lol all the guys said yes and all the girls said no.
It depends on men. I've been with girls try to bang me on first date. It's about what kind of feeling you give to them. If a girl feels comfortable with you and likes you at the same time they can't wait.
@Mamamialetmego Why only on men? In my experience, I would say it depends on both.
Well most men are eager to kiss or have sex on the first date. Women aprroach dating more timidly.
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Here's a reason why many aren't kissing on the first date (applies mostly to women):1. She wants to save both her virginity, innocence and purity to the right man. To find out if he's compatible for her, she wants to wait. Pregnancy regardless if it's planned or unplanned are a lot of work and she wants a father for the child too, not only it having a mother. In addition not all women are keen on getting an abortion if they can avoid it and contraceptive fails sometimes.2. In women a hormone gets released when they either kiss or have sex, meaning they would feel vulnerable and have feeling for the man even if they recently just met. If she gets the feeling for the wrong man without knowing more about his personality, life goals and how he's as a person, she would get more easily heartbroken when there were a kiss than just hanging out to get to know each others better if a break up happen. A kiss is binding women. It's very private, imitate etc. It's like selling or sacrificing your own soul to someone.3. She wants to save the best part to later so a romantic tension gets built up for the excitement's sake.4. She may want to get off the pill for two or three months before to determine if she has found the right man before getting on the pill again, and waiting with kissing and staying off the pill for a while helps. The pill is messing up with women's sense of smell and decision making, therefor many prefer going off the pill for a while.5. Many women don't think strangers deserves a kiss or sex like a loved one.These things may apply to men too to some extent, but not as much as to women.
I think if I was a woman wanting to date men, I would choose to do like many women are doing and wait although we shows chemistry and the date went well. It's smart to get to know your partner very well. Many men sees a kiss as "We want sex", and not all women wants sex at first either before knowing their partner very well for several years, simply because of it's disastrous to raise children with the wrong person. Children doesn't like parents who are arguing all the time or split up, therefor a good match is important.If I dates women as a man, I would know my own intentions and therefor have nothing to fear. I could control myself and simply not impregnating her or get her to bed. Therefor I would feel perfectly comfortable to kiss a woman on the first date if I found her cute. She may not know it, so from her perspective it's perfectly understandable as men and women are all different. Some men hints to sex and lust with a kiss, while other's may not have thought through it and just does it for fun. It's not enough to saying your intentions loud, because of she has to know you better to understand and not every people are equally honest either.
I am sure that applies to some countries or religious women, not so much here in Scandinavia.But we don't have dates in the same way many do in America, we usually dates without calling a date. We simply go out together, but if a girl doesn't feel a connection and want to kiss after spending an evening together she is probably not the one for me.Don't care about downvotes or how some bitches feels, I care about reality. My reality is maybe not sex on the first date but a kiss as sign of a successful date is the minimum.Of course I realise we may be "less moral" than some religious Americans, but this is our culture and we are predominantly atheists. Most Danes are not religious and most of those who do believe are not living in accordance with the Biblical sexual morals anyway, so the whole kiss thing you talked about doesn't really apply here.
This is true, and it pisses me off.
That's what I'm saying tryna be safe