A main thing is, women make men feel like men. We men love being adored and appreciated by their partner. Sometimes, because of our "stiff upper lip" mentality, we don't openly show it as much as women do because we think we have to be strong and stoic. But we need it as much as women do.
It's common knowledge that women like to be complimented. They worry a lot about being admired. They like being treated like they are special. Men like to feel that way, too. And women are the only ones that can make them feel that way. They love it when their woman tries to look her best for them. He feels ten feet tall when she slips her little hand trustingly into his, or wraps her hand around his arm and snuggles close when they walk together, as if she feels safe with him, thinks of him as her knight in shining armor and is proud to be seen with him. He feels manly when asked to open a jar, fix something, lift something, or reach something down from a high shelf for her. He melts when she smiles brightly or looks up searchingly into his eyes. These are all unspoken compliments. But spoken compliments are equally appreciated.
Women are the only ones who can make us feel warm and fuzzy, as well as horny and tingly.
Personality: She has a sense of dignity and pride, is nobody's doormat, knows her own mind, is wise, intelligent, loyal, honest and trustworthy, intuitive, tender-hearted, generous and nurturing. She loves togetherness and partnership but is not insecure, clingy or too dependent. Her reactions are genuine and spontaneous, not affected, calculating or self-conscious. She is bright-eyed, adventurous, inquisitive, fun loving and funny, skilled at communication, not coarse, loud, brash, rude or confrontational. She is a lady and enjoys being treated as one. She has great posture. Her grooming is feminine in the way she cares for her skin, hair and nails. She has taste and style in her choice of attire and is not averse to looking sexy (but not in a cheap or low-class way). But neither is she high maintenance or materialistic. She doesn't need Gucci bags, Prada shoes or Tiffany jewelry in order to look outstanding or feel good about herself.
Sexuality: She is 100% heterosexual. Masculinity turns her on. When it comes to sex, she is eager, adventurous and uninhibited. She loves being well fucked by a big, powerful male, but she can also be assertive in pursuing her own gratification and setting her limits. Her entire body is erogenous and responsive. She has an insatiable libido, is sensual and orgasmic and, as a result, intuitively understands how to drive a man wild. She's hungry for cum and is eager to suck it out of her man even when he is coated with her cream.
Whether in public or private, she makes her man feel like a man because she loves being female.
When it comes to physique (the first thing I look at but ultimately not as important as who she is on a personal, mental, or emotional level) I like girls who are particularly short. I like girls who are physically delicate and skinny with small frames. I like small breasts and a small, cute rear end. I like girls who are particularly feminine (both physically and mentally). Blue eyes are preferred. I love long, brown, slightly wavy hair (a bit past her mid-back) and especially so if it's in a ponytail, and love a girl whose collar bones and ribs are slightly visible. But I also like girls who are just soft in general? When it comes to who she is as a person, I like girls who are really happy, upbeat, optimistic, bubbly, gentle, sweet, kind, caring, benevolent, dependent, clingy, helpless, fairly innocent (but not for too long, lol), warm-hearted, and emotionally delicate (this is super attractive and cute). I think it's extremely cute when girls blush or get flushed. I think psychological neoteny is super sweet, cute, and endearing. I like good girls. I like girls who do cute things like lean over and kiss you on the cheek. I like girls who are a little quirky. I also like to make a lot of physical contact like holding hands and cuddling so that is fairly important. I also really enjoy a girl that I can just be open and honest with. I want the type of girl that I can just feel like I can be myself around and feel relaxed around.
Each person is different so generalising like that doesn't really help. Personally I don't particulary care for what they want in someone else, or at least no way I'm changing to fit someone expectations. I fyou don't like me, great, if you like, great too. I don't care.
Honestly? Loyalty. I'm serious. Be loyal, respectful, honest, don't be entitled, and don't treat me like shit most of the time; and you are already way ahead of your competition.
I don't think women realize just how shitty the women around them act. Because if they did... let me put it like this: My parents had a long, awful, bitter divorce. My mom spent many years psychotically angry at my dad. She couldn't understand why people didn't think he was a complete asshole (in fairness to her, the guy is a dick). It was only after she started dating her fiancé, and seeing how his ex treats him, that she finally realized how much crap men put up with. She actually had me tell my dad that she was sorry for the amount of shit she put him through, because of what she saw her fiancé put up with. My mom is 60 years old
Men want respect and friendship and support, more than love.
Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, ... teaching what is good, 4 so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,... - Titus 2:3-4
The Greek word translated "love their husbands" is philandrous from the root philos indicating more of a friendship-companionship bond.
Guys need friendship more than women can imagine. It's a lonely life being a guy.
I will tell you what I want honestly. Ofcourse I must be attracted to her , beautiful eyes, hair, face. Smile that makes me want to smile back, lips that I want to kiss her, good body, taller then-1,70m.. average body or athletic. Not to skiny not to fat. I want her to be positive, such person when you speak you know she is speaking from heart, likes to play around, playful or funny, patient, faithful, loving, caring, , a good heart girl. Probably not the one like instagram of entitled influencers.. simple beautiful girl
For women to abandon feminism and give men the respect that we deserve as equals like two sides of the same coin.
I want women to be caring and and lovable again. This doesn't mean i want a kitchen slave. I want a woman i can stand to be with for the rest of my life and i want to be the same man for that woman. I want someone who can be a loving mother to our children. Not some cunt who will divide our family with divorce for financial gain and validation.
I want a woman i can trust and in this day and age it has become impossible to trust and respect the modern women when women have let feminism speak for them.
Honestly I just want someone who I enjoy being around. I mean of course there are the things that are important for a relationship to work in the first place, such as good communication skills and maturity. But as for what I want out of the relationship, I ultimately want someone I can have fun with. Sharing similar interests is a key part in that in my opinion. Which interests isn't really important, as long as there's some common ground.
In terms of looks, I don't have any big requirements. As long as they're shorter than me (I'm 6'2") and have a similar build to mine (skinny but not underweight), that's more than enough. Who I actually fall for within those requirements varies vastly (but I've found that most of them have glasses lol, I guess that's just my type)
Someone that will listen, support them and find meaningful connections with them. Personally im looking for a geek/nerd girl and while every girl might not fit that, those that try but saying things that are close to help us bond are nice too. But just being willing to enjoy a simple conversation at a coffee shop can be nice
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Okay, first and foremost. We will follow the CARDS method here.
C for challenge - we like to feel challenged which means you gotta play hard to get, don't cling.
A for awesomeness - we like to feel awe, we like to feel useful for our skills. Our hardwork is dedicated to our decision to pursue you.
R for respect - we want you to work to earn our respect. Which means, don't be needy nor clingy.
D for desire - we like to think about you all day, which means giving us space. Men fall in love on a woman's absence while women fall in love on a man's presence.
S for safety - we like to feel like the protector or a knight in shining armor. We want to be chivalrous, meaning we want you to let us work to have you.
Call me old school all you want but the thing is, it takes a REAL MAN with confidence to pursue a STRONG WOMAN. Thus, we alpha males won't allow you to chase us.
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And it takes a STRONG WOMAN who doesn't settle for the bare minimun and truly knows her worth, thus not chasing anybody.
I NEED her to KNOW she is at least my EQUAL PARTNER!!! I respect her thoughts and feelings and love the unique things she shows me, that she likes, that I would never know, without her! I assume she likes the same, and we learn to share our mutual tastes with food, and maybe share cooking together. Honesty and Integrity are assumed. Trust and respect, as well.
Different men what different "things" from women. All the different things boil down to one or a combination of the following: 1. Companionship 2. Pleasure 3. Love 4. Caring 5. Intimacy 6. Hardworking 7. Mind of her own 8. Reliable 9. Sexual 10. Respect
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Ok. I'm gonna cut through all the idealistic bullcrap misconceptions here.
Men want 3 things. 1. A sexy woman, and lots of crazy sex with her. This is an inescapable reality of maleness. All this testosterone causes the sex drive of a deranged baboon. If you're a woman, for comparison, take your sex in your fertile window (just before ovulation) and multiply it by 2x. That's what the average man experiences constantly. Alternatively, inject testosterone.
2. A supportive partner, who understands the massive effort and sacrifice her goes through in order to keep his family prosperous. Someone who lets him de-stress when he's at home.
3. A good mother for their children. This is a bit difficult to define.
Their warmth, love, emotional support , trust , loyalty, respect , commitment, practically, and common sense. That I am number one in their life, that they want to be here with me, and will be here in years to come. That they are readily willing and able to apply their skills and strengths to the betterment of you both.
as possible. All that other stuff you mentioned is nice and important, but we'll never get there at all if the initial passionate physical attraction isn't there.
You do think correctly! The moment you ask "What can I do to make my boyfriend/girlfriend happy?" is the moment you start qualifying for relationships and become a girlfriend material. From there on it's a ride, an adventure, a course of actions.
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I'm going to be unapologetically honest.
No interest in feminism Submissiveness. Short body Long hair Big ass No gag reflex Not too thin, not too thick Love Care The ability to listen and to understand
Haha! I understand these except there's no such thing as 'no gag reflex'. Some people just have it weaker, otherwise, girls have to train it to be weaker.
You got maturity right but knowing you need maturity is completely different to actually understanding what it is and how to do things maturely with another guy. Ie insulting a guy when he opens his feelings about you isn't mature or nice if you don't like him you don't like him but it's completely different to lower his mental health.
In my opinion, I expect compassion, the feeling of getting a bond or connection when I talk with you, and the honesty which you display while you're with me. For me, showing your real nature or your inner beauty is more sexier than your outward appearance.
I’d say that’s accurate we basically want a companion someone to spend our life with someone that we can be ourselves around and not have them judge us for are flaws. It also gives us a sense of purpose why try to do better if it’s just us?
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It's important to have a woman who knows how to cook and clean. It's important to have a sexy little fucktoy who's great in bed. Its important to have a woman with brains and drive who can contribute to the household finances. It is absolutely essential that these women never meet
Bang on, no more and no less, it's the same as most men think women want from them, sadly most men find out they want that, an emotional punching bag, a walking cash machine, a metophorical garbage man.
That's a vague question with numerous answers. Either truth, luxury, fling, companion, buddy, girl or boyfriend. Acquaintance and pot luck. It depends on what kind of human beings you interact with.
Love - Is a given Support - Emotional, yes, but what else? Respect - always given, but how much? Isn't respect partially given, but still continually earned over time, much like trust?
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Sure. I think “maturity” is this weird nebulous idea that trips people up though. Girls will have their own idea about what is “mature” or what guys are “supposed” to be attracted to. Better to focus on what really is important and not get hung up on “maturity”.
straight forward, no drugs, no smoking, no alcohol, truthful, faithful, never break promises, supportive, no formalities, be a real person than giving a fake smile.
We want a woman who is easy on the eyes as well as easy with our hearts, one who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it bo matter the extremes, great sense of common sense, not afraid to love someone, treat everyone equal even if she doesn't like the person. Knows how to love a person with a full heart
It's really difficult to explain, but the best way to find out what men want in a woman is to look for media that targets a male audience and has elements of romance in it, watch it, and absorb it.
For a serous healthy relationship, compatibility, looks, personality and strong connection. For a casual relationship, looks and compatibility. For a hookup, looks.
Depends of the guy. It can be : sex sex sex, or what you say. Depends of the maturity of the dude. And his expectations. Can't pull a general rule here.
Honestly apart from inner and outer attraction, feeling wanted. Life as an adult male can be lonely at times. So having someone their who really listens and gives a crap makes it a lot better😄
Wouldn't hesitate saying that all men ain't that same. By for me I would go for a lady who has these traits: ⚫Intelligent ⚫Passionate ⚫Respecting ⚫Believer ⚫Honesty n loving ⚫Stylish Looks jump in Down.
I want a woman to be kind, smart, and beautiful to me.
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Anonymous
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MATURITY! There are so many young women, whom I instantly loose respect of due to them talking about their adventures of being hit on by strangers, talking silly behind male approachers and continuously acting paranoid “Is he looking at me?”, “Why is he doing that?”, “Why did he use the same door?”
I can only speak for myself, but I look for a woman who is intelligent, outgoing, compassionate and driven in life. I like a woman who is independent and who can carry a conversation.
Basic human respect. If you act like someone pissed in your Cheerios every day for no reason then there isn’t any point to keeping you around is there?
Yes, ALL of those, but also, intelligence and especially HUMOR!
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Anonymous
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Maturity is key. Way to many females act like children (throw tantrums, play victim, believe fantasy, have trouble with basic logic, no concept of finance, etc)
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