Would you ever date and have a relationship with someone in a wheelchair?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I saw this guy at the mall bout few months ago and he was in a wheelchair. He’s handsome, and i died when he smiled at me lol. Just saying, damn i would date that man.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for mho.

[Anonymous]

I saw a girl and a guy (in a wheelchair) out on what looked like a new date in a restaurant not so long ago, and it was just the sweetest thing!! 💛

[Daylight7550]

I definitely would. The disability does not make the person. I would love her with all my heart and do everything I can to make her life better.

[Cage4]

Yea i would. Also help them get back up through therapy if that works.

[Logorithim]

Probably only if it was a preexisting relationship.

[Asker]

You mean before they were walking?

[Logorithim]

Yeah, they were not using a wheelchair when the relationship started.

[Asker]

The question stated and meant dating a person already in a wheelchair and develop a relationship. Guess from you is no.

[Logorithim]

In that case, no. I like hiking and a lot of other activities that would be impossible for someone in a wheelchair to do.

[MollyTheOriginal]

That makes no sense though, so you'd be willing to suspend doing that if she was in a wheelchair after but not before? Lmao.

[Logorithim]

@MollyTheOriginal: Perhaps it should have occurred to you that there is a big difference between your wife or girlfriend becoming disabled and meeting a stranger who is disabled. I wouldn't break up with an SO if that happens, but I think I wouldn't be the most compatible person for a new relationship with a disabled woman who is in a wheelchair all the time.

[MollyTheOriginal]

Still doesn't make that much of a difference when you consider that someone new could have potential to become your SO, so you could be missing out big if you let a handicap get in the way of that.

[Logorithim]

@MollyTheOriginal: Did you see what @VIVANT experienced? I have a pretty good idea of what I'm compatible with.

[MollyTheOriginal]

No clue who that is nor do I have any interesting in reading through their posts, but the point was that we don't always know who's right for us, and overlooking someone who could have potential because of an impediment is a lost opportunity.

[Logorithim]

@MollyTheOriginal: Well, I have a pretty good idea of who is compatible with me and what I am not compatible with as a partner. That doesn't mean I can't be friends with her.

[brittslitt]

@Molly what's not to understand? are you slow? what he said makes perfect sense

[MollyTheOriginal]

@brittslitt there's no need to be so rude and immature, I don't know why so many people feel the need to act like that on here. And I understood what he said perfectly, I just didn't agree with it, but he's entitled to his opinion.

[brittslitt]

I'm not being rude your nor immature. What's immature is you not getting a difference of opinions. His choice is not for you to understand. He owes you no explanation. If u dont get something that simple then something isn't working upstairs.

[MollyTheOriginal]

@brittslitt Lol, you're just showing yourself to be the dense one for not getting MY opinion, and again you just showed your immaturity and rudeness, and since my tolerance level for people like you on this site is at an all time low, enjoy being blocked.

[brittslitt]

Girl bye you're slow.

[MollyTheOriginal]

@brittslitt The fact you continue to answer shows your need to feel superior, I genuinely feel sorry for you.

[brittslitt]

Bye you're slow.

[Kitty46]

I have Cerebral Pasly, I broke my ankle last year & dislocated it too, I went to the doctor yesterday, my ankle is 100% healed, but I have a new problem now, the doctor found something else wrong in my x-rays, I use a walker & wheelchair. My boyfriend loves me anyway 😍💜💙❤️

[jayden888]

I would if I was attracted to her and she was someone who made me my best self, was encouraging, loving and could talk to for hours on end. If the girl who cares for me happens to be in a wheelchair, that's nothing. Many times adversity make people realize deeper truths, so more love to her <3

And it's not like we wouldn't do other sexy stuff, we won't be able to do all of it, but that doesn't matter.

[Lemia]

I see why not!!! I am fed up of this sigma around people with any type of disabilites that they are incapable of love or making love. Their vagina's and cocks still work.

[MusicMayhem]

Never again. They don't get hit on much, if at all which makes them really needy and they try buy your love with constant presents which feels super awkward.

[VIVANT]

“They”

How many have you dated?

[MusicMayhem]

@VIVANT 1 officially. Was texting another but didn't meet her when I got needy vibes.

[VIVANT]

So almost 2. I don’t think that is statistical data 😁

[MusicMayhem]

@VIVANT it's enough evidence for me. Doesn't much matter. I can choose who I want to date based on my preferences.

[carameltwin]

Yeah. I already have before. Makes no difference to me if they in a wheelchair.

[markjohn9696]

maybe but u have two one with wheelchair and other is not then i will choose without wheelchair

im not evil i hope 😦

[Asker]

Good eyes. I thought it was a guy squatting next to the girl. What’s your vision?

[Dchrls78104]

Probably not. How would I know for sure that such a one would actually want me in her life, aside from the disability? Would she have chosen to be with me if she were not disabled?

[inmensus]

Only if we were together and then an accident or something like that happened. Otherwise, probably not. I'm a very active person and I'd like my partner to be the same way.

[Alice2398]

Yes I dont see why not. There still a person like everyone else , the chair doesn't define them

[brittslitt]

Because of the activities I like to do and the fact that I'm always on the go I wouldn't date them but friends yes..

[jokerishere88]

Fucking right I would shit you could have tham sit on your lap and you wheel the both of you to wear ever you are going

[sasukeuchiha7]

Not much of s problem. Although she better ready for roller coaster rides while I'm pushing the chair.

[Tyffen]

I would if we already were together.

But I wouldn't find them attractive if we are talking about dating in general...

[Redstang88]

I guess I would. Might be a bit of a challenge; my truck is definitely not wheelchair friendly

[adamski24]

Of course, as long as we got on it's not going to change who they're just because they're in a wheelchair

[Anonymous]

No i would make too many cripple jokes and i would call her wheels and always use stairs to piss her off

[honestopinions1oo]

yes may come with some challenges but they are just a person

[megaman242]

Sure, but I would have to move I live in second floor with no elevator

[Anonymous]

You i have relationship with the guy on wheelchair ♿ he has spinal cord injury.

[patrickstarz]

Yes I'd also feel sorry that they can't walk. I'm a very emotional person

[just_a_potato]

if I wanted to be with them yeah I would

[VIVANT]

Yup I almost did but he wasn’t interested 😐

[Tyffen]

Wait... He wasn't interested?

[VIVANT]

@Tyffen

Well ostensibly he thought it wouldn’t be a good fit bc I’m too hyper which I am.. but his truths told me he didn’t think I was really interested and I just felt pity— which. was. not. true.

Though he did end up dating someone else who was a lot calmer.. so maybe he was telling the truth 🤷‍♀️

[Tyffen]

Hmmmm... That might be...

Still, if I was handicapped, and had just a little interest from girls, I would jump at it... lol

[VIVANT]

@Tyffen

wouldn't want hm to say yes just bc of that though that’s suckfir both of us

I wouldn’t assume a handicap person nnecessarily lacks for dates — not enough info 🤷‍♀️😊

[patrickstarz]

Tyffen! Dont act like it's impossible for him to reject her. That man I the wheelchair could be handsome and rich

[patrickstarz]

That's prob why he liked her. You know how women are. They want something from you in return

[Tyffen]

@patrickstarz Well... I would assume that a relationship is a two person deal... So would be kind of stupid if one is attractive and morally solid, while the other is a complete douche and degenerate...

[VIVANT]

@Tyffen

I thought we were referring to Handicap as in physically not ethically?

[Tyffen]

No, we are talking physically handicapped

[VIVANT]

@Tyffen

I misunderstood bc I saw this >> Well... I would assume that a relationship is a two person deal... So would be kind of stupid if one is attractive and morally solid, while the other is a complete douche and degenerate...

Right after I says no reason to assume a handicap person is lacking in dates.

I didn’t see all you wrote invetween.

As for the guy I was interested in, he was a student he wasn’t rich I just really liked him. Ultimately I wasn’t his type. I don't know why his friend had said that what he says. Maybe the friend couldn’t see that people just liked him. Maybe he was jealous ifk. But it wasn’t pity from me and he had options and he wasn’t interested. It’s cool 😎😊

[Tyffen]

Ah, alright...

I guess that's good. 👍🏻

[VIVANT]

@Tyffen

Lol 😊

[Leafpool2]

Don't see why not. If I like her I like her.

[Grond21]

I would certainly be open to it

[Sarah-Luna]

Yeah i wouldn't mind.

[RichardTim]

No but I would no problem

[Gedaria]

Why not. They are human, ...

[thechesseman]

Yea. I'd call them my cyborg ninja companion.

[slurreyboy]

For sure... if I'm into someone that's it

[MlleCake]

I don't see why not.

[valualty]

As long as they're not numb down there 👇

[Davis04]

OMG yes, why not?

[boggboss]

I'm not actually

[Clyde_123]

Yes. Why not?

[Hrdnow]

In a second

[CT_CD]

No..

[Anonymous]

No. No thanks

[jimmy2]

Yes i would

[Anonymous]

If she was hot

[patrickstarz]

How cruel of u

[Opinion Owner]

So want her to be ugly?

[patrickstarz]

You know why beautiful women reject you? Because they find you ugly

[Opinion Owner]

I don't get what your saying lol. So you want your girlfriend to be hideous is what your implying

[Anonymous]

Sure