Do you kiss on the first date?

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I personally do not, even if I really like the person. I've learned through other relationship experiences that access to my body in anyway needs to be earned, and it's really easy not to see the red flags the first couple of dates. Date 3 is usually when a guy gets a kiss from me. Maybe date 2 depending on how close we are, but never date 1.

Bjorn526 · Accepted Answer

It’s so confusing because girls totally make out and round all basses on first dates if they want to, yet you know what all of them say, just before having sex on your first date, they almost always say, verbatim... “I can’t believe I’m doing this, I never do this, I hope you know that!”
I swear to god, i might as well get a neon sign and pull a string to light it up, right before they say it...

I’m not a slutty dude really, but my personal feeling, is trust your gut, some people bond quickly, some people need time, or not on a sexual vibe or whatever, but rules? I wouldn’t personally, respect or have less respect for, a girl who waits, for the sake of waiting, if you are honoring how you feel, and being true to the chemistry and bond, there is no stopwatch as far as I’m concerned

SC4321 · Accepted Answer

Well in my one relationship we kissed on the same night that we admitted our feelings to each other. We had known each other for a few months though and hung out as friends before that, so we were familiar with each other and it wasn't a typical first date where we were just getting to know each other.

I've never been on a typical first date, but I don't know if I'd kiss her until the second or third. I feel like I'd have to know her a bit better.

kitty71 · Accepted Answer

I believe it also depends of the age of the person. If you are talking about 2 mature adutls it be very silly if they dont Kiss at the end of the first date, as if they were kids beause adults do not go around the bushes. I even made out on the first date and hug with the guy I was attracted to. One year later at our second date it happened the same we both made out and even on the second date the guy even wanted to have sex, but I declined anyway.

LovingZombi · Accepted Answer

depends, i might kiss them or not on the first date. Its not an obligation to kiss them if you had a good time or not.
.. i won't sleep with them on the first date if its in any case (even if its the best date of my life). I accept the situation as it is.

xellax · Accepted Answer

I had sex with my now boyfriend on our first and we’ve been together for just over a year now. So yeah, I’d kiss on the first date. 😂

If it feels right go for it. If you don’t want to that’s fine too.

danii363 · Accepted Answer

No way, I like to develop a friendship first before any physical contact

Effably · Answer

I will put it this way; If we do not click enough to share a kiss after our first date then there is no real reason to have a second. I would assume she lacks interest if it does not happen.

Saville_Row · Answer

No. There's this guy I'm dating and we're already on our sixth or seventh, I lost the count. We do some comforting touches but no kiss yet. I just feel like it has to be in the right moment.

Minnie97 · Answer

I had sex with him on the "first date" but at that point all we wanted was to be friends with benefits anyway.

Joe_R0yAle · Answer

If you turn down a kiss on the first date especially if it was going well, it throws a lot of red flags towards the guy. Just saying.

KAF87 · Answer

Honestly I would feel that she was uninterested if we didn't at least have a light peck on the lips by the end of date 2.

B_nash · Answer

I have before because it doesn't usually matter. Tongue kisses are off limits on first night

j0731 · Answer

This really all depends.. if I feel a huge connection with some one maybe. However, I particularly love it when a guy finds even kissing worth a little wait. It’s more romantic

wolecollner · Answer

It depends on how the date gies, but if I have already been talking to a girl for a few weeks before the date, it's likely that I already have a strong attraction to her

Chase2398 · Answer

If I feel like if there was a connection on the date then yes I don't think there's anything wrong with it

SirRexington · Answer

Only if it goes unimaginably well and something between us says we should. Like a gravitational force of some sort.

opurba · Answer

No, I've to think about HIV aids. Coz I've heard saliva is the prime reason to get it up close n personal.

Sarcastro · Answer

Absolutely. You have to let her know from the start that you have romantic intentions

BeenShook · Answer

Yes, it's always nice to finish off the date with a kiss to convey mutual interest. A single prolonged kiss

winniethepoah · Answer

If there is no kiss on the first date it means someone wasn't into the other person in my opinion.

torwulf · Answer

Yes. Every time. When her body language tells me she wants it

owens97 · Answer

i manage to do a lot more than kiss on the first date

NashvilleGirl5 · Answer

I have in the past but I usually wait until at least the second date

chrisbigman · Answer

Not likely. Unless we have GREAT chemistry and we both know, it won't happen on the first date.

Just_Me89 · Answer

I haven't; but I would have to play each situation by ear.

Leo3572 · Answer

Depends on how well and quick things go. I won't say that's a all time thing. It depends.

ItsMeDoodles · Answer

I’ve personally never even kissed a girl because with the few girls I liked enough to date, I always got nervous, thus I chickened out.

Furuok · Answer

If we spend more than 10 minutes in awkward silence while staring at each other, smiling.

JoesCuriousBrain · Answer

It's 2018 stop being a prude and do what you want, stop being scared like a kid

mrb26 · Answer

I won't kiss on the first date. I already had couple girls tell me after the first an 2nd date that they had HERBS so i try to take things slow

Nachow · Answer

Really depends on the feedback that you have with the person you have on the date. Personally I have kissed in first date. But is really rare.

Sabster · Answer

Unless I didn't like the girl, always go in for a kiss, if it's a real date

virendra1234 · Answer

Second date provide u comfort and intrest indicated. so its not awkward

order66jedi · Answer

I'll fuck and nut in her eye on the first date if she let's me.

vald9inches · Answer

if the chemistry is there why not?

erica14 · Answer

Yes up stairs and down stairs

unknownuser113 · Answer

i would suck dick at first date

xctmnt · Answer

Sure. What if an asteroid hits tomorrow?

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Depends on the vibes she gives me

adamjanovic · Answer

If I liked the guy, yes.

briand1357 · Answer

Depends on the person and how the date went.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes if things go well.

Eleventy · Answer

I don't do dates, I find them stupid.

Smf1989 · Answer

It depends on how the date want

Chazdirk · Answer

I wait until she wants it

Julsko · Answer

Totally depends on the other person

covertzombie · Answer

It depends on the person

Roman143 · Answer

Because she is loving me so much... And I also...

nathanw72 · Answer

Always leave them wanting more

suraj3333 · Answer

Actually It depends on the partner Actually 😅

anuragk033 · Answer

I defenetly will😍

Mexicoman101 · Answer

Only always.

Shimy · Answer

No I don't

cupidkisses · Answer

No kiss

LuWe22 · Answer

Nope

Riyadh3 · Answer

yup , even fuck

welchjrm · Answer

It depends

huddo35 · Answer

Yes.

rapfan107 · Answer

Not usually

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