Is it normal to kiss, cuddle or hold hands on the first date, and what does kissing, holding hands or cuddling mean to you?

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Is kissing, cuddling and holding hands just a normal part of dating or is it a sign to you of something deeper and more meaningful?

Accidental_Genius · Accepted Answer

I did hold hands on the first day but it wasn't my plan to do that! It just happened! And then we rubbed our hands together for a little bit... but there was no kissing! I dont think thats normal on the first date! But Ikissed her on second date! Which happened because she prefered things to go fast and we started cuddling and I ended up kissing her without any regrets! I guess it depends on the girl and what type of relationship she prefers!

Edanurus · Accepted Answer

Holding hands sure, cuddling no but a hug us fine. Kissing just a good night kiss.

BlackRoseFairy · Accepted Answer

If I was on a first date with a guy and he reached for my hand I'd take it as a good sign... now cuddling depends on how you interpret it. Is it cuddling if he puts an arm around your shoulders while you walk and pulls you closer? Or does it have to be a strong hug? I'd be ok with the first but would certainly feel weird in the second case...
Kissing, yeah if there's a chemistry... why not?

ultimega · Accepted Answer

Depends on what kind of kiss hugs fine, however i find cuddling to be a more intimate for first date, personally.

Logorithim · Answer

I wouldn't say normal, but it's not that unusual.

Imcmullan · Answer

So many people are saying this is not normal- YES IT IS... RARE is a better word... ... that's when there is passion n extreme attraction to your significant other. My boyfriend n I fell in love the first day we hung out... and there was hugging, kissing, cuddling... ... then I've dated some where we grew to that point.

VIVANT · Answer

I’d rather not kiss but I like the other stuff its sweet

I hate when guys are too cool for school to hold hands and squeamish to hug, but have no problem mouth raping you with their tongue. Pass. 🤢

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yes and it means we’re making it official. Im looking forwards to Vegas

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Not usually on a first date.

PrincessGrail · Answer

I do all those things

needhelp777 · Answer

It means that I am wanted and that I am safe in his arms and that I am loved for who I am and etc

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes , it's fine with me if that's what happens between me and girl when we meet.

adolescentswede · Answer

It fundamentally mean you're comftorble being intimate.

Secretgardenblood · Answer

I never agreed kissing one hug or cuddle etc etc. Before marriage

Lance1965 · Answer

That is rare on a first date. Maybe a goodnight kiss if the date goes well.

Wowgirl30q · Answer

It means I'm on the way slowly to sleep with you

themomo84 · Answer

I think it's a little bit too much for a first date.

Sofie1979 · Answer

Kiss on Cheek on the first date no cuddling don’t start until I have complete trust in the person.

omgjassy · Answer

Not really normal but whatever floats their boat

ChiTown33 · Answer

It all depends on the party involved

Grond21 · Answer

I wait on those things till it is serious

ChiPaPa · Answer

Holding hands would be nice.

LuWe22 · Answer

No. That's for a relationship.

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