question

[Anonymous]

Same reason (s) some women do. As human beings it's a physical need, and it's fun, but we don't want any of the other complications, work or drama that often goes with relationships. And/or maybe don't have the time for it.

[StickStickity13]

Because they get so much women that they don't care about relationships.

[historectomy]

personally never been my thing but i think most guys do it cause they can tell a girl feels the same way, or they know the girl is easy

[Asker]

I hate it when guys say easy it makes it sound bad for the girl.

[historectomy]

no different then calling a girl easy

[historectomy]

sorry i meant guy

[Asker]

That is what the person getting what they want out of you sees it.

[hi8sm3]

because it is easier to get sex. Keep your leg closer, you won't have to ask stupid questions like this.

[Asker]

Well it is stupid just to use people for selfish reasons which doesn't make any sense

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker you can avoid that by not giving yourself up too quickly. A guy that only wants sex will not stick around long if you don’t give him it automatically

[hi8sm3]

"Why do some guys only want sex"

stupid question for where even women do: hookups, friends with benefits. It takes two to tango.

[Asker]

Well people do stupid stuff that doesn't make logically sense. I mean they don't like your face or something is that why people like to use you I mean it has to be a reason why?

[hi8sm3]

you are insecure and you are giving up yourself. Try to value yourself more, fix your selfesteem

[Asker]

Nobody is answering my question why do men only want sex just ignoring it.

[hi8sm3]

FK this, I wasted my time by trying to help this woman.

[Asker]

Just answer the question I mean I don't understand why they only want sex I mean the man has control with how the relationship goes a man doesn't have to commit to you if he doesn't want to some of them are very narcissistic.

[Robertfootball]

Women do it ALL the time with their male friends.

[Asker]

@Robertfootball I don't know what is wrong with people.

[spartan55]

The same reason some girls only want to be friends with a guy

[ready113]

KYLEELYN... YOU GO GIRL... THATS RIGHT... STAY DOWN FOR YOURS!!!

[Asker]

People think you are making up excuses about not keeping your legs but men make up excuses to cheat. So what is the difference there is always going to be problems with people it never ends.

[Neosporin]

I guess it requires less emotional energy but also less emotional reward so yeah

[scooogy]

Why do some girls quickly hop into their next "relationship"?

[Asker]

They don't want to be alone

[Anonymous]

Because sex is great and brings them a lot of pleasure.

[Honestguyopen]

Because they haven't learned the real purpose of life or women

[coconut94]

💗💞💗

[aquamarine321]

Because men are sexual beings, it’sy nature while girls want other stuff

[Brandi555]

Because guys are dirty

[Anonymous]

Because they think it's the only way to establish a deep connection with a woman.

[Dchrls78104]

Maybe it's because sex is all they have to offer.

[TheFlak38]

it's the only thing you have to offer

[InYourHead]

Cuz sex is great..

[Gobluebigtenchamps]

I wouldn't know

[13cmlong]

I like the way you think

[JohnK123]

Why do some girls only want sex?

[Twalli]

Because it feels good

[PeterSmith1983]

Also some girls... but yes more commen with men

[TallAnon]

Some girls aren't worth investing more into

[In_Trance]

Because some women have nothing else to offer

[JamesRandiDebates]

Women have nothing else to offer.

[blueazure]

Maybe there's something wrong with them.

[Tstrbrainer]

Because we don't see nothing else in some women