Do you kiss on the first date?

Do you kiss on the first date?
I personally do not, even if I really like the person. I've learned through other relationship experiences that access to my body in anyway needs to be earned, and it's really easy not to see the red flags the first couple of dates. Date 3 is usually when a guy gets a kiss from me. Maybe date 2 depending on how close we are, but never date 1.

  • Yes, I will kiss on the first date.
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  • No, I wait until the second date.
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  • No, I wait until the third date.
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  • No, I wait beyond the third date.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • It’s so confusing because girls totally make out and round all basses on first dates if they want to, yet you know what all of them say, just before having sex on your first date, they almost always say, verbatim... “I can’t believe I’m doing this, I never do this, I hope you know that!”
    I swear to god, i might as well get a neon sign and pull a string to light it up, right before they say it...

    I’m not a slutty dude really, but my personal feeling, is trust your gut, some people bond quickly, some people need time, or not on a sexual vibe or whatever, but rules? I wouldn’t personally, respect or have less respect for, a girl who waits, for the sake of waiting, if you are honoring how you feel, and being true to the chemistry and bond, there is no stopwatch as far as I’m concerned

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Most Helpful Girl

  • depends, i might kiss them or not on the first date. Its not an obligation to kiss them if you had a good time or not.
    .. i won't sleep with them on the first date if its in any case (even if its the best date of my life). I accept the situation as it is.

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What Guys Said 40

  • I will put it this way; If we do not click enough to share a kiss after our first date then there is no real reason to have a second. I would assume she lacks interest if it does not happen.

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  • Well in my one relationship we kissed on the same night that we admitted our feelings to each other. We had known each other for a few months though and hung out as friends before that, so we were familiar with each other and it wasn't a typical first date where we were just getting to know each other.

    I've never been on a typical first date, but I don't know if I'd kiss her until the second or third. I feel like I'd have to know her a bit better.

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  • If you turn down a kiss on the first date especially if it was going well, it throws a lot of red flags towards the guy. Just saying.

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  • Honestly I would feel that she was uninterested if we didn't at least have a light peck on the lips by the end of date 2.

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  • Only if it goes unimaginably well and something between us says we should. Like a gravitational force of some sort.

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What Girls Said 17

  • I had sex with my now boyfriend on our first and we’ve been together for just over a year now. So yeah, I’d kiss on the first date. 😂

    If it feels right go for it. If you don’t want to that’s fine too.

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  • I had sex with him on the "first date" but at that point all we wanted was to be friends with benefits anyway.

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  • I have before because it doesn't usually matter. Tongue kisses are off limits on first night

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  • I believe it also depends of the age of the person. If you are talking about 2 mature adutls it be very silly if they dont Kiss at the end of the first date, as if they were kids beause adults do not go around the bushes. I even made out on the first date and hug with the guy I was attracted to. One year later at our second date it happened the same we both made out and even on the second date the guy even wanted to have sex, but I declined anyway.

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  • No. There's this guy I'm dating and we're already on our sixth or seventh, I lost the count. We do some comforting touches but no kiss yet. I just feel like it has to be in the right moment.

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