+1 yIf it’s a guy I’ve known and have feelings for and I had a good time, I’ll definitely let him kiss me. I don’t mean a full make out session but a couple quick pecks, with my arms around his neck and his hand in my waist or around it. If I don’t know him that well and had a good time, I’ll give him a hug and kiss on the cheek but make sure to let him know, that I had a good time and we can do it again, if he wants. 😝 If I had a horrible time, it’s a quick hug and a quick get away. I don’t think guys realize that it’s hard for a girl to do that! We don’t wanna be a bitch but at the same time we don’t wanna lead a guy on.
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2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'd say yes if the date went well. A tender kiss before you part after the date is normal. What else are you going to do, shake hands?
I'm not talking about eating face and tangling tongues. Just a sweet kiss that says you like each other and are comfortable.
I wouldn't just grab a woman and kiss her. You normally face each other, read the body language, and slowly lean, gently embrace, and kiss goodnight.
I've had women initiate the kiss.
For example, I walked one woman to her door after our first date. After she unlocked the door, she turned, looked up into my eyes, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes, and gave me kiss. My hands went to her waist and her breasts pressed against me. Her lips were so soft and tender that it made my head swim.
We continued dating after that and wound up living together for over a year. She was amazing.
My wife did the same thing after our first date.10 Reply
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. One is allowed to put out on the first date but kissing nah that's too much!
I don't know, it's up to them what they wanna do.
If I had a first date and liked the girl she could come live with me, and I would be happy.
Hence why I have never really dated as such, just more you like me? Cool we are together now and we need to cuddle almost every night.
One of my Ex's on the day I met her, with her been friends of friends we hit it off and then when it was time for me to go home she just asked me where do I live? And could she come with?
I happily said yes and she came down, and stayed at mine for about half the week and we were together.
So what I am saying is I really don't mind how fast it goes.10 Reply
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+1 yI’ve been kissed on a first date a few times. I enjoyed it because we usually had a chemistry and had spent a very pleasant evening together.
The last man I dated also kissed me on a first date, right after we played a bit in rain. I liked that he was so playful with me because he was quite older.
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+1 yDepends on the person and how it goes
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+1 yI would do much more than just kissing... or else how would i know if i m coming for a 2nd date with him lol
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Wht do u mean? I couldn't understand sorry
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Ohh.. well for me i hav to know how he is going to be physically... so i just dont mind blowing him or going for sex even if its first date...
Sex with my dates never moved past the 2nd date hehe
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m +1 ydefinitely yes...
but, I do usually date when, and with someone I already know we're into each other that much to go out on a dates, so...
at least one kiss, is pretty much a given...32 Reply- +1 y
women tend to be more cautious and selective... which is a very wise thing to do, and to be... lol
+1 yI have kissed on the first date. I usually go in for a kiss, if I feel an attraction, and every girl was fine with it and kissed me back. If I don’t feel a connection, I don’t even try.
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+1 yHere's your 1st NO! I'm an exception right miss victoria lisia...😂
Like how am i going to have a kiss on the 1st date, while we are just getting to know each other, no thanks, give it some time until there are feelings in common than we might kiss, i don't mind how much time it takes but when it happens, i want it to be long and beautiful...
I think that i'll kiss only the girl that i'm sure, i'm going to marry in the future...
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+1 yI haven't tried this on a first date since I was 10 when I thought I was going to marry my babysitter. And no we weren't on a date. I thought her babysitting me counted lol.
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Lol. Yeah I had forgotten about this and my parents reminded me. I thought we were babysitting my younger siblings together because I was older than my siblings ha. I think my parents said something to me, in reply to me saying I was too old to be babysitted at ten, that she was here for my brother and sister. I remember she was so nice to me and when she hugged me I fell in love with her lol. She was prob 16 at the time. I had good taste ha. She was really pretty and a wonderful person. I ran into her years later with her husband. It was nice to see she married a nice man. If I couldn't have her then at least a good guy did hahaha lol.
692 opinions shared on Dating topic. I never push anything, and that includes kissing anytime... if she wants to, okay, but I'm good with whatever she wants anytime. No big deal to me anytime. I like what they do in France, meet and kiss on each cheek.
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+1 yI definitely haven't ever kissed on a first date. I don't think I would either, because I want to know the person and trust them and at least know that there will be a 2nd date first lol
10 Reply12.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I kiss her if she wants to be kissed. I've never had to ask, my dates always made their feelings plain. Women who wanted to be kissed got close and made it easy. Women who didn't keep some distance.
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I don't expect intimacy after a date -- it happens or it doesn't. If the date was a failure, then I don't want it. I we continue seeing each other then in my experience it happens eventually. I won't wait forever but I've never had to wait long. After three dates most women were inviting me to bed.
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+1 ySure, but you should only go for it if you can feel that they want to. Usually that does not happen on the first date in my experience.
20 Reply 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. It doesn't usually happen unless it's someone I've known for a long time where the tension has been building and she appears to feel the same way.
20 ReplyI kinda prefer the first few to be more chilled. No kissing for 4 to 5 dates can be fine. Not likely possible but fine
10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Blows my mind how many people are that easy and careless with their own body and health.
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+1 yBack in the day I would've said no. But if a girl is willing to kiss you, it shows how interested she is in a guy.
10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. You don't have to kiss me on our first date 😏
11 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Being a bit older it was my understanding that you always kissed the girl if only on the cheek when you brought her home afterwards. How else were you to let her know you enjoyed the time with her.
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+1 yI have sex on 20-50 percent of first dates so kissing is a definite yes if she's down
30 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends completely on the vibe. If the vibe is there nothing is off-limits.
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+1 yTypically no. The only exception is if I've known them a long time, in which case the transition from playing to romantic live has occasionally started with a kiss
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+1 yKisses on first date are fine. Without is fine, too.
The priority for a first date is conversing.
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+1 yIf it feels right. There's no pressure to but if you want then sure
10 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I've done everything on the first date before so I can't say much lol but now I'd say no lol, or better yet if you see a future with them taking your time is better but if you don't see a future go wild if the mood is right
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+1 yMy generation always had a kiss at the end of a first date. Now the intensity of the kiss determined how you felt about each other.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI would go with no. I think that those first few dates should be about getting to know each other and seeing if you think there is a possibility of something.
And that's not just because I couldn't do it.10 Reply
+1 yI try to tell if a woman wants me to kiss her or not.
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+1 yOK if it happens, OK if ti doesn't. I'll wait a couple of dates before going in
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+1 yNot sure/rather not... I need time :D
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+1 yDepends how the date goes.. sometimes yes and sometimes no
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10 moOn the first date with my partner I thought of trying but I chickened out. But she later said she wanted to do it to X)
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+1 yIt depends, sometime it takes a little more time. Unless we are talking about a pec on the cheek.
10 Reply If it feels right, some times it does some times no
10 Reply396 opinions shared on Dating topic. I want to say yes or no, because depends on girl..
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yDepends how it goes. If it happens, it happens. Nothing to be ashamed of.
10 Reply16.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Damn, I would hope so.
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+1 yIf you're feeling it then why not?
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Hahaha
If it went really well, yes
23 ReplyIf it feels right yes
20 Reply8K opinions shared on Dating topic. yes, unless she had onions.
30 ReplyDepends, I would mostly say no though
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+1 ynot immediately
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+1 yNot necessarily, but could do. Certainly have. 😉
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+1 yofc if the date goes well
30 ReplyI would hope 😊
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+1 yIf it feels right then yes
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It just depends for me. sometimes i feel it right away, sometimes it takes more time.
2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. If it feels right
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yFucking on the first date ♥
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yi personally don't think so, no.
10 Reply546 opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on the chemistry
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+1 yI wouldn’t, I don’t want to creep her out
10 Reply340 opinions shared on Dating topic. No. That's too early for me.
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Definitely YES
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+1 yToo early in my opinion.
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+1 yYes I would prefer it
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I really enjoy good kissing
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@Saramodel full tongue kiss is the most sensuous kind. I love it
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Done. You’re on
I don't think so, it takes time
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1 yYes IF I feel a good vibe.
00 Reply Yes if both are attracted to each other
20 ReplyYes I have many times
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+1 yDepends on how the date went
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+1 ysure, why not.
20 ReplyOf course yes , i need that
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