Answer: A set of physical and behavioral traits subconciously associated with fertility. Sounds superficial, but that is a big element for almost all guys, even if it isn't the only thing.
Nothing wrong with seeking someone who fits your more superficial preferences. The important thing is to give these preferences the lower priority they deserve.
Originally there are 3 traits that I personally seek in a woman that are the top 3 dealmakers:
- Kindness: Don't want to be involved with someone who is normally cruel, coldhearted, or evil.
- Intelligence: Don't want to be involved with someone who is an idiot. We all have our moments, so long as these moments are not a continuum of bad decisions and poor judgement.
- Grit: No one likes a quitter.
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This is what most women don't get. Guys aren't so different from them. Most guys just want a loyal companion and lover. But so many women choose bad guys that are only look for the latter. Rather than accept her mistake they just decide to paint all guys with the dame paint brush and then wonder why they're not happy.
Someone who lets them be themselves
Someone who will cater to their needs
Someone who will bust the puss open when theyre craving it most
Someone who will understand that their mom comes first
Someone who will want them for nonfinancial purposes
Someone who will make them feel like theyre the only handsome man in the world
They either want what @Logorithim said: Great companionship, great sex.
Or what Pink Anon said: Just to have fun and sex hehe and no emotional attachment to achieve those 2 things
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Great companionship, great sex.
I want a girl who isn't going to ask me what to wear or judge her clothes. Who doesn't overthink everything I say. Who says what she means and isn't subliminal messaging me. Understand that there's a life outside of our relationship, like work. Who isn't 100% dependent on me (most financially) who has her own goals and achievements and will help meet our mutual goals.
Good in bed, doesn't nag, can live her own life and have her own interests, and doesn't need to call him or text him about every little thing.
My best friend, my lover, my partner someone who has the same love langue as me, someone who has the same moral values as me, completely compatible
I just want someone who is someone I relate to and feel a connection with. Someone who Is pretty, sweet and smart.
Well mostly her boobs and pussy with no strings attached lol
Gosh I read all the answers. I'm real confused. While I still have some rational thought left I better give my answer. I want a woman who is my type likes me as much as I like her. I used to say there is a lot to be said for availability. So someone that is emotionally available. Doesn't have life issues, good attitude, and shared common interests. I love a soft kind voice.
Just based on the many questions and answers I’ve seen on this site, most of the men on gag seem to prefer someone who is conservative and old school.
Common interested, know from right to wrong , trustworthy , knows how to treat a woman with respectful. Be honest. Everyone is attracted to a different type of people. I probably why type for guys that in autism.
Apart from sex someone who'll tolerate them and feed them.
Trust, honesty, loyal, doesn’t cheat on you, to love you & great sex
Just to have fun and sex hehe and no emotional attachment to achieve those 2 things
A woman who is smart & good looking and who *doesn't* fetishize rape and violence.
Yeah I geddit, fictional women don't count, but a man can dream..Caring loving active fit and everything in common to start with must look after herself is a must and drives a car and hard working..
No ex boyfriends still hanging around her to is a must don’t like that crap.I want a woman who takes care of herself and is presentable but can get a little freaky in bed. We would inspire each other to be our best selves. And of course the standard answers like loyalty, honesty, kindess, intelligence, communication, etc.
Frequent good sex, not starfish sex, low maintenance/low drama, companionship, someone to have fun with, depending on the person babies, and domestic help. That pretty much covers the basics.
Not hos thats the worst. Id take a fat dumb but loyal virgin over a hot intelligent skanky ho any day of the week. Well in terms of a serious relationship anyways.
Great question 👍 I'm here for the comments lol
Women that don't require the man to change and let them be themselves No man should have to change who they are just to appeal/cater to the woman.
They want someone that’s like... a second mother or a maid.
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